From Christel:
I tell you, this site is just what I need tonight to vent. I'm hurt and angry, although I still retain the highest sense of myself and whatever vengeful little thoughts I need to affirm for me that I have the upper hand throughout a battle with a total, chauvinistic jerk. It's been helpful to create and utilize some real effective terminology to concisely describe what this man tries to do. He has the gall to want complete deference in any situation; he wants me to agree to his ideas and perspectives in all things; he wants me to show "mad love" to him as a prerequisite for him treating me nicely, quoting from an Eric Benet song, "I promise you'll thank me if you do just what you're told." Benet was talking about giving sexual pleasure and having intimate trust. Anyway, ladies, do not succumb to a man who tries to take away from you the privilege of your personhood. You are unique beings with sensitive, kind, and grand ideas, and we don't need to engage the drama from insecure men whose triumph and sense of self-worth comes from being successfully abrasive and unkind to a loving and intelligent woman. Shoot, I feel better aleady. Thanks for letting me share.

From Julie:
You are so wonderful, talented, spirited, witty and RIGHT ON! Sites like this make me feel better about living in the patriarchy and those retorts from males that you get simply reinforce WHY there needs to be a site like this. Thanks again, whole-heartedly and STICK TO IT!!! With warm wishes and gratitude, Julie (age 24, Bellingham, WA)

From Diana:
What a terrific site - I just broke up with my man after 6 years of back and forth BS !!!!! I am a major hater. From the guys that INSIST on having your # and not calling to the guys who call and you wish they hadn't!!! Keep up the good work.

From Firefox:
*sniff* *wipes tears of laughter from eyes* your site is beautiful.. just what I needed today of all days, thank you VERY much.

From Em:
Hey just writing to give total support to your site. I have just about had enough of good for nothing, fucking wanker men. Fed up with their attitudes, lack of understanding and effort and general laddish behaviour. I officially hate men.Keep up the good work.

From Holly:
This is Great. Girls need a place to go when guys are total pigs, when are
they not?

From PR:
Wow what a great site. I have recently met a guy, at first he didnt know what I looked like, So I sent him my pic through the internet & he hasnt spoken 2 me since. Hes older then me, Im 18 & hes 29 that could B why but I would still like 2 know. Men R such a$$hOles!!!!!!!!!!!!!

From Jill:
Great site!

From KT:
Brilliant!
I'm a man, just bumped into your site, it's got to be one of the funniest
ever, I'm busy printing out some of the material to show my wife when she gets home!
I had to laugh, even at the bits about men that are true. If we can't
laugh at ourselves we haven't a hope in hell of getting on equal terms
with women. Keep it going it's great............

From Jayne:
Thanks for your quick reply, goodluck with the webpage, it's very stress relieving, and stops me killing the "king of the world" men drivers who cut you up all the time just to get to the traffic lights a nanosecond before you, guess what I'vr been doing today, thats right driving! it's funny but most of them drive huge cars, mainly red, are there issues going on here I wonder? I think we all know the answer to that one.

From Kelly:
The site is awesome. just found it yesterday and i've told all the girls i know about it!

From Lane:
Thanks for the site! It really put me in a better mood knowing that other women feel as irritated as I do about all the illogical, senseless things men do. I am trying to decide what to do with my significant other after over a year, since he keeps telling me how much he "needs his space." Why do men have this incessant "need for space"? If I love someone, I want to spend as much time with them as I can. But that logic seems to escape mankind. Thanks again for the site, it made me laugh!

From Laura:
I have just been on the site for the first time and I love it! I'm glad I
have eventually found a site and a girl that shares my views lol.

From Lola:
I find it funny how the angry men have responded. They take it so personally and they send out a list of mispelled insults, and insults towards the female anatomy that they so dearly want to have sex with. One guy insulted women by saying that they don't use intelligence to get ahead in the world. His head must have been stuck in the sand for how ever many years he has been here or else he watches too many movies directed by misogynists such as himself. Hehe. Thanks for the site. I think it is nice to have sites like these to vent in a world full of women-haters who think of women in such a low way. I am happy for all of the strong women here who have left abusive and lying men. Maybe one day men will realize that the media's portrayal of a sexy man (also known as..the arsehole type) is not the one who gets the woman in the end. Please note that boys: women may get intimate with you temporarily, but in the long run, they LEAVE men like you (and they always will). I suggest that guys relax and enjoy this site, and listen to us complain about them for a change. By the way, I don't have adams rib. My cvnt is not a wound, it is my portal of pleasure, not men's! I am in full control of my body and mind. I dont believe any of that patriarchial junk. Always remember what Eleanor Roosevelt said, "You can never be made to feel inferior without your consent." Therefore, as soon as a guy seems less than prince charming, dump his arse. Thanks for this site.

From Bumblebee:
I just wanted to tell you that i love your site and to keep up the good work!

From Gotawife:
Dear kim, I love your website. You will be seeing alot of me. My name is Got a wife? The reason for that is because everyone that has one, especially one in particular, wants to fuck me. Because I am independent and good looking, I guess my feelings don't count. So now I use my looks to treat men like the way they treat me. I'm sam on sex and the city..I love your pictures and think you're cute as hell, I will be turning on all my girlfriends to you I have a ton of them.xoxo Got a wife?

From Little Miss Manhater, NY:
You and your site inspire me! I wish we were neighbors. :)

From Odenseaner, Denmark:
Thankyou for a great site.......I was in a real nasty mood...something to do with a guy...but I ended up laughing so hard that I cried.

From Selena, Netherlands:
Hello Selena speaking here. I'm from Holland, so my English is not the greatest!! Sorry for that but I just want to say something!! All those men and boys that send all that hate mail are so pathetic!
Their reaction makes everything what's on this site to be logical!! So if the 'men' who send you this hate-mail think a bit better they will agree with you!! I don't think as bad about men as this site because I have a boyfriend and he's really sweet for me. He's always there if I need him, also when I
had a difficult period because of problems in school he didn't let me down and he helped me to get over it. Some men are pathetic, I agree!! If I say I'm pretty that's what all my friends tell me, then it's just they use you no matter how you look, some men are just animals!! But this is just my opinion! And for all those 'men' don't be angry this is just a site with someone's opinion!!! And you can always say your opinion!!! If you men react normal on everything that happens in the world this site won't even exist!! Greets

From Violet:
Hey--how are you? I just wanted to say how much I love all the additions you are making on the website! I love the page--I have been visiting it for about two years now and I just love it. Thanks for all the support!!! The jokes and cartoons are the best. Oh, and I just cannot believe the nerve of that woman calling you a liar, believing her sleazebag boyfriend over you!!! Has she not learned anything from ihatemen.com???

From Gina, CA:
I just had to say that your children are absolutely adorable.

From Leetwo:
I like ihatemen.com. I have a guy friend that I like a lot and he said he likes me but he has a girlfriend. When I talk to him, I go to ihatemen.com and it makes me feel good. I have an ex-boyfriend that I do the same to.. so I just wanted to say hi and to tell you that I like this site.

From Trace, WV:
Love your site Kim! I respect that you can sit there and take all the crap from people who hate your site, and you as well. You go girl! lol. I think some people are just severely insecure if they get all mad about what you have on your site, and if they were the mature adults they are supposed to be, they wouldn't be acting like little kids and letting it bother them. Keep up the hilarious site!

From Tiffany, AR:
Hey- I just came across your site while looking for things to settle me because I just broke up with my boyfriend. Good God, I never thought anyone could put everything true about men into one site. I love it. Thanks you made me feel alot better.

From Kimberly, WI:
I have been looking for a site like this forever. I can't believe it took me this long to type in ihatemen.com!!!LOL I have been having problems with my boyfriend lately and I need a place to vent. Every other place has fanatic women who just don't get it. They have the "perfect" man, so they can't relate. (Give it a few weeks!!) Anyway, thanks for the support. It's just what I needed. I will definitely email ihatewomen.com, this site is much better and they should know that!!Thanks a million!

From Hails, Australia:
UUMMM I'm a new fan of this site but I also go onto ihatewomen.com to see what those dicks have on their web site. LOL! As if any of it is worth reading anyway. Ok, well just in case you didn't already know on SLAMMY'S page of HIS women <lol> he can get women. But anyway you picture is on it. F U ok well it says on it that you don't know that it exists but you do now. <I do now! Thanks for the tip. -- Kim>

From Sue:
Dear Kim, Thank you very much for an absolutley wonderful site which I needed very much at this moment. To say 'I hate men' is a major understatement, and I really honestly feel that I am sometimes at a point where I could do something very violent and very bloody to a whole lot of them and enjoy it oh so much. I was beaten up and emotionally abused by my ex husband for 5 years, then I proceeded (to very stupidly and trustingly) get involved with a married man for the next 4 years(whom I did not know was married.. oh dear....) and now I am raising two more of the testosterone soaked individuals by myself, who fight constantly and are slowly driving me insane. I realize that you criticize the English of many of the men that email you but I beg you from
the bottom of my heart not to do the same to me. I wish MORE than anything that I was a lesbian and often say a prayer begging for 'a change' to occur but (sadly) I am not and still love and long for a half decent man. Am I naive or what? I have recently worked in a 'massage centre' as a hand
reliever and now realize that the chances of meeting a decent male are very slim and probably non-existant. Married girls, I do believe that is where your husband is right now. So to end a sad, sad story I now religiously watch "Queer as Folk" and hope more than anything that I return as a gay
male at the hands of Brian Kinney. Once again, thank you very much for your site. One of the spawn are once again demanding some kind of attention but it does make me feel SO much better to know I am not the only one.

From Shorty:
Keep up the good work with your site!!!

From Sarah:
I think your site is funny. I'm a girl and my boyfriend and I stumbled across your site and had a really good laugh. It's great to see the hate mail as they truly emphasize the reason as to why sites like this are created in the first place! I think a true, good man is one who doesn't take their 'manhood' so seriously, to the guys who write obscenities to you: get a life! They obviously do not realize that they are providing serious humor, shown through their hilarious insecurities and distressing use of the English language and grammar incapabilities. Only those with a brain can understand the humor. Those who take it seriously are lacking in the cognitive department. Keep up the good work!
p.s. To the imbecile men, Cognitive means 'thinking' thats, t-h-i-n-k-i-n-g. Understand? I didn't think so......

From Becky, PA:
My friend and I often go on this website and laugh at the jokes and other funny stuff. Some of the sections describe a teacher at my school that I graduated from last month so I am thankful I am away from him and his class.

From Rlonzo:
Hey, I think this is a great site. I just found it the other day and just checked it today. I read through some of the IM's and laughed my ass off. Where the hell do you find these kind of guys? The website is great, keep up the good work. I will definitely return to this page.

From MR and sweet angel:
Kim: You have put together an outstanding web site. I have not laughed so hard in some time. My slave also enjoyed it and we have both added it to our favorites list. I am sure you will have some comment to make about my name and/or lifestyle choice, but that is okay, you are a funny lady and I enjoy reading your site. Keep up the good work.

From Bita, United Arabs:
Hi, I would just like to say KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK ! .

From Kenalee, WI:
HaHa I love the site. It's so funny! Great job :)

From Naomi, New Zealand:
Hey hi, I just want to say I saw you on the Ricki Lake show and I love my husband and am sure there are many, many men that deserve to be hated.

From Jessica:
I can't imagine how hard you laugh when you get those hate emails. They prove nothing except more evidence that most men are egotistical inconsiderate fuckwits. You're site is so kick ass! Thank you!

From Empress Biach, NE:
Hello Kim, I like your website! It's a nice place to vent frustrations and take in what is humorous about relationship quirks. I'm a huge fan of your commentary on the disgruntled manspeak letters. I'll definitely recommend it to my friends...that is my women friends.

From Amy S., FL:
Hey Kim! I just wanted to say I lovvve this site....I don't know when guys will learn. I was reading through your hate mail (figures they're all from guys). But they do themselves NO JUSTICE. LOL Just proves themselves even more...Thanks for being so strong! Even when they had nothing nice to say Good Luck.....

From Trixie, MI:
Hi. I just want to tell you that I LOVE your site. I don't hate all men, but the majority of them tend to piss me off. I have had bad experiences with men. I've been in an abusive relationship and been cheated on numerous times. As a matter of fact, I hate most men so much, that I'm practically a
lesbian, but some guys are just too good to pass up. I think it's horrible how women have to work harder to get the same treatment as a man would in the work place and I think it's horrible how men seem to ignore all of these facts. Well anyways, just keep up the good work!

From Vira B.:
Every man I have known betrayed me.......my boyfriend, my dad, my grandfather, my best friend. I hate them all. They all ruined my life. I have dreams about them but I have knocked out about 40 men. They all wanted my phone number. I live in California and my name is Vira please let me join for my pure revenge upon those @#*$^#%#. Anyway I wish to kill them all.

From NIKKI, NY:
Hello, Kim! How are you, I think your site is so gut busting funny! I just typed in the URL for the hell of it and, low and behold it popped up before my eyes with all of its splender. You know that men are nothing but a bunch of babbling, cry babies. They have all these sites that objectify women in just about every song, movie and music video we play that the woman that is not worth a damn thing. Then you come out with this clever site that allows all of us to show what we think and allows us to say the things that most of us only tell our closest friends behind closed doors. And you are a lesbo and the anti christ? LOL What a joke? I mean that only goes to show that in most cases men are too damn wrapped up in themselves to realize that life is not up their ass where their noses are. I have noticed something very interesting here, most of the men that have something to say about you being ugly, gay, fat etc. have names that are consistant with God or something to do with being Godly, ie The Man, Jesus Christ, God, give me a break. I guess that what they say is right MAN does have a God complex. Too bad most men are not Godly enough, to actually fill that position. Oh, your kids are so cute, but I don't think that you should have them on this site, with their entire life spand of info, judging by the things said on this site by some of these men, they aren't too stable. And they just might live in your neighborhood. (You can take this part out if you are going to post this.) Will be visiting your site shortly until then, KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

From Ellie:
Thank you so much for this website, I'm addicted!! Its really helped me getting over a broken heart andI just want to thank everyone who has shared their little encounters with us. I know I have (check out the public msg board 'squaddies r all talk). This site always gets me in a good mood when I'm down, so thanks again.

From Megan:
Hey Kim, I just wanted to tell you that your children are beautiful, and that you're not ugly by far. Any man that says that is bitter himself, and has nothing better to do than look at sites and try to bring people down because of his own insecurities. I don't hate men, but I'm not sure what to do with them at this point. But then, I'm not exactly old or really men experienced, haha. But what I do know of them...well I won't go there. Anyway, you're doing well.

From AL, South Africa:
I was drawn to this site by the name alone. It IS...admittedly...VERY appealing! :) I must now let it be known that I am entirely engrossed! It's informative and extremely funny!! (especially your witty retorts and too pathetic lil' come-on lines!!). You now have a South African fan...feel privileged!! VERY privileged.. ;) lol

From Crickett, MO:
I came across the website by accident. I am upset with my situation with my fiance. I was just surfing the web taking a break and typed in ihatemen in the search engine and this came up. This is a wonderful site. You can come here and vent, vent, vent. Thanks. It is calming to know that I am not the only one.

From Mary, TX:
Thank you for creating this site. Otherwise my husband could well be pushing up daisies by now. He has a double standard for everything. If he does something it's ok but when I go and do the same thing we end up arguing. One time he had a day off from work. We were going to go into the city and hang out and have dinner later but, the car broke down so we couldn't go. So, he decides he will go into work instead. Well, he is already a workaholic anyway but I guess one day off alone with me was just such a horrible thought. He says if were not going anywhere then I'm not gonna hang around the house all day. If I decided to work on my day off instead of be with him he would be so angry. Oh, and he is in denial too. I tell him you do things a certain way and you are annoying me. And he says no I don't. What am I lying???? He says I just WANT to argue. I was never a violent person until I met him. But.....whatever.He hates that word so I say it alot!

From Mknzybsofh, AZ:
Kim, Keep up the great work! I love this website. I'll see what I can find in the way of submissions.

From Linda, Sweden:
Hi Kim! I´ve written you before, saying that I just adore your site, I still do.Now I have to compliment you again and thank you so very much for the "Tips 4 women"-section. I´m currently dating a wonderful (so far ;)) guy but due to my lack of experience there-of I can sometimes feel, well insecure of myself. I don´t know why, but every time I find a guy I really like, it becomes so
easy for me to start compromising with my own integrity, and standards. I don´t think this behavior is unusual for women, and so here is where your T4W-section becomes useful. I think women all over the world need encouragement to stand up for themselves, to believe it is our right to be the person we are, and want to be. And we need sites like yours that reveals the myth saying men are always right, that women should adapt to the male behavior and except it no matter how it takes it´s form. So again Kim - thank you. Hope everything is well with you and your family.

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