And Your Point Is???

You women cannot see how truly blind to your own selfishness you really are in my opinion. You are the most selfish things to ever walk the face of the earth I believe. Picky Picky Picky blah blah blah. We as men have every right to hate you for the misery you things have put us through. complain complain complain. GET A CLUE FEMALES! BUNCH OF SELFISH ONE TRACK MINDED HYPOCRITS! THAT IS MY BELIEF AS WELL AS MANY OTHER MALES WHO SEE THROUGH THE BULLCRAP OF WOMEN!

sspending five minutes on your site doesn't give complete insight But it would seem to have a site NAMED i hate men innocent as your humor may seem to you realy seems wrong to me maybe I'm just not funny ehough Craig

I wrote you several weeks ago. I gave you a list of pros and cons. You wrote me back and told me that you would post them on your website. You kinda hurt my feelings. You lied to me. I thought you were very good to be writing back the same day and all. But you lied and then never did what you said you would. I'd just wanted to write and tell you that I was a little offended by it.

Oh for God's sake, the "thanks for your submission e-mail" SAYS that it will take a while for the things to get on the site. They don't appear there by magic. So maybe you should have read it a little more carefully and spared yourself this trauma. Let me clue you in on something: Those little dates beside the links on the home page are the last time that page was updated. So if a page was updated on July 1 and you sent your submission in on July 2, you won't see it there until the date moves. Get it?

Email 1: hi i am a man i was wondering does that make me inferior to you, if so why?

Well, not necessarily the fact that you're a man but the fact that you can't read, yes.

Email 2: okay okay , so you got me there i didn't read all that stuff. So let's throw that out. You seem like u r a intelligent person, i admit. I am a 19 year old high school graduate. Not even considering sex here, are u personally more intelligent or superior to me, i will not be upset if u prove u r but i would really like to know why?

I'm guessing you still didn't read "all that stuff." Because if you had, I don't think you'd still be asking these questions based on your original assumption of my views. I have no idea how intelligent you are, although I'm not overly optimistic based on your e-mail.

It does if you calculate intelligence based on IQ scores. Mine's higher. But the question remains, why are you trying so hard for me to agree that you are inferior to me? Seems a little odd.

Email 4: okay , again i am not trying to degrade myself, but i am only 19 with no college work. You have a degree and a lot more life experience, not to mention your messages sound ten times more intelligent than mine, dosen't that make you smarter?

Email 5: Hey i was complimenting you you are obviously smarter okay , so just admit it i don't care, just say it.

Email 6: okay so i am mean to animals and also have a lower iq than you , you are superior right? Thanks P.S. You should admit it cause it's true

You need to work on your self-esteem, dude. Why are you begging me to say that I'm better than you? It strikes me as a little sad. Maybe you should work at believing in yourself more.

Email 8: You are right. I do need to work on this, you can see right through me.

Email 9: I have problems, i think YOU have problems! Prove me wrong!................YEAH THAT'S WHAT I THOUGHT!!!

I'm not the one who e-mailed a stranger and all but begged them to say they were better than me.

Email 10: I can't even argue with u , sorry. I will just admitt that i have problems and thank u for wishing me luck with that okay?

Well first of all I was going to e-mail you again and tell you that i did scroll down and see the link for ihatewomen.com but I had to hurry up and get off to make a phone call. I was planning on apologizing but not anymore. Anyways about you website it is still very immature. tata!
P.s your the one that needs the good luck in life your the one with a website called: ihatemen.com!

LOL. Can we say pot calling the kettle black? "I was going to say I was sorry but I'm not now because you were mean to me." Waa - waa - waa. How old are you exactly?

Question: If you hate men so much, why are you married? Is it because you don't really hate men, but just proclaim to so that you could create this website? If so, that makes you a hypocrite. Is it because you don't really love him but just needed a sperm donor to have a child? That's just as bad, if not worse, than many of the cruel and wicked things you accuse us men of doing. Is it because you want somebody around who will pamper you, serve you, and buy you anything and everything you want? That tells me you are too lazy and too incompetent to make it in the real world so that you can provide for yourself and your child should something happen to your husband.

And this e-mail tells me that you are an idiot that can't read. If you could, you could answer your own questions.

In the 'I Hate Men moderated forum', ILoveMe left a message titled I collect men as trophies. In it she states: "Lions fight in battle for there women, and the strongest lion wins a night with the female. The other lions don't get any female, because they didn't fight hard enough, they were not the strongest. " That may be true, but what ILoveMe failed to mention was that while the lionesses are out hunting, foraging, and rearing their young, the lions are sitting around watching the pride, and fighting each other for the best scraps of meat. To put it in human terms; while the women are cooking, cleaning, and raising the kids, the men are sitting around watching NFL on TV and arm-wrestling each other to see who gets the last beer. Like it or not, that is a lot closer to real life then the fictitious scenario ILoveMe would like to create for herself.

Yes, closer to real life in the 50s. In case you weren't aware, things have changed since then. Oh right, you can't read so you may have missed the "update."

Am I going to rant and rave about what a pathetic loser you are and how you need to be lined up against a wall with all the other dykes in this world and put out of our misery? No. It won't accomplish anything except to feed your ego. The only thing I can do is hope that one day you wake up, smell the coffee, and realize that life is only 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it. If some guy treated you like dirt and your reaction is to hate all men, then I pity you for your narrow-mindedness. However, if you eventually decide to move forward and in the future learn how to better determine a man's character before you get involved with him, then I will be the first to applaud you.

And I pity you for your stupidity. Maybe one day YOU'LL wake up, smell the coffee, and know what you're talking about before annoying strangers with your ignorant e-mail.

I wish you the best of luck.

Ditto. If your half-assed approach to reading this site is indicative of other areas in your life, you'll need it.

I stumbled into this site, hoping to find what I needed for a speech I'm giving Friday about dumb women. I've found what I needed! After reading a submission about a woman who was "severly abused and raped by a man for many years", I felt disgusted. HELLO! How long does it take for a woman to realize that severe beatings are not HEALTHY? That type of relationship will never change. And it took her "many years" to figure that out? What is this woman's IQ? Then I read another comment that stated "They're pigs and disrespectful to the female race." Female is not a race, it's a gender or a sex. Dumb rants from equally dumb women. Men are not the only guilty partner in a relationship. As long as women use sexual and emotional manipulation, men will compensate by lying and cheating. By the way, I am a married female. I am also a former DANCER, and I've been exposed to an equal majority of crappy men AND crappy women. But you don't see my sob story amongst your prejudiced smut. And it never will be.

Speaking of dumb rants by dumb women..... It's sad to see a woman who is so judgmental of others. Obviously, you've never been in an abusive relationship because you have absolutely no knowledge or understanding of how they work. It's easy to give advice when you've never walked in these women's shoes. And since you used all caps, I'm assuming your "expertise" in this area comes from when you were a "DANCER." Personally, I don't consider that one of the top 10 professions that shout "intelligence" and "education." Your lack of compassion and uninformend judgment of abused women makes your e-mail "prejudiced smut" so welcome to my world, sweetie.

Email 1: Reading those horrible dating stories was a very good way for me to pass the time, but I have one concern. It must be a shame to have all the men in the world looked down upon by you, and the fans of the web-site. It seems as though you consider evey living male to be so inconsiderate, and disheartening.

I'm a 19 year old college student, and on mine and my girlfriend's 3 months, I picked her up at 6:00 am and drove her to a small, rocky cliff looking out over the St. John's River in Jacksonville, Florida so that we could watch the sunrise. I managed to pick up some picnic accesories, and we had a beautiful, romantic, and very memorable breakfast, to top off an already perfect morning. Nothing went wrong. Everything worked out as I had anticipated. And in all honesty, this act of adherence isn't something i rarely do. I always try to make her feel as appreciated as one possibly could.

I hate to complain, but I guess my reasoning for telling you this is that: there appear to be no facets of your website that relate to the hardwark that some men exert to show their devotion to their significant other. I'm not really complaining... It's just that, although there are chauvinistic, stereotypical assholes out there, some men really do try. Like me. -Chandler

Yes, of course, you are a nice guy. Funny how 90% of men claim to be "nice guys" but only about 20% really are. Doesn't quite add up. Also, Chandler, please take note of the name of the site. It doesn't really indicate a site that would "relate to the 'hardwark' that some men exert." Perhaps your mistake was looking for this kind of thing at I HATE men. Try I LOVE men or something like that. We're not interested.

All you've done in these two e-mails that you sent almost one after the other (saying basically the same thing in each, I might add) is complain.

I guess my only concern would be that you assume all guys are cheuvanistic assholes. That's pretty bad, considering... isn't the person who runs this site married? oh well... (hypocracy should be a crime).

Ah...that's a little different. You DID read my bio. You just didn't understand it. Well, that's progress, I suppose.

Anyways, I am a 19 year old college student with a beautiful girlfriend whom I am extremely devoted and loyal to, and vice versa. I treat her like the queen she deserves to be treated like, and I spoil her every second that we're together.

I honestly, despite your opinion, know that some men out there really do try (i am living proof), and it's people like you, web-sites like this, that refuse to give them the slightest bit of credit. We are out there. You just have to earn our devotion. Constant criticism is not the way, however.

Yes, I'm sure you're wonderful. However, there's a fine line between being considerate and being ingratiating. Not something I want to "earn."

WoOooo! It sure is fun to be a testosterone-poisoned chest-beater. Kim yor site sux!@E it makes mans be looking like idiots. womans needs to recognize. you see they ain't recognize the power. oh yeah, and yor an idiot too. ihatewomen.com doesn't exist! ha! I guess I really put you in your place!
Okay, I'm done here. ~Master Joseph, Young Prince of Wales (and part time sexy bitch)

Yeah, yeah. Thanks for your contribution. Way to include all the things that the idiots seem to harp on. (NOTE: This isn't real hate mail. This guy is a friend of mine, just trying to annoy me. :-)

I wouldn't know. I live in a suburb of one of the largest cities in the US and came from a suburb of another large city.

It's a good thing we're e-mailing each other 'cause if you were in my house,I'd stab you!! I punched lots of bitches during my school days...

How proud you must be. I love how some guys think that kind of thing sounds cool when if fact, it makes them sound like a pathetic loser.

Email 1: YALL DON"T DESERVE THE RIGHT"S THAT WE HAVE BECAUSE YALL WOMEN NEVER DID ANY THING TO GET RIGHT"S,WOMEN DIDN"T DIE OR FIGHT FOR RIGHT" IN THIS COUNTRY ONLY MARCH AN PROTEST THAT"S NOTHING MEN DIED TO BULID AMERICA THEN YOU WOMEN HOP ON THE BAN WAGON AN AFTER ALL THE HARD WORK WAS DONE AN THE FIGHTING WAS OVER TAILKING ABOUT I WASNT A JOB AN RIGHT"S , YALL WANT EQUAL RIGHT"S TAKE OVER A COUNTRY OR START YOUR OWN COUTRY WITHOUT MEN THEN YOU CAN GET RESPECT ON THE EARTH IF AMERICA GET"S ATTACKED IT IS THE MEN THAT WILL SAVE US NOT THE WOMEN AN IF ALL THE MEN IN THE USA LEFT THE COUNTRY FOR 1 MONTN THERE WOULDN"T BE ANTHING LEFT BECAUSE ALL THE FORIEN PEOPLE WOULD TAKE OVER THEY WOULD COME IN AN WALK RIGHT OVER AMERICA ,WOMEN RIGHT"S IS HERE BECAUSE MEN SUPPORT THEM WITH OUT OUR SUPPORT YOU HAVE NO RIGHT"S OR PROTECTION

This is to stupid to even deserve a response. Anyone with an IQ above 12 can tell that this is ridiculous even without my comments.

Email 2: if you think a women can raise a son and that a women is equal to a man then you have been brainwashed, yall havenot proven yet that yall are equal anybody can get a job, show me a country women built and started from scATch, when men want to attack a country and take out the power they go for the men not the women. feminst have lied to you women and i didn't call you any names but you called me a jackass, but assoon as i call a women a bitch i'm wrong

Email 3: If a women is equal to a man what have yall done to prove it and you must not believe in god because he is sexist and gave power to man on earth you women were creatded because man was lonely now yall think yall are, are you feminist can't prove nothing just emotion talk, prove you are equal to me

Interesting take on God. And sorry, I can't prove I'm equal to you because I'm not. I'm far superior to you. Equal would be a step down. And what exactly have YOU done to prove that you are anything other than an idiot?

Email 4: I can run the world and fight wars and build city's sich most women can't and you are unlost inthis world because the white women who started the feminist movement are giveing up because society is worse than it was 50years ago. Women talking about they were slaves and that men oppressed them 50 yrs ago men love women and would do any think for them, a women is nothing without the protection of a man, which the femisnt movement doesn't tell women, the reason yall got this far is because of the help of men. You women act like yall done all this on yall own,were would you be without the police force. Haveing an education doesn't make you equal to a man, you got children that finish college at age 14 are they equal to adult no,women are just as smrt as men in some areas an not in other, and if you think I'm the only man who thinks like this you better check angryharry.com links

Yes, check out angryharry.com if you want to see a truly stupid website. Angry Harry is about as intelligent as this guy who keeps getting more and more stupid as the e-mail continues.

their are millions of men who are coming out of the woodworks tird of the bullshit, i didn,t know it was this big, you got and education but you not supposed to work.The feminist are conroling the media with the help of the rich because this movement keeps people divided, now you got neiborhoods fill with stranger instead of familys, you not even supposed to have a career, men don't want to work with women we let you work with us, becuse yall didn't die fighting no war on your issues like men so yall don't get the same respect. Thanks to the feminist you got millions of men that hate women it wasn'tlike that 30yrs ago, men always loved and respected women but th feminst lied and said women were slave and made to work you got to eat and clean if aman is their or not, No women on this planet is equal to me, your veiws are out dated the feminst that started it all are now turning back because they can see their mistakes, motherhood is better than any job you can get, were is the all female army an country started by women if yall are equal then yall should have at least one

You may be the dumbest person who has e-mailed me so far. If you are stupid enough to believe everything you just said, then I feel sorry for you. Truly.

Email 1: oh trust me darlin, i read your little bio and your little disclaimer and i was still unimpressed....for the time you spent making your unimaginative website, you could have been doing something good....like maybe teaching your kid how to ride a bike. but im sure she too will grow up to be a hatemonger...or maybe if your lucky, a lesbian. whats makes me sick is you receiving fame(eventhough what was it, rikki lake? or some garbage program) for totally uncreative website, that looks like it took about an hour to make....its fucking clown shoes.

Can a boy be a lesbian? Apparently, you didn't read the stuff too closely or you'd know I have boys. You'd also know they are a bit young to ride bikes. But thanks for the parenting tips. I just LOVE getting "helpful" advice from people who can neither read nor spell.

oh yeah, and the same goes for that fuck who made i hatewomen...his site is just as lame. the only difference is i feel somewhat sorry for him, cuz i imagine he doesnt get laid a lot...and that can fuck with a man's head.

Email 2: well at least you think you are attractive....oh yeah, what color is the sky in your world-

Email 3: maybe insted of sitting your fat ass on the computer you could go hit the gym and prove to people you are not an ugly bitch...but what do i know, im just a stupid male...good luck in your endevors and i hope that "attractive" thing works out for you-

Can't read, can't spell AND can't look at pictures even. Not too bright are you? Your description of me is interesting -- not remotely based in reality -- but interesting. I do agree with one thing: You are a stupid male. As to what you know, not much from what I can see.

I find it interesting that you elected to post the email I sent you... except wherein I described this site and its content as constituting misandrist hate speech. In fact, you have yet to satisfactorily answer that assertion with either logic or evidence.

Is it that you people think that you are so original or have such good arguments that I must not only know who you are but also fear you enough to not post your e-mail? First of all, I don't remember you one way or the other. I get A LOT of e-mail so when writing about something previously discussed, please include the original e-mail. Secondly, I post ALL e-mail. Why can't you people get that through your heads? Third, I don't have to satisy you one way or the other. If you are too stupid to read what is plainly on the site, then I can't be bothered to explain it to you. All it takes is a little effort and you could learn all you need or want to know.

So now I will tell you again that casting aspersions against a group of human beings based on hasty generalizations of that group's behavior is an act of hate speech.

And I will tell you again (apparently) that you are an idiot who can't read and/or can't understand the purpose of the site.

If you dispute this conclusion, please provide evidence to support your claim that all "men" -- rather than "some men" -- behave as you describe. If you can, indeed, validate your claim that all men behave according to the model which you hate, then your statement, "I Hate Men" and its supporting content on this site will be shown NOT to be derived from a hasty generalization, and thus not an instance of gross prejudice and hate speech.

Good Lord, you don't get out much, do you? If you did, you might loosen up a bit. You're going a little nuts over a humor site, don't ya think? Not that I owe you an explanation but here's a quickie bit of info: I don't hate men. Read the FAQ. Read my bio. If you did these things, you'd probably look less stupid.

<KIM NOTE: Keep in mind that these were in a span of two days, before I had answered any of them.>

Email 1: just like you women,you hate men,thats your problem lady,why dont you know your role in this life and shut your mouth.Why do you hate men,because were better than females,everything in this world is made and done by a man is that why.Honey go put your make up on or your panty
hose,or your tampons,and get a life bitch!

You are an idiot. Pure and simple. Nothing I can say will change that so I won't bother.

Email 2: i think you need a nice fat cock up that nice hairy triangle,we call a pussy,that will knock some sense into you little girl.

Email 3: HEY BITCH WHY DONT YOU TAKE A SHOWER,YOU LOOK LIKE A WHORE,AND I COULD SMELL THAT CUNT FROM FAR AWAY!

Email 5: HAAAAAAAAAAAAA .GET A JOB LIKE ALL OF US MEN,INSTEAD OF SHAVING THAT
NICE PUSSY ALL DAY!

Email 6: HEY STUPID SHUT YOUR MOUTH,YOU PIECE OF RAW MEAT,AND GO SHAVE THAT SMELLY PIE OF YOURS,YOU PIECE OF FEMALE TRASH,DONT FORGET TO PUT YOUR MASK ON,YOU UGLY BITCH!

You're pretty much the poster child for this site. You realize that, don't you? Do you really think these ridiculous e-mails are making men look BETTER? LOL.

Email 7: Hey women you are the biggest loser in this world to have nothing to do but pick on men,we are the reason you exist,you piece of crap,and you know everything i said is true,but all you female walking vagina's,are to stupid to understand the truth,i really feel sorry for you babe,because one of these days,you might meet a not so (humerous) man as you put it,and well you knever now
what will happen,as far as your husband goes,i mean that little puppet of yours,he's not a man, please tell him that!SO why dont you go make yourself look pretty,put all that makeup on,you wouldn't want a man to see you without,because i know its not a pretty sight,put your pantyhose
on,all your prefume,dye your hair honey,shave and powder,that nice juicy triangle of yours,and get a life you stinky WHORE!

Your knowledge of women is non-existent if this is what you think we do all day. Guess you haven't had much contact with them, huh? Not surprising considering your personality. And if you are going to call someone stupid, please learn to spell, read, punctuate, and capitalize first. Otherwise, it's just pathetic.

Email 8: Am I getting to you let me explain this to you again,we are the lifeline,and blood of this world (men),without us you would not be here.There would be no usa,society (men),has been protecting women for ages,its time that stopped little girl!What men ever did to you,for you to have that website,makes you a fool.Great example for your little son,you should be in jail honey.You
say what do i have against women,qestion is what do have against men!Now get rid of your loser site,or you will be in court.and im sure they will see it my way,you piece of smelly meat.Your in for a long ,long life, if you think like that about men,think about it!!

You're getting to me in the same way gnats do. Mildly annoying and pointless. Maybe you should think about that.

Email 9: Hey,kim you are a great example for little girls out there,telling them to hate men,you know little girls surf the net all the time,hate is a powerful word,dummy,how dare you promote that word, you are a disgrace to all women,do something good with your time,like make a website saying i love men,think about stupid!HOW DARE YOUUUUUUU....UUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are a disgrace to the human race. You don't exactly inspire "love," dude. Good luck. I fear you'll need it.

You know what's the case when your woman is coming out of the kitchen and sits next to you watching tv? -- The chain is too long.

You know what's the case when someone like you is allowed to live? The rope was too long.

THIS WEBSITE IS FOR FUCKING LOSERS. BOYS TREAT YOU LIKE THIS CAUSE YOU'RE DORKS. GROW UP

How old are you? Don't you have to be about 12 to use the word "dork"? Seems a little young to be telling anyone to "grow up."

Email 1: Checked out the website, specifically the tips sections. I think pretty much all of the advice is good, but did you really mean to be so stereotypical? I didn't see a single positive comment about men, nor a single negative comment about women. Is that on the "I Hate Women" website? If I write some tips (for men and for women) about relationships, will you include them? I know a lot of your stuff is tongue in cheek, but don't you think you're just perpetuating some of the problems between the sexes by magnifying the stereotypes?

Like I've told oh so many men, if you want positive comments, please visit something along the lines of ilovemen.com. Secondly, if you read the relevant stuff, you'd understand the site, including all about "stereotypes."

Email 2: Okay, the website. Honestly, I don't really care. I wasn't taking it seriously when I checked out the "tips" sections, and I was only half-serious in my comments. Because I know you, I can read it with a certain amount of interest. Otherwise, I wouldn't read it at all. I don't mean any disrespect to you or the subject. I know you take it seriously, but to me, it's fluff. I have piles of books, audio tapes, videos, newsletters, and other publications that I want to read, but can't find the time. I'm nearly a month behind on my daily Bible reading as well. If I take the time for ihatemen.com, it's simply to see what YOU'RE up to. Yesterday, I went to the website to see what "no-no's" I was violating.

Oh puh-lease, don't do me any favors. No one asked you to read the site. I simply said that before you CRITICIZE it, it helps to know what you're talking about. And since most of what comes out of your mouth is something far worse than "fluff," I take your negative attitude toward my site as encouragement that I'm right on track.

Oh yeah, and one other thing. I never said you were only stereotyping men. You've stereotyped women just as much, and I think you're doing a great disservice to both sexes by perpetuating the myths surrounding them and how they relate to each other. If you really want to have an influence in this world, maybe you should promote a better understanding of the sexes (although you'd have to change the site name to "understandingmen.com"). As it stands, you're really just a Howard Stern clone.

I see you still didn't take my advice and learn what end was up before forming opinions. If you had, you'd know that you simply look foolish. But then again, that doesn't seem to be a problem for you as it happens daily. Thanks for your comments. Name: mo

Message: Message: Hey I just wanted to write and tell you that I love your site, it's hilarious. I also wrote to suggest a song for the music section..it's called "Tyrone", by Erykah Badu.

From Prade, NJ

Well, I have respect for people's opinions. But, I do exercise my right to have a constructive debate. Well, I'm a 14 year old guy who's had a couple girlfriends in the past. Its not like I try to take as much from them as I can before I "leave them for the wolves". I do things that most of us enjoy. Movies, Shopping (sometimes), Six Flags etc. I don't treat girlfriends like possessions, though I use my life to protect them. I'm not some fat nerdy kid who stares at pornography all day. I happen to be a great debater, a football player, and have set many records for the 100 meter dash. I am simply typing in perfect grammar so you won't nab on me for being a "dumb man with no education" as you have done with previous comments. Now, lets face it, stereotypes are about as low as you can go. How can you hate a gender? Thats simply wrong. We all should learn to live with each other, whether we like it or not. Learning to live with each other brings about a certain constant flow of intwined relationships and constructive creativity in the race of humanity. Sexism is just about the last thing we need. Sure there are bad and animalistic men out there. But its not like all women are perfect. Men have done bad things, true, but women have too. So let us halt this destructive matter of sexism, and learn to cooperate with each other instead of hating each other for not having a reproductive organ that another has. A lot of my friends happen to be girls, and they're cool and fun to talk to and hang out with. We have a great time together talking, watching movies, and doing whatever. So you see, bonding with the other gender is essential to enjoying life. Alright, I'm going to go back to my teenage stuff. ~ Peace

From a 14 year old dude whos friend gave him this website

Jakilah, GA Entropy Message: Hey I just wanted to write and tell you that I love your site, it's hilarious. I also wrote to suggest a song for the music section.. it's called "Tyrone", by Erykah Badu.