From Allie, Australia:
Hello Kim, my name is Aleishia. I think your site is really cool. Some bits aren't that interesting but most of it is really good, and i think you're pretty talented to have a site like this running so well!! And you're children are so gorgous!! And yeah, you're pretty too. As you say you've been stuffed around alot or whatever, so have I. I recall if at least one decent guy read this site it'd change his ways!! so good luck :-)

From Porscha, MD:
I love this site...until I found this site I thought that I was the only person in America who dated really fucked up men! Guy number one was a divorced 25 year old that dabbled in bisexuality and constantly talked about his ex-girlfriends and never neglected to show me quite a few nude photos of all of them! Yeah good times! Guy number two was also a divorced man, 28 years old with a son...turns out he was on steriods and had some rage problems! That was also fun for me! Guy number three was a nice college boy that went to bible study every Tuesday...he also thought it would be nice to wait to have sex (although I did not want to wait)...so instead we did everything except for intercourse (which to me is such bullshit, I don't believe Jesus condones oral sex before marriage ;)). As it turns out my "religious" guy was not up for seeing me anymore...even though he didn't mind messing around with me! So he dumped me at 2 am after attending a party that I invited him to (what a jerk...he had to wait until he was drunk enough to dump me)! This site is wonderful in that I have learned that everyone goes through some shitty relationships...THANK YOU!!!

From Jess:
Hey, I was just writing in to say that I do not hate men. I love a lot of men, actually. I do enjoy your sight, though. After awhile of online dating, I realized that men are absolutely conditioned by the media and they seriously think that there is a gorgeous, intelligent, successful woman behind every corner waiting to serve them in any way possible - meanwhile, they sit around until they are forty, beating it in mom's basement. Most guys are cowards. They want things to fall right into their laps with no effort (like online boys) and there is a brand new breed of video game boys who get their kicks through simulation and the company of OTHER pre-pubes (meanwhile they are turning 30) and all this frustration is building up inside them and they are focusing the media's unkept promise of true love and "stay at home dad" status on women. I guess more than anything, you seem like a terrific person to offer a great advice link for these Mama's Boys. They can't go wrong taking some of your advice. You don't hate men either. I wish that you wouldn't give yourself a label. You're fresh, well written. You're cool as hell. I have learned that a tremendous amount of young guys (20s and up) are taking ssri's and antidepressants so that really explains some of their lack of "sexiness" and "instinct" in the last 15 years.

From Kym, Ireland:
I think your site is soooo great. I had to tell all my mates about it and when they went in to have a look they told all their mates about it, now when all the girls go out together that's all we can talk about. MEN ARE SCUMBAGS

From Cilla:
Hi, My name is Cilla. I am 16 years old and already I hate men. Some are okay and I am friends with them and I also have a boyfriend, but he also pisses me off, I've been hurt alot in the past. I may only be 16 but I've had my experiences with men. Recently my boyfriend killed himself, he was a year younger then me. Now I am left with a scar on my heart that will never heal. In the past I have had boyfriends who abused me mentally, emotionally as well as physically. I go through a "I hate men" stage every month. There always is a guy who will piss you off no matter where you go or what you do. Plainly guys suck. Quote: "I finally realized why women become lesbians...it's because of men."
I made that quote up one day when I was pissed off at a guy, so I can see where you are coming from. Anyways I am just writing to say that I love your site. Email me back sometime and we can talk. Yours Truly

From Celia, IL:
I just wanted to thank you so much for making and running this site. While you have pointed out that it is meant for people with a sense of humor, I find that most EVERY negative statement made about men are true. I like to come here when I have yet another horrible experience with a member of the opposite sex. Keep up the good work!!

From Jenn, CA:
I absolutely love your site. I think it's hysterical that Marines are such shits. Thank you for the first laugh I've had in a month.

From Sheikie (Pronounced She Key), NY:
I have two things to say ... One I Like the site ... Two I've been looking everywhere for the design codes for mouse trail ... If you don't mind could you send the meta tag for it to me. Thank You ...babes!

From Heather:
Three words: You are brillant. You really are. You took everything that every woman had felt (at one time or another) and put it in one place. Brillant. Keep up the great work.

From Valerie:
That's really awesome! Kids are so cute. How old is Dakota? I like your site, do you really hate men as much as you portray? I like how you act and what you say about men it is soooo true! ;)

From Michelle:
Thank-you, Thank-you, Thank-you! You have properly described every idiot piece of IM and e-mail I have ever recieved! This web-site was looooooooooooong overdue. I hope men are reading this, but somehow I think they are too lobotomized to recognize themselves. The next piece of crap IM I receive, I will send it to you, although I think I recognize most of them. There must be 2 or 3 Bimbos out there that are giving these guys hope. Thanks for the entertaining website

From LCL:
I just wanna give you props for being able to actually get through those emails without shoving your fist through your skull and into your brains just to stop the dull pounding caused by how exasperating those morons are. " You're an evil slave"? Where the hell did that nut job come from? Just wanted to tell you to keep on keepin' on.

From Melanie, PA:
Ha! This is the best site I've stumbled across in quite a while. Although I'm quite the straight one, I often find myself repeating over and over how much I hate men. Today I just decided to type it into my browser, and ah! look at what I find. This is wonderful. It's so hilarious how many men email you and insult you, basically giving you even more cause to keep the site operational. If they really wanted to prove a point that they shouldn't be hated, wouldn't they email you with kind loving words? Of course not. There's too much testosterone circulating in their systems to consider things rational things like this. Anyway, keep up the good work. Just a tiny suggestion though, would you ever consider changing your layout? To something more... uh, what's the word... I don't know what the word is. But I'm sure you know what I mean...

From Sekhment, TX:
I just had to tell you that I love your site. It's awesome!!! I just can't believe some people take this seriously. After reading all those comments I couldn't help but wonder if some of those people had some major issuses to work on. But I do love your site. I just broke up with my boyfriend of six years about a week ago, and somehow I managed to find your site around that time. It really helped me get through the process. Thank you. Now I have someone who treats me so much better and gives me the respect that I deserve. Anyways...Congratulations on such a wonderful and clever site. Keep up the good work!!!

From Ateeya, PA:
I was "dating" this guy. Who told me he was a certain age. Well we went all the way together. Later on I find out that he is really way, way, way younger than he says he is which is a big deal for me. We are no longer anything. But now that I have this site I can express how much I hate Guys!!!!!!!!!!

From Meghan D:
Your phatness overwhelms me!!

From C.LADY, FL:
I have got to tell you that I have just found the perfect site to express how much I hate men. After 40 years of marriage my husband left me for a bar room tramp. I have so much hate in me still after 2 years. He put me through this twice. You go girl with this site. I may be your biggest fan.

From CSloan:
Hi Kim, Please let me start by saying you have very beautiful children(minbio). I competely understand that this site is for entertainment purposes, but I was wondering if you could offer any adivce to a women whom is not gay, but totally hates men, due to the stupid men who have a huge negitive impact on her life. Thank you for your time.

From Baby girl:
Hi there, I just want to state that I am in a relationship and I love my spouse with all my heart, but this is by far the most funniest site I have come across. The things that are stated about the men are so true and I must say that your responses to the hate mail you receive are pure genius. I could not stop laughing, as a matter of fact, I am still laughing now!!!! I can't wait to show my fiance just as soon as he gets in from work. I applaud you for doing what many are afraid to do, keep up the good work. Have a blessed day.

From Chrissie, Denmark:
Dear "I hate men", I was just sitting here in Denmark where I live wallowing in my revenge-plans for the sucky ass**** I just dumped after finding out that he was still with his ex-girlfriend. Now I can be pretty nasty, which is why I intially contemplated getting him back. Now after visiting a revenge site yesterday, I decided to look for a site where women could trash men like they deserve. And look what I found - the most fantastic site ever, I absolute love it!!!!! After thinking about this a lot, I decided that as groovy as God is,he should just have created a spermbank for women and cast away the sucky guys - just imagine how wonderful life would be!!!!!!!!!! Thumbs up for all the girls out there - don't ever let a man treat you like dirt!!!

From Melanie:
OHHH I hate men sooo much. Thanks girl.

From Julia, MN:
I'm sorry to bother you, I just got out of a bad relationship... physical abuse, mental abuse, cheating, the works. I'm only 18, but I've probably had every bone in my body broken by him at least once. He's still the winner out my choices so far... I just wanted to tell you you're website made me laugh and at least feel a little better. So I'm just saying thanks and stuff. God bless.

From mman man:
I just love your site, ever since my boyfriend left me I really have hated men. I hope we continue this narly website, by the way, I don't drink.

From Virgin Garcia, IL:
I don't want him to get in trouble. But he thinks it's ok. I'm sore, hurt, and I'm defeated. I have nothing left. I know you can't help me. But I thank you for giving me a way to vent. The bruises will heal and my pain is lessened. Thank you. Please do not try to contact me. It would be so bad. Good bye.

From Shygirl, CO:
Hey Kim. I'm a big fan of yours. I totally agree with you on men. They are stupid but that took me a long time to realize. I had my heart broken many times but I'm fed up already. Well I have to go. Bye,THANKS

From Lisa, Australia:
Hey I think your site ROCKS!!! Keep it up sweety :)

From Liza, UK:
Hi Kim, My name is Liza. I'm from Scotland, but I'm staying in the Netherlands at the moment. I found your site to be very interesting. I absolutely agree with everything you've said so far. I don't hate men, but I think most of them are a waste of space. My father was a child molester. My friend's father was a pedophile. I was a victim of both, or as I prefer to say " a survivor of both". My boyfriend of 11 years also beat me. I'm 28. I was really starting to hate men. Then I met Alex. I met him in a chatroom. We talked for a while, then we met, and so on. At present I am living with him. He has showed me that there are good men too. He's so sweet. I can't believe my luck. So there are respectful and caring men out there, but sadly , just not too many. Your site is great, and I don't think your ugly at all. You seem like a pretty intelligent woman. Your pictures of your children were beautiful. Good luck on your site. I would appreciate it if you put my views on your site. Yours Sincerely Liza

From Ms D., AE:
Hi, I recently stumbled across this web site, and I absolutely love it! I check it daily! I posted something on the "advice" column, and within a week, I got a response...I really appreciated that. I did what you "suggested". And now, I am alone--HAPPILY ALONE! But, I am spending more time at the gym, without as many worries. I have told everyone about your website...I think you are great for taking the time to do this...from making us laugh, to pointing us in the right direction...Go get'em Girl...And thanks for bringing all of us along for the ride!

From Emma:
Hey peeps. I think this site rocks!!!! To all the guys that are slagging this site...why the hell are you? its a joke for God's sake. How many of you men have ever told a sexist joke? I bet 90% at least so why the hell wouldn't we get a chance. Ok fine, all men aren't bastards but the ones who are are the ones who write abusive messages on the site. I think that it really demonstrates your manhood and level of self control if you can't do anything but "shout" at the marvelous inventor of this site. In case any of you are interested there is an ihatewomen site which was created before this one. hm...so who's the pig now?

From Lucious Tits, NY:
I just love tuning in to ihatemen.com. It's just so fun, funny, interesting, and relaxing. And of course most of all trule regardless if it's in a joke or not it can actually be true. Kim, you know what else would be great if you had created a place where us young ladies can go and conversate about our feelings and share our opinions on men and the real life. That would be great. Well just write back and let me know what you think!

From Frankie, CA:
Hey...long time no write! I lost my old favorites list so I kinda lost track of the site, but I got bored and searched my email in google, and it came up with a hit here! I'm glad the site's still up and running. I have just one little request: you have all those dating tips, which are good and all, but do you have any for high schoolers? Thanks, and again, great job with the site. It still makes me laugh :)

From Lauren, AZ:
Kim, I just wanted to thank you so much for this great website. I have recently gotten out of an abusive relationship and this is what I truly needed...a place to laugh about all the frustrations and pain. As horrible as the 11 months in that relationship were, I think that it was worth it. The blindfold has been taken from my eyes, and now I can finally see through men and their facades. This site, especially your Serious Stuff column has helped me in so many ways that I cannot begin to tell you how much I appreciate it. I am a 15 year old girl and I've been assaulted more times than I can count. Your column finally made me realize that its not my fault nor can I blame myself for it anymore. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!

From Celina, the UK:
Hey, After arguing with my boyfriend all day I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one who hates men. :)-

From ITS ME!! woo-hoo, CA:
WOO-HOO nice site. Forgot your name, lol, that sounds stupid huh? Yup oh well, cool site. Its funny, it made me laugh because I know lots of guys like that [ none I hang out with ] Keep up the good work, except for on your hatemale page, stop making comments on vocab and grammar it's a freaking computer. I don't want to be proper on it. Alright that's my only bad-comment-thingy on this site. Okay I'm just bored now, so BYE!! Sincerely, me