Rants & Raves

This is the place to vent about the men in your life. Have a rant or rave you want to get off your chest? Send it in! And check out the stories below. I bet you'll find something that sounds familiar....

As with several other pages of the site, thanks to all of your contributions, we've had to expand to more than one page. There are new rants at the bottom of this page and more on Page 2.

From ELMS (Former webmaster of ihatemen.com):

The old one:
I've known since I was a little grrl that men are a pain in the a$$ to deal with when it comes to the bathroom. What the hell is up with that? How freakin' difficult could it be to hit a target roughly 8 inches by 12 inches or so? And they want to play with guns? I think not. Why the hell should a man purchase and use a gun when he can't even aim his own dick? The logic in this would be where???? That's what I thought. Ok.. Let's break this down a little more.

Scenario Number Uno:
Man stands at toilet. Man pulls out "member". Man aims and pisses. Man hits not only hole in toilet seat, but toilet seat and floor around toilet. Man only had to aim from a short distance.

Scenario Number Zwei:
Man buys gun. Man goes to "practice". Man has to aim from much longer distance than the "toilet-to-dick" length.

If I hear, "There's nothing on TV tonight" one more time I think I will scream. And you all will hear me.
What's up with that? How the hell do you expect men to realize if there is "anything" on the television or not? The last time I checked there was over 75 channels to choose from, and they want to say "there's nothing on." Whatever. If men could take the time to watch more than 1.025 seconds of each channel, they would realize there IS something on TV tonight. There's even death and destruction on TV tonight. We all love death and destruction don't we?!? Yah! Death and Destruction!! And if death & destruction aren't your faves, there's always playstation2 commercials...

I am sick and tired of hearing guys say stuff like "I can pee in the woods" and "I can write my name in pee in the snow," etc. etc. etc. Ya know what guys.... SO CAN WOMEN!!! Surprise!! Yeah, go ahead and pick your hairy chiny-chin-chins up off the floor. Women do have the ability to urinate standing up. Guaranteed, it might take us a little more practice at first, but by golly, it IS possible. (and no, I'm not talking about stradling a hole in the floor or using a funnel or something -- I'm talking about real peeing standing up, into toilets, into urinals, even writing our names in the snow if we want). For all of the ladies out there that are not familiar with this practice, check out The Women's Guide on How to Pee Standing Up. And yes, this really works. I Have proof. No pics though... sorry.

You know what else really pisses me off??? The "I'm not like them" game men play. It starts off on a site like this one or in a chatroom (which we will be adding soon) or hell, even in a bar or danceclub. A female (or other male) opens their mouths and their minds and says things like "men just really suck," or "can you believe what this guy did to me???" or even "I just can't handle men... they're such a$$h0les....." Then, lo and behold there's always "that" man that claims he is NOT like all of the other men in the world. NO...he is DIFFERENT. He IS the man of your dreams, your knight in shining armor, your cowboy on a white horse, etc.

He then proceeds to stare at your breasts while talking at you, inviting you over for dinner (McDonalds) followed by a "romantic" movie. By romantic, I mean the ones in which the good guy wins, the bad guy loses, and the big, studly, macho man freak gets to hit it with whichever one of the slutty bimbettes he finds during his moment of pure glory. I tend to think not. Romantic movies, twat movies, "girl" movies, and the such do NOT have some big huge sweaty overly muscular testosteronally inhanced beyond belief super freak boy/man getting his way because he defeated the bad guys. It just doesn't work like that.

Men I hate the most are the jerks who want you to have sex with them then they call you a whore afterwards,but if you don't have sex they call you frigid. If you are interested in sex they think you are easy, if you play hard to get they call you a tease. I think of all the crap we have to take from men like that,then they wonder why we are confused and also
angry with them. I grew up with a very domineering father,and I never
will put up with the shit my mom put up with.If I ever get married the guy has to be sweet and understanding or else the guy will be looking for me
and I won't be there!I still hate my father to this day and mom is still too good for the bastard.I took my mom's last name. Something else I hate is when the man gets all bent out of shape over you wanting to keep your last name, which is my mother's last name.I dated a guy who said it's natural for a woman to give up her name for him. Well I dumped the bastard on the spot!.We carry a baby for nine months and it is given the father's name?? Never made any sense to me!Men should give up
their last names to the women,because we carry the baby for nine months and have to put up with them keeping us in the whore,madonna complex,because the a-holes can't make up their mind if they want a good lover or a housekeeper! And they say we're emotional? Have you been over to the i hate women site?? the men there all act like they have continual PMS,we only have it once a month,they have it everyday!!
What nerve huh?

I must agree with you in saying that most all men SUCK!!But I can't say that all do. I have been up and down every rollercoaster there could ever be but i am sure that many more are in store for me once the males in my life hit midlife crisis.(You know the stage in their lifes where they sware that their balding, beer gutt sporting selves and as attractive as the next playgirl model.)(Kinda pathetic but true) However I must state that this rule of malehood is only true in 99.45679% of men. There is that tiny sliver of men left that will treat you right.Now dammit why can't I find it. This letter may seem a little strange but I am sitting here at home while my b/f is out staying over with his best friend.(((((((NOTE: HIS BEST FRIEND'S SISTER WHO LIVES WITH HIM IS MY B/F'S EX GIRLFRIEND!!!!I AM NOT HAPPY ABOUT THIS BUT I MUST TRUST HIM.DON'T THAT SUCK??)))))))

What's the deal with men today. Asking them to be faithful and loyal is like asking a pig to fly. My boyfriend has not yet cheated on me, but I can see it coming a mile away. "I'm not ready for a committment." Translation: "I just want you to act like a wife, but not be one. You can cook,clean, and give me sex when I want it, but if you expect any kind of committment or want me to give you sex when you want it, forget it."

I don't understand. I give him everything he wants, and all I get is a glimmer of hope that someday he might realize how great I am and that he should hold on to me. I'm not even asking him for marriage or anything of the sort, but he still freaks out!! THIS SUCKS!!!

I'm one "I'm not ready for a committment" away from becoming a lesbian! Why do they all have to be such PIGS????

So, my first "love" was 20 when I was 16 (when we dated, actually through the next year-BEER HOOKUP!). I see now that he was a total molester, but that's a side issue. He is now 24, married and has a daughter. Every time I see him at a bar or club he tries to get a hotel room with me! He tells me he hates his wife but loves his daughter. That means fuck-all to me. Married is married. Period. I don't want any part of adultery. He is a pig just like all my other ex's.

This is just a snippet of the baggage I recently described to my new dream man. He was a marine, military police, k-9 bomb sniffing unit. He was from a small town in Michigan with a cute midwest accent. We dated for over a month, talking every night and going out 3-4 nights a week. He called me "babe". He called me beautiful. Then he just stopped calling. After leaving a bunch of cute "where ya been?" messages on his cell, he called me. Something terrible had happened. His younger sister, mother, and grandmother had been riding in their car and got into a horrific accident. Only his mother survived, and she was in a coma. He was now in Michigan to be at her hospital bedside. My god, I thought. "Baby, I'm so sorry," I said, "I wish I was there to give you a hug".

Well, after several weeks of emotional support, his cell got turned off. I figured he would call, so I didn't sweat it, although I was very worried about his family. Finally, after two weeks, I decided to look him up on the internet, I even paid to get his hometown address. So I sent a card telling him I know he must be very busy, but my prayers were with him, and if he needed a friend, he could still call, collect, if he couldn't afford the phone bill (with all the hospital bills piling up). Five days later, I got the collect call, from his mother... IN LAW!! He wasn't even in Michigan anymore, he was in North Carolina at Camp Legeune with his wife and 5 month old daughter. His mother and grandmother were fine- there was no accident! He never even had a sister!

There was never a ring, I asked if he had a girlfriend (he said no), and he spent all his time with me, how could I have known he was such a dog? I'll tell you how.
1. The fact that he was in the military
2. The fact that he was a marine.
3. The fact that he treated me well (he was obviously well trained)
4. The fact that he was from some shit-small town (white trash)
5. The fact that his ego wasn't bruised that I dated other people (even though he claimed not to be seeing anyone else)
6. The fact that he had a penis.

Now, I'm not a man hater, but the fact is they are dogs. I pity his wife. I pity a lot of mens' wives. Marriage doesn't mean a damn thing to them. They only get married because we manipulate them into doing it. A person will do what is in their nature to do, and some spoken words and a piece of paper can't change it. Show me one happy marriage, and I'll show you 1,000 unhappy marriages. If you're married, you might be the pitiful wife I'm talking about, so snoop around and don't cut him any "privacy" slack. If you're not married - thank God.

This pig's name is Jason Bowen, and if you meet him, spit in his face for me. And tell him while he's changing diapers, I'm doing a keg stand. Ha fucking ha.

Well let me tell u about what my man does. He cheats on me and tells me it's my fault. He thinks I'm stupid and treats me that way. We live 5 minutes from his job and takes him 3 hours to get home but, oh no, hes not cheating. So he says .

I was dating this guy for a year. A Sgt. in the Marine Corps. He loved me unconditionally. Never lied to me and never cheated on me. He went over seas for seven months and I faithfully wanted for him to come home. I worte and sent him letters everyday he was gone. He came back and things were how they use to be, he loved being with me and we were bestfriends. His enlistment was up this month and he comes home for good and doesnt want me around anymore. No reason given, after 1 year and 2 months putting up with his ass being gone, he breaks up with me on the phone over at his friend's house, with no explaination!!!!!!!!!

I hate man! I was dating this guy in greenwood indiana and at the time i was outta state for a few days I call him up in the rain from virginia beach virginia at koa kampgrounds first he says we needto talk then he tells me that he went to a party that weekend and that he paid another girl to have sex with him! he said he paid her $375.00! what kind of a low life is he? that really makes me mad I dont even understand why he did it maybe someone can tell me is it a guy thing has any guy ever done this to anyone besides me? please email me and tell me your story if something like this has happened to you! babygurl1985420@aol.com.

Men do suck! I am a 33y/o mother of two who just got out of a 10 year
marriage. I have met the (or what I thought) greatest guy. He doesn't know
what he "wants" but he does know that he doesn't want me screwing anyone
else. He talks about the future for us one day and then he says he isn't
ready for a commitment. Maybe I have been out of the "game" too long but what
the hell does that mean. I personally feel that either we are together or we
are not. Why can't he make up his mind? Fear of commitment but also the fear
of being alone. Why do they have to make it so hard? I also think it might be
they are always waiting for something better to come along and that is why
they make those stupid comments. Anyway I had to respond to show my support

I found this site on a Saturday morning and I'm liking it! I also like the ihatewomen.com site.
So, I want to say something..

I had a 10 months boyfriend whom I really loved at first. Puppy love it was, and I was a stupid little girl. When that relationship was through, I learned a whole bunch of things - that teens aren't for serious relationships, you need to be cold and business-like when it comes to relationships so you won't end up with a piece of doo, and boys, no matter what their age, aren't dateable until they become like my father. Which lets me to talk about my dad. See, I don't like men either. I see so many things wrong with them - just as I see many things wrong with women. However we're both humans by all means. While I think it'll be a very hard thing to find a guy I'd like to have a serious relationships (when I grow up, may I say!), I think it is possible..just look at my daddy. He's a truly hard-working, compassionate, thoughtful, generous, genius and a very gentle person, the list goes on. If my mom could find a guy like him, so could I. I think, that you have to work on yourself a lot to make yourself a very decent person whom jerks wouldn't bother to touch. Also...who needs another person for yourself to be happy? Who wants to be responsible for another person's happiness? That's just not right. I also think no women should be desperate for a guy or sex - it only creates problems. I think the reason why women and men often hate each other is because it's human nature. We're not built to like everybody - we're not built to cope with whoever we meet and share honesty with no barrier. We can only do that with our blood related families! While even family relationship is hard for a lot of people, building a loving family kind of relationship with another person is even harder! That is why you only find ONE person to make that kind of relationship in your life - and many fail, no doubt about that. See, there's gonna be only one person whom you can have that kind of a family loving relationship with. No wonder it's so hard and talked about.

Uh...I'm totally with you on the whole I hate men thing...let's start off with my father...loser number 1...he cheated on my mother when I was 2 then divorced her when I was 6 then remarried when I was 9 had another child with this woman when I was 16 and hasn't had much to do with me since then and if you think that's bad well guess again...my mom got hooked up with this azz...loser number 2...who cheated on her and emotionally abused both of us...he made me feel like shit cuz I wasn't a boy and boys could do things better than girls (well that was according to him)...he controlled both of us for the longest time but finally my mom got smart and got rid of him but by then I was so messed up it really didn't help that he wasn't around anymore...when I was 19 I met this guy who I thought was Mr. Perfect....key word here is thought (Loser number 3)...lol...well..a month after we were together I got pregnant with his child (he was my first) and we were together for 4 years and in those 4 years he cheated, lied, and took away every ounce of self esteem that I ever had...now I'm a single mom raising his child...oh yes he pays child support but not the amount that he should...unfortunately for me I was trying to be nice when we went to court..so anyway we have been split up for a year and a half now and although I'm glad I'm not with him...I still don't trust anyone...he took that away from me and I'm still picking up the pieces from what he has done to our daughter...Nice guy huh...and Men wonder why we are such bitches...does the word DUH mean anything to them?!

After two years of being danny's girlfriend.. He decided to break up with me. He didn have any reasons why since I treated him so well. He thought that since his other guy friends didnt have girlfriend that he might as well swing solo too. Hes a liar, loser and a total Alcoholic!!
He has a new girlfriend now and he got her pregnant,, I was happy to hear that since I totally do not love him anymore and BETTER HER THAN ME LOL

PS We don't want to get treated like their equal...we want to get treated a lot BETTER than them!!!

MALES ARE THE MOST USELESS FORMS OF CREATURES THAT GOD EVER
CREATED.....THEY'RE PIGS AND DISRESPECTFUL TO THE FEMALE RACE.

EVEN THOUGH I BELIEVE IN GOD, I BELIEVE WHEN HE CREATED MEN HE MADE A BIG
MISTAKE, I'M THANKFUL I HAVE A DAUGHTER NOT A SON.

SHE ALSO SHARES MY VIEWS AND AT ONLY 10 YEARS OLD, SHE SHARES THE SAME VIEWS
AS MYSELF, DUE TO THE DISRESPECT SHE HAS ALREADY ENCOUNTERED WITH.

I WAS SEVERELY ABUSED AND RAPED BY A MAN FOR MANY YEARS BEFORE I GOT THE
STRENGTH TO REALIZE I WAS BETTER THAN THAT.

Absolutely flabbergasted at the "Your Point?" mail...It's so hard to fathom that those amoebas actually got the e-mail thing..oh, that's right, i forgot that the majority of them live online visiting porn sites....anyhoo..this is a great forum for venting spleen..all men aren't lying, cheating, rat-bastards..but the number seems to be growing... here are some of my personal thoughts:
1. Men who have been gaping at centerfold shots of bubble-gum pink, wide open genitals taken from six inches away can't ever seem to find your clitoris.

2. Same men who employ the "flat palm of hand crotch grind" in the faint hope of contacting aforementioned body part. They keep it up until you either start screaming or stop screaming.

3. The Vulcan death grip on the back of your head, mid-kiss...gee..no mistaking that subtle body language.

4. Guys who complain about going "down there" because, well..jeez..you know...the smell. I kindly invite them to visit the business end of a set of balls. 'Nuff said.

5. Men who think they're going for some kind of Olympic marathon-fuck gold medal. A Dickathalon you might say. Note..It's skin, OK? It's time to stop when your dick starts to feel like it's being wire-brushed. Come already. We've got to put out the brush fire in our pubes anyway.

Well, thanks for letting me spew a little...feels great!! Fight the good fight! We are awesome!!

Yes I am here to say! All MEN ARE DOGS! Let me tell you my latest one. Well i had this dirt bag boyfriend who played lots of head games... LOTS!!! He was a complete loser ...he spent a lot of time and money getting his way into my heart. Once in it he really did a number one me. He was the biggest liar i have ever seen. But it took time to catch up to the lies. Any way toward the end of the relationship he was begging me to stay with him and not kick him out. Pleading to me that he loved me. This went on for about 2 months. The whole time he was going out to bars had a lot of unexplained time out where I didn't know where he was. He would always say but I am not doing any thing wrong... I love you. Just the thought of hearing the words makes my stomach turn! Eeek! Any way after I could not take any more and decided to dump the bum....he leaves after running my phone bill thru the roof, won't pay it either. Must of read the hand writing on the wall before I droped the bomb.And come to find out this creep......was seeing another woman the whole time!! JERK! Why was the big loser begging me to keep him and steadily creeping behind my back? Cause.....Men are DOGS!! I say good ridance Jerk off Chuck.......may life screw you good. Thanks for letting me rave KimKay......felt good! :)

Hey girl. I just thought I would leave a note from the other side of the
hate. I am a lesbian and I have totally "other" reasons why I hate men. First
of all they are not appealing to me at all underneath the belt...but most of
all they are rude, obnoxious, and pig headed. I would rather scratch my pussy
off with an SOS pad before letting a man try to hit on me. Second, I have a
girlfriend that I love dearly and pretty much plan to marry, and she got
RAPED by her stepfather because he wanted to "show her what it was like to be
with a man." Thats what he said to her, and he knew she was gay. For this I
have grown a total hate for them. Especially since there has been alot of
rape in the news. These men think they can do this to us because we are
"supposedly" weak, yea well wake up guys! We are coming up in the world from
the days when you could legally whip us! Fuck you all! We will prevail! but
anyways, this is an awesome site so keep up the good work. Making a place for
the girls that DO put up with these boys because thats their thing. You girls
have balls! hehe...more power to you! Stay strong all of you!

Hi, I am glad to see a site exists where women can get out their frustrations. I feel like a victim to men everyday. Whether it be in relationships (family, boyfriends) or in the public (men in authority roles). I am angry and have had it with those pretentious fools! If I see one more MAN become a cop because he likes to use his power to make others yield to him, I will scream. I'm already screaming!! I have had it with them. They use their strength to make women feel powerless. The MEN I HATE most are those who take on the supposed heroic roles in society (police, priests/ministers, politicos, I even know some firefighters who harass people and get away with it). THEY ARE LIARS!!!! These men are the best professional sociopaths. They have the world believing they heal, help, fight crime, rule, blah, blah, blah, but really, they are using people, threatening people, throwing around their clout. Not to mention, many are also beating their wives or fondling young children. And then when you call them on it, they HIDE BEHIND their positions of authority. When will this end? I AM FED UP!

I HATE MEN, not for the many games they play, but for there obsession with
SEX. Don't get me wrong I love sex, in-fact I am always on top, but I have never
been with a man that was good in bed. One would think that as much as men
were obsessed with sex they would be good at it but they SUCK. And I always
tell the men I am with when there NOT LIVING UP TO THERE HYPE BUT THEY DON'T
EVEN CARE. I mean if someone satisfy you to the point were you can't even
breathe shouldn't you at least try to please them, it's like I give and give
and get nothing in return. So I stopped having sex with my boyfriend and now
I enjoy a wonderful sexual relationship with my best friend and her fingers.

When I found this site, I knew I had to give my two cents worth! My husband is so wonderful.....We've been married 4 years, together for 6, and we just had our first baby 4 months ago. He had to let me know that I needed to get back to my original weight of when we first met so 'I can look good for him'.That is supposed to be my motivation for losing weight. Of course he tells me he was just making a joke when he said that, and I shouldn't take it seriously! Right! He would also like it if my breasts were bigger (36A) but he won't pay for a boob job since 'it's not that important'. It really feels good to know that my husband loves me the way I am and for who I am! He is my age (thirtysomething) and he stares at every flat-bellied, bigger-breasted girl (mostly teenagers half my age) he can see, whether he is with me or not. I finally just got tired of going places with him because I'm sick of the staring. Now that my self esteem has really been lifted, I feel great about our marriage. I think all the time about having a fling, becoming an escort, or a prostitute just to feel sexy and desirable again. I'm not getting any younger or more attractive, so why not? What I don't understand is that if he is so hot for young, skinny, bustier girls, why the hell did he waste his time marrying me?? Life is too short to just settle for less. I don't believe that he is, or can be, truly happy being with me. He makes me wish I was a human Barbie doll! Men are so great, what would we do without them?!

Why is it that men can be the most sweetest, most wonderful people in the world to you but at other times can be such asses!!!! i mean i love my boyfriend dont get me wrong but this past week has been practically awful!!! he doesnt even realize it! how is that a guy can hurt your feelings so badly in the matter of a few words but its not meant to hurt you but it just does. and after this whole week u just cry, for no reason at all! u just cry! my boyfriend is the greatest i love him soo much, he means everything to me but theres just some times when he can be the biggest ass in the world and he doesnt even realize it and it just goes over his head. and he should know that he hurt you but u dont want him to know that. and he didnt mean to hurt your feelings intentionally it just happenned, but its happened a few times int he couurse of this week and ur just so stressed out with everything else and so frustrated that u dont anything else! and he didnt mean anything by it he just said it becuz he did not to hurt anyone but just with the flow of conversation but he still hurt u!!!! i dont knowmen are confusing sometimes i just wish he knew what hurt me and what doesn and he realizes it but like he shouldnt even need to realize it becuz ur just crying out of nowhere!! i dont know i think im just stressed ugh i hate men.

My name is Susan. I have 3 children and I've been married for 9 long years. my husband is a flirter and probably a cheater! Last night I was in the mood sex and while the kids were in bed, my husband decided it would be great to go on a motorcycle ride. This was at 11:30PM. I said to him, " stay home with me and we'll have some fun." he replied," I'll be right back, I wont be gone long!" I waited up for his ass,,, 3:00AM, he pulls up. Yea, messed up huh? So I asked him," where ya been?" He said," riding and hanging in the parking lot" For 3 long hours, yea right.... Have you ever been with someone and felt all alone or what about being in love and never feeling love? I'm always on the back burner and I hate it!

Your website is great. I'm 3-Strikes and I live with a man who is 8 years younger than me. It's his first time living with anyone - I should mention that....and I'm 40 and have lived with 2 other men in my lifetime and each time, am left wondering 'what the fuck is this nightmare I'm living'. I hate men and find that they invade my beautiful world. After a time, I always recognize that most everything they do is motivated by 'what THEY can get out of a situation' rather than 'what THEY can do to make something nice for the relationship'.

I made a rental agreement this time and got my boyfriend to sign it as this is my first home purchase and didn't want any legalities to interfere with MY investments and security. If and when we marry, that may change but not now. The agreement covers things like equal purchasing of household supplies, equal cleaning duties, etc. THAT'S A GOOD ONE. There isn't anything this man does, except maybe clean up the kitchen now and then that equates to equality. I am constantly asking him to go to the grocery store reminding him that it's his turn to buy dish soap or coffee creamer - food...it's a joke is what it is. I don't believe in the grocery shopping thing ever weekend (together) - that went out in the 60's if it ever existed and I work weekends and evenings so it doesn't work for me. Also, when you go shopping with a man, his mind shuts off and he stands there with his arms crossed or holding the basket waiting for the woman to make all the decisions.

It's true, you don't really know someone until you live with them but deep down, I needed a way to pay my mortgage and I thought that after being with this guy for just over 2 years, we could make it work. He's an angry young man, in whom I can see a glimses of potential, but he never tries to develop them. He isn't sure if he likes his job - which is stressful - and that's my problem too. I can't remember a time when I came home and got a smile and a hug and kiss from him because he's so fucking self-absorbed with what's sooooooooo terrible about his life. Some nights, when I'm feeling kind and forget about the last blow I suffered (not physical), I'll stop and pick up dinner. He's always got some little comment about what's missing from the meal. I just tell him to fuck off and not expect anymore favours. Then he calls me a ranting, jaded person, which I know men like to have any excuse to spew those words.

On the other side of this man, can be a gentle, funny, understanding side. I just don't want his negative side to be the one I see all the time. But he does suck half the time. For right now, I'm looking at him as a way to pay off some of my mortgage....and keep praying he'll pull up his socks and grow up!

Any advice you have for this mess would be appreciated. I am very glad I have found your site. I feel better already.

I hate guys becasue my ex and me were going together for 4 months then all of a sudden he called me up one day out of no were and told me he thinks we should see other people then i triedto talk to him at a school dance and he totally avioed me then a month later he called me up and told me i was a hoe

Tara Myers: men suck. bottom line. they're all a bunch of dogs! they can't have just ONE woman, oh NO! HEAVEN FORBID THEY SHOULD BE COMMITTED TO JUST ONE WOMAN! the only ones worth having are the GAY ONES! EVEN THEY CANT HAVE JUST ONE !!!!! i thought i found the perfect guy, and of course, he turned out to be GAY! i had started to like this other guy, and he was GAY! i had a crush ricky martin , and then HE was, well, that goes without saying doesnt it? WHY?! all these geeky little boy bands whine about either 1: they cant get their old slutty WHORE girlfriends back, 2: well, THATS IT! and they just GLOAT ABOUT 1: how all the girls just LOOOOVE THEM! 2: THAT'S IT!!!!!! that just PROVES how stupid they are!!!!!!! they also have a habit for USING also, exhibit A: you know that guy i told you about, the "perfect" one, i asked him " if you're so gay, why'd you have a girlfriend?" HE says " I used her for a cover up" WHAT?! that girl was DEVASTATED when he broke up with her!!!!!!! and THIS TIME there is a second , i give you , exhibit B: my ex used ( or at least TRIED, that loser ) for that one and ONLY thing on the brain! exhibit C:, i was reading a magazine, a girl bought a boyfriend a digital camera, he didnt know it, but her friend did, and she happened to bring it up, he found out, took this girl back, got his digital camera, BROKE UP WITH HER!!!!! i got more! and note they only settle for the HO'S! they expect us to be perfect, ladylike, do-what-they-want-sex-wenches, and THEYRE allowed to burp, fart, and scratch their fat ASSES, and THEN try to HOLD OUR HANDS! (and that's not ALL THEY TRY TO DO! ) and theres the ever so popular gift giving phobia! we spend a good frickin amount of money on them and for WHAT?! either just a card, or something completely useless, i.e., a poem copied out of a book!!!!!!!!!! they think we need to kiss their horny little asses but they should be kissing OURS! who brought them into this world? WOMEN! who took care of them when they were young? WOMEN! and heres the biggie, WHO OUT NUMBERS THEM IN POPULATION? WOMEN! and WHO ( note this is SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN!) are the least accident prone SAFER DRIVERS??????! W-O-M-E-N!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'll tell you one thing, i am single and SO NOT LOOKING!!!!!

Dear I hate men, i live in denver colorado. Any women who runs across the name Joel Bershof......BEWARE! He has the personality of Ted Bundy. Don't be his death victim.

My name is Devon I am 21 years old. Why is it that men that are willing to
commit suck in the sac so much and the runaway playboys are so damn good in
bed? It drives me nuts. Mind you, I do like the fact the playboys at least
know what to put where!

I am so sick of the men online that i had to block everyone who isnt on my buddylist. I got instant messages with the cheesiest pickup lines. My screenname has Alicat in it, so many many many men have proceeded to instant message me with "I know youre a cat, but will you do doggy style?". GET A LIFE! Then when i tell them they need to grow up, they get all mad. I also have my pics in my homepage, and i have had many men message me and tell me i am hot. Then they decide to ask me what i'm like in bed. When i tell them to get a life, they call me a nasty cunt and say i'll never get a man. Like i even WANT a man. I'd rather be single than deal with the bullshit. And they always try to get me to meet them. And i'll tell them i have a man and they ALWAYS say "meet me and i guarantee you'll forget about your man." And it's kinda funny how they always say theyre "not like other men" and when you do decide to give them a chance they cheat on you, which just proves not only are they cheaters, but liars at the same time, since they are in fact like other men. And you know what pisses me off the most?? When guys are sooooo nice to me and tell me i'm wonderful and such. I always think "he must be horny" and lo and behold, the next thing they say is "wanna come over and have some fun" or "i am sooo horny". Theyre only nice when they want sex. Every time a guy is nice to me i always have to stand on guard. Stupid perverts. Get a blow up doll.

I met this really hot guy one time and we hit it off. He was really really cute, blonde wavy hair, green eyes, dimples to DIE for... Of course i should have realized that it's the hot men that suck the most! We went out a few times, and he started with the shit right off the bat. You know the kind of shit i mean: "I'm not like other men, you can trust me" " i'm only interested in you" and whatever other insanly messed up lie they can come up with. Well i let him come over my house and we were kissing and stuff and he proceded to try to have sex with me. Even after i told him no he still continued to push it, calling me a tease. What a lovely word, "tease". I'm beginning to think tease means "I'm severely horny and i'm gonna make you feel guilty by calling you names until you give in and fulfil my selfish needs". Well later that day we were talking again and he kept telling me how much he liked me and all that bull. I told him i thought we were moving to fast. So he said maybe we should "talk" and take it slower. I was very very hesitant on agreeing, but i agreed anyways. After all, i've been hurt so many damn times it doesnt really hurt anymore, it just pisses me off. Well he DID take it slower with me. He told me once again, that i was the only one he was interested in. However, he stood me up on MY BIRTHDAY. Stupid a$$hole MUST have a death wish. I started getting suspicious. So, i did a little investigating >=) . Well the bastard was cheating on me. With not one, but THREE if not more other girls. Now he was 26, the girls he cheated with ranged in age from 15 to 33. WHAT IS UP WITH THAT?? What a horny bastard. And he was at the beach with BOTH the 15 yr old and 33 year old ON MY BIRTHDAY. When i confronted him about it he tried to blame it on me by saying I was cheating on HIM! I have NEVER cheated on ANYONE in my life, and it's a wonder why i havent since every man i have ever been with has managed to piss me off to the point where i wanna take papercuts and lemon juice to his dick. Well anyways 2 weeks later he ims me online and asks if i want to have a 3some with him and another girl. Ummm hello!!!! Of course i called him a "horny bastard", to wich he responed with "you have no respect for anyone. you are such a bitch". HE DOESNT EVEN HAVE RESPECT FOR HIMSELF let alone anyone else!!! AND to make matters worse, i found out he has a girlfriend that LIVES with him and thats why he never invited me over his house. His best friend offered me that information. To this day he still asks me if i want to start over with him. I think not. Go to Hell ya pathetic excuse of a man horny bastard with no self respect. Typical boy playing at being a man. He's 26!!! GROW UP! UGH i hate him. okay im done.

Saying men suck may be the understatement of the year!! But the ones who take the cake and rank the highest on my list are the ones that say they love you and then leave you, just to come back and leave you again. Then they come back one final time, telling you how wrong they were and just how much they need you in their lives and how much they enjoy being around. But you are smart and cautious enough not to buy into it this time around without some form of proof. Just when you feel they have gone the extra mile and have proved themselves to you, they tell you this is not a permanent thing .. just something to pass the time for the moment. You can't get more sucky than that. I really hate men!!!

: I just got out of a really nasty 8 month dating, 2 week engagement relationship and i just wanted to say MEN SUCK. Why is it that they always try to change you? Why is it that they try to play brave in front of their friends or other people, but most of the time when you get them home they're worse kids? Why are they so insecure when a female is friends with another guy? AND WHY THE HELL IS IT that they think that just because a girl is menstruating or "broken" as i like to put it, they think they're entitled oral sex? I cant understand this!

Guess what? I'm currently being stalked at the moment. This guy, that i do not like, asked me if i wanted to go out sometime. I told him no. He asked me again if i wanted to go out today. I told him i wouldnt be home. Well he is outside in my driveway right now, honking the horn. Nope, I am NOT going out there. He keeps calling me on my cell phone and if i find out who gave him my cell phone number i will kill them. Why wont he leave me alone?? Does he REALLY want to hang out with someone who does not like him?? What is WRONG with him??

why is it that men always try to get me to have anal sex with them?? What is so great about it??? They try sooo hard to talk ya into it too. I dont CARE how much his exgirlfriend loved it or how good it will feel the second time around. There wont even be a FIRST time! Do i need to get a tatoo on my butt that says "exit only"??? And when i refuse to do it they say i'm "too shy to do anything" or i dont trust them enough. Maybe if guys werent so god damn perverted and horny all the time there wouldnt be a problem. Do they HAVE to stick their dick in any damn hole they can fit it in?? Get a friggin blow-up doll for that crap. I'm sorry but there are just some places a guy shouldnt stick his dick. Okay now that that's off my chest, on with the next complaint...

Why is it that when I dont have time to go out on a certain day the guy gets all suicidal-acting and whiney, yet when they dont have time to hang out i'm supposed to except it and wait for another day?? I mean this guy just asked me out and i cant go out on the day he wants to go out because i have a baby shower to attend to. So he was all like "oh you just dont like me so youre making up excuses... i'll never find a girl and whine whine whine bitch bitch bitch moan moan moan". So i told him "umm no, if i didnt like you i would have said flat out No". Why would i waste my time making up excuses when it's so much easier to say no?? Go whine somewhere else because i dont want to hear it, and if youre THAT insecure then i dont want you anways. Okay i'm done now.

From 24 to 39, white black, well off or struggling they are all selfish, self- centered lying sneaky immature jerks. they wonder why it is you have your guard up ( duh b/c of the last asshole). as soon as you your guard down they sneak you a sucker-punch. i hope they all burn in hell!!!!!

How about the man who tells you all along that you are the woman that treated him the best and that you are the one that loved him the most? Then they run away afraid of intimacy? Somewhere in my body there is a nerve that connects my head to my heart and then to my vagina. This nerve we will call the "intelligentlia"... Men do not have this nerve. Only women have it. It is responsible for intelligence, for love, and lust all at the same time. Like chewing gum and walking, men are not capable of balancing these acts. They are simple creatures that need simplistic lives and simplistic reasoning.

Well, I am sitting at home waiting for @$$hole to come pick me up, an hour and a half late thank you very much. I decided to get online and chat, but all of my friends have gone out to play on this Saturday night, while I sit at home and wait. Isn't there supposed to be more about being 16? I decided to type in I hate men and this is what I got. Thank you girls! I love your site and we all need to stick together!!

Michelle, don't be too hard on your mom regarding your dad. As far as I'm concerned love is deaf, dumb blind AND stupid. I married a man, I was 17 years old just graduated HS. We were married 16 years had 2 sons, lovely home, new cars and a boat. He fell in love with his gf and wanted a divorce. Fine, well he totally flaked out lost his job and couldn't pay what he agreed to pay so he started job hopping. When I got the court on him, put him in jail (only he didn't really go to jail he came up with $1,000 and they let him go) he changed his last name and hid. Child support said I had to find him, well I did. Of course it was too late to save our home, my car, and my credit rating. I had to take my kids from a beautiful rural home and school and move into Cleveland, where they had to go to Cleveland Public Schools. Yeah MEN SUCK. Like my mom says, they're only good for ONE thing - and that is PAYING FOR DINNER.

Ladies and gentleman, let me tell ya-- if he looks to good to be true HE IS!

Six months ago I met the man of my dreams. I could not believe how perfect a man could exist. He was dashing and charming. He took me to the finest restaurants, broadway shows, concerts and even on a cruise. I was swept off my feet, I'd died and gone to heaven.

He was tall, reasonably handsome. He was a widower and had been happily married for 22 years. He had two grown children who he adored. He told me he was vice president of a company. He told he had been an officer in the air force and had graduated from the Air Force academy. He even had the ring to prove it. He told me if he lost his job tomorrow he could live well on his
savings for at least a year. He told me how much he enjoyed raising his two sons.

Not only did he tell me these things but through the course of six months he told me detailed stories about his life. Then one day he asked me to elope with him. I was so excited and scared I could hardly speak. I said yes. He tried to book tickets to Vegas for the
next morning. That night we had passionate sex. I was on top of the world.

The next morning as we are preparing for the big event, he turned to me as casual as could be and said: "Hun, by the way, I need to let you know something.......I am a compulsive, and chronic liar." This man who I had thought was my knight in shinning armor, was nothing more than a bum with some scrap metal pasted on his clothes. Virtually everything he had told me was a lie. I just thank God he had the guts to tell me before we said I do.

Just wanted to tell you, my ex-boyfriend after a year and a half of my 16 year old life cheated on me, in the unofficial break of time. So after it took him 10 seconds to get over his deep and everlasting love for me and make out with the same chick his best friend previously had I write this quote: "I am a unique piece of art; appreciated by some, mocked by others, and ignored by most."

One of the worst blows to my opinion of men came not from a boyfriend but a best friend. One of my very best friends in the whole world is a man, and I've always held him up as a shining example of a good man. While he was dating the woman who is now his wife, he was wonderful. He cuddled, watched chick flicks, took her out, talked about emotions and the relationship, cooked, cleaned, went the extra mile to please her in bed, and generally did everything you could think of. Now, he did still do "guy stuff" like play computer games, watch action flicks, and act crude on occassion, but it was rarely over the top. Having heard almost everything about the relationship from both parties, I think I can say that I had a fairly accurate portrait of what went on. Having met my friend's male relatives, I was amazed at how sensitive he was; they're all a bunch of louts. I honestly wasn't sure that his wife deserved him. Imagine my shock and, well, heartbreak, when, upon marriage, he was instantly transformed into a stupid man who does all of those sutpid man things listed on this site (okay, not cheating). I feel betrayed, and I can't even imagine how his wife feels! All this time, it was a big charade. This guy has been like a brother to me for years, and he still respects and values me. But how can I respect him when he treats a woman like that? So much for the men who are different from all the rest!

I think men are absolute jerks -- the older they get, the dumber they get as well. One of my ex-boyfriends has made my life a living hell, pretending to like me (oh, and fooling around with me!), then talking crap behind my back. Well, the other day I happened to meet his new girlfriend, who happens to look like a freaking Barbie doll and acts like a bimbo. I absolutely HATE the fact that men always look for blonder, thinner, bigger-boobed women. I'm blonde and thin, but the moment they find out I have a brain, they run! That pisses me off!!! I have complete and utter sympathy for all the brunettes, redheads, raven-haired ladies, as well as the intelligent and plus-sized that men have screwed over. (That leaves about .000000000000000000001 of the entire female population for the blonde, thin, big-chested, and stupid.)

Why is it that women have the reputation of being the moody ones?? In my experience, men are just as moody, if not more so. I've been married for 3 years, and I often find myself wondering which of my husband's moods I'll be coming home to. If he's short with me on a phone call during the day, it's a premonition of a fun evening ahead. I'm sick of being told that I'M moody when I never know what to expect from him!! And why should I get the blame for whatever happened that day at work or whatever!?!? We women at least have PMS and other hormonal reasons that can explain some of our behavior. What's their excuse??

JESUS CHRIST! I don't understand men at ALL. I didn't do ANYTHING, and my damn boyfriend is completely ignoring me. I went in his room earlier and he ignored me and then later, he ignored me when I was in the common room with him. I don't get it. I told him that I am really stressed over exams and asked if I could see him and he thinks that watching him play Kingdom Hearts qualifies. It doesn't. I need him, for five minutes, to just listen to me rant. Or maybe for him to turn off the games for once when I come over and actually look at me directly. I would settle for words. But no, all I get is apparently punishment for something I didn't do. I've decided that if I fail my exam tomorrow, it's his fault. Jerk.

OK.. I had met this guy while traveling in LA planning to move there one year from that time period. At the time, I wasn't too attracted to him and had my eyes on someone else. Well I traveled on back home, then we found ourselves talking alot on the net, e-mailing everyday, and I come to realize that looks are not everything. After 7 months developing a strong friendship, he admitted he had liked me romantically the whole time. Eventually, I fell in love with this man, his personality. Then he got scared and I convinced him I would never do him wrong. We decided to meet together for a week in California (3 weeks ago) to see if being together again would prove the love we had developed from talking over 7 months on e-mail. Well we had a great week together. I had every intention on moving to LA in 4 1/2 months from that point, regardless of him. He admitted things to me about himself that were very personal in that week's time. Even though we knew we were engaging in long-distance, it was cool because he lived in LA, and I had planned to move there anyways. In this week, we spent every moment together, laughed, had fun, got to know each other and fell in love even more. He had admitted to me that he had somewhat defects of the manhood area. Which as a nice girl, I accepted this because I loved him. Well he gets back to LA and totally changes. He is an asshole to me now, he tells me he will call and never does, he is cold and distant in his e-mails, I ask him to be nice to me and he just responds, "I'm not a nice person, I'm an asshole." When I tell him he has changed, he admits it, but does not know why he has. Then when I ask "why??" He responds that it is my fault, because I'm not in LA and he misses me so much. After giving this man a chance, and overlooking his homely appearance, defected penis and not so wealthy status a chance, he turns into an asshole. When I wasn't even physically attracted to him at first, then he strikes my heart with his past sweet personality and now changes to a jerk when I've fall in love!! It does NOT make sense!!! So what I plan to do, is keep hanging on, and not with my heart... but keep dragging it along until I move to LA in 4 months. Then when I get there if he is still being a dickhead, then we will remain friends but, I will cut off any relationship status between us..but I'm sure he will regret it when I get a hunk on my side and show him off! These are my plans. I have wanted to move to LA since 14, so I'm going there regardless to what happens!! Thank you for letting me share this!!!!!!!

I HATE this one guy I used to like. He knew I liked him, and he knew I was friends with one of his friends, so he went out with her. How [stupid] is that?!!? It broke my heart!!! I started crying, then I thought to myself, he ain't worth it!

Hello to all my fellow queens. I have a story...I dated this guy for 6yrs. from the ages of 19-25, I am 28 now. Roller coaster from start to finish. Cheated, lied, broke up with me time and time again but "I was too good for him". By the end of our relationship we were living together and he was working for my stepfather. Well one morning, average morning, we said our good byes "Bye honey, Love you", "Love you too". At noon my mother calls me at work and asked me where, we'll call him "Loser", wasbecause he never showed up for work. I didn't know and I figured, maybe he's with his friends - you know the ones - the friend's that will alway's be more important than you - "the boys"!! I got home from work at 6:30pm and still no sign of Loser...it's getting later and later, friends are calling me, family members, everyone freaking out because he just fell off the face of the earth. It never dawned on me to check his closet until I was on the phone with his best friend at about 1am - the closet, COMPLETELY BARE, just a bunch of empty hangers! What the hell just happened!! Well at 5am I find out when I received the collect phone call from him telling me that he was in Tennessee - What the hell are you doing in Tennessee? He told me that one time he was tripping on ACID, yeah - real cool, with his friends and he started remembering something that happened from his past - some abuse by a male baby sitter that his cheating mother got to watch him and his brothers while his workaholic/alcoholic father was at the bar. That he found him on the Internet and was going to confront him. From there is proceeded to Florida to stay with an uncle that he hadn't seen or talked to in 10yrs.because he was suspected of having an affair with his mother. Confused yet....sorry. Anyway he ended up coming home 3wks later and I let him stay with me for a week, but I couldn't stand the sight of him, so at 26yrs. old I sent him packing to Daddy's. The whole relationship - one big lie! He made really good money working for my stepfather, tax free $17/hr. and all he had to pay for was half of a $500/month rent and about $50/month in utilities which I took care of paying. The only other bills he had were his car payment and insurance and I found out that his car payment hadn't been made in 8 months and he had no money!! Since our breakup, he has been a fugitive - extorting money from a company he wasworking for and fleeing to Australia. Sends his friends emails on how to make pipebombs - what the F%^K! What has gone so wrong since the era of my grandparents - married 54yrs. and loving life together!!! Thanks for letting me vent!

I met this guy a few months ago. We just both got out of 3 year relationships and he told me he thinks we were meant to be blah blah blah so then he tries to find apartments and a job for me to move closer to him (he lives in Scranton, PA and I live in Hackettstown, NJ). I go up there to spend Thanksgiving with him and I find his truck parked outside his ex's house and he refused to talk to me. This happened out of NOWHERE!!!! I'm so sick of guys f**king with my head!!!

They can't catch on. You say "no" do they understand? They call it persistance, I call it fucking annoying. I don't know why I have to put up with it sometimes.....Try all you want hun, it ain't gettin' you anywhere. And they call us over-reactive who play on the fact that we are the 'weaker sex' HUH! Weaker sex my ass. Not only could I beat his ass just for fun, but Idon't 'play on' anything. Damn men.

I hate most men. It's not fair that the handful of good ones justify the existence of so many bad ones. Most men are warts and blights on human existence. I'm also pissed off with women who stick up for the bastards. The sad irony is that so many of these women are usually being victimised in some way by the very men they're seeking to protect.

My hate is savage for most men. I'm no longer depressed about it. I no longer feel guilty about it. Embracing my hate is liberating me from copious amounts of wasted energy spent on fighting off a PERFECTLY JUSTIFIED response to pieces of shit who don't care for themselves, us or the planet. Fuck them!

For 3-Strikes - You're making an incredible mistake and you know it in your bones but you won't admit to it.

He's using you ...surrogate mother. He'll drain the life-energy out of you, then leave you for a young girl and you'll feel like shit. Why are you doing this to yourself? I know why...because you don't REALLY believe you're good enough to deserve someone who will *kiss* the ground you walk on. Yes...I mean it. God....dump him already!

I hate it how men will tell you how beautiful and perfect you are. A week later you get online and see porn sites in the history. You look them up and they turn out to be the fake slutty women who have nothing better to do than post their naked asses online. No offense to any women out there. Anyways, am I that beautiful and perfect for him, and is he really satisfied if he looks at other women? I think not!!! Then he tries to blame it on me, saying that I upset him or that I was such a bitch. Fuck that shit!!!

I've been engaged now for almost a year and I'm so fucking tired of his shit!!! There is no way in HELL that I'm going to marry that asshole. I dont trust him. I've always been cheated on...and I'm going to keep a close eye on him like I have been.

I hate men so much that I want to switch over and be a lesbian. I really do. Everytime he wants to have sex I'm suppossed to give it to him even if I'm not in the mood. He doesn't even believe in foreplay anymore!! He only did it in the beginning of the relationship. Anyways...Then when I want to have sex he pushes me away and says he's too tired. But it doesnt matter if I was tired as shit earlier when he wanted some.

From Dave: (OK, probably not from Dave...probably Dave's wife but the e-mail was all I had to go on. This is why you should give me some sort of name to use!)

This is to all women. WARING NICE GUYS ARE NOT REAL they are an urban myth. The so-called nice guy is the worst of all the lying assholes out there. They makes you believe that they are different. BUT THEY ARE NOT. They will say things like “they are always the friend and girls never like them in that way because girls don’t really want a nice guy.“ So you fall for this shit. But the so-called “NICE GUY” is just like the other squirels just looking for a nut. So this is to all women out there: this "nice guy" shit, it is not real. Don’t fall for it!!!

Coincidentally...from another Dave (Dave H.) who probably is not really Dave H:

All women know this, and it doesn't need to be said again but "men are lying mind fuckers'. They say they want one thing and you go out of your way to give it to gift wrapped and they shit on it. MEN FUCKING SUCK.

Well, we're on a roll....from David T who probably is not really David T either:

Ok, my boyfriend of one year and seven months broke up with me last week. He didn't even give me a reason why. After that long sticking with him, I deserve a freaking reason! Looking back, I see a severe lack of judgement on my part. He was always saying he wanted to marry me, one day he actually asked (with a $2 ring mind you) and I said that I would one day, and to ask me in a few months or something. So since I thought I was gonna marry him, I started asking him about how he thought kids should be disciplined, where he likes to live etc. The next day we had a big fight 'cos he said, "You're grooming me for a husband" I was like "Yes, yes I am, could it be because you asked me to marry you? Oh i think it is!" He's studying to be a minister so he's all nice to other people and cruel to me. If I disagree with him he arcs up but if other's do he's all reasonable. Drives me crazy. Well I've just chalked up my first broken heart. If all men are like this, I'm sure there will be plenty more to come!

I was out on New Year's Eve with my best friend Jen when we ran into my current non-commital sperm donor. He proceeded to walk up to Jen and squeeze her boob directly in front of me. When I expressed to him in e-mail the following day how it was rude and callous of my feelings his reply was...."It wasn’t like I was overly fondling her, I simply squeezed her boob in a friendly way." I informed this guy that there IS such a thing as a simply friendly hug or handshake but NOT a simply friendly boob squeeze and for future reference women don't generally offer a boob in greeting. (LOL) MEN ARE PIGS!!!

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How hard is to buy flowers? How hard is it to make the woman your supposed to love feel loved and appreciated? I get sick and tired of being disappointed. It makes me sick that my boyfriend can't be consistant with his emotion. Today happy, an hour later he's upset. I give up on trying to understand or even caring. I try to take it one day at a time.

I am still in shock about this man's audacity. I've been dating a man for a couple of weeks and other than the fact that he's fifteen years older than I, I hadn't intended on dating him beyond the New Year because he's a bigot--he doesn't think you should be friends with gay individuals or date outside your own race. (Despite my intelligence, grace, and attractiveness, I wouldn't be above letting him take me to a cool city on New Years Eve; I deserve it for putting up with him!) So I told him last night that I didn't see this going much farther because he's a racist and thus ensued a discussion about how there are two types of women: those who think interracial dating is OK and those who don't. I told him that the first guy I ever went on a date with (A date, singular) when I got to college was of a particular different race, that I thought he was really hot and we ended up being close friends. He told me he wouldn't want to date a girl who would do that; he said it's about MORALS. I know I have too much class to date someone that ignorant, but what I most can't believe is that he would dare insult me like that!

Listen Up Ladies!!! Yes, Men can be "dogs", they are dogs. Every boyfriend I have had has been a real jerk and I was just too young and naive to realize what jerks they were. They treated me like crap, and just used me. And everytime I would comfront them about how I was being mistreated, I would get the line "Oh, you're just being paranoid, you know I love you. I would never do anything to hurt you." But yet the bastards are talking trash about me to their friends or cheating on me. I was wanted for only one purpose and we all know what that purpose was. I'm just looking for, or actually, was looking for a guy to just enjoy my life with and share with him all the things that I enjoy, yet I keep hooking up with the scum buckets. So I have decided to change my life around. I think I'll take a break from men for awhile. (no I'm not gonna become gay) I just don't want to develop ANY TYPE of relationship with any man for a long, long while and just see how much happier I can become.

Oh and by the way, if you're overweight, or just a little pudgy, don't feel that you have to subject yourself to diet pills and rigorous exercise routines just to please some man, or men in general. If you WANT to lose weight, do it for yourself and your health, not because you NEED to look good in a bikini to attract some man, who will more than likely just give you hell.