And Your Point Is? Part II

And here we have even more HateMAIL. Am I popular or what? I guess all of us strong women with opinions of our own scare these little ol' men. Oops...too bad for them!

From John S:

My dick in your mouth, No wonder your ugly ass hates men...Just look at you.

Yes, look at me. Then look at you and the charming opening line you have here. Who would I rather be? Hmmmm....I'm going with me. And John, speaking of your first sentence...it would never happen. If you were the last man on earth, my standards would still be too high for me to have anything to do with someone like you.

From Ken:

here's one example ; why don't women fart as much as men? cant keep their mouths shut long enough to build the pressure up!

How clever . Perhaps you should be a comedian. But if I were you, I wouldn't quit my day job just yet.

but were too busy running the world to spend much time on this nonsense, so have fun!

What world are you running? Because if someone like you was in charge of my world, I would move.

From George C: (Otherwise known as Kim's Crazy Stalker Dude)

E-mail #1 (with picture): dont hate me am soft.

Ummmm....OK.

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E-mail #2: get intouch kimkay.

I did, dude. I responded oh so politely to your first e-mail. But here's another "hello."

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E-mail #3: WHY R U ANGRY? ITS ME. L MEAN GET IN TOUCH WITH ME

I wasn't aware that I was angry and again, I did respond to your e-mail. What exactly do you want from me?

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E-mail #4: How are u my dear get in touch.

OK, dude. This is getting old. I respond to your mail, that's really all I can do. Please stop asking me to get in touch. If you'd like to communicate with me, pick a topic and do it. You're pretty much just annoying me at this point.

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E-mail #5 (with picture): This is George Cole so now tell me, am just saying l wanna be close to u

Well, that's too bad. I'm married. Read the bio. Or my AOL profile for that matter since you have an AOL address.

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E-mail #6: You're stupid

Nope, just married. Stupid would be if I were involved with you. What is your problem?

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E-mail #7: My problem is that l need someone like you to be my sweetheart someone who is strong like you. Anyway l like the way you replied sorry for my harsh response get in touch. kiss////////////

Well, good luck finding someone like that but it won't be me. Thanks anyway.

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E-mail #8: You know something, am one of the men in this world who who is very cool. I dont lie cos truth is my weapon. You dont really know what is running through as am writing now. I can feel l love you so much though l dont know you. what is that? what is happenning to me? Do you have some magic or what? nothing of this sort has happend to me before. Am yearning to see you as am writing. Can you plea send me your pic? I hope you have mine. George

OK, now you've gone from annoying to creepy and scary. I have a husband and two children. I am NOT, nor will I ever be, interested in you.

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E-mail #9: I did not know you have many kids. I've now understood you clearly why you're not pulling up for me we can be friends Thank you bye for now.

If you'd read my bio, you'd know that. How exactly are you "in love" with someone you've never spoken to, never seen a picture of, and know nothing about them other than their e-mail address? And believe me, my "many" kids are not the only reason I'm not "pulling up for you." It's mostly because you're a complete nutjob.

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E-mail #10: we can be friends great friends.. Our friendship will be history

Whatever, dude.

From Eddie C:

you know you can shove it....all guys aren't bad, so until you date every single guy on the planet and prove that they are all bad, STFU.........

Yeah, that makes sense. Good plan. I'll tell you a little something though. All the guys who's e-mail is posted on this page: Bad. All the guys who Instant Message me: Bad. Several guys that I have dated: Bad. The guys that women write into the advice column about: Bad. The guys described in the Dating Woes section: Bad. The guys Ranted and Raved about: Bad. The guys who are subjects of the man hating poems and songs: Bad. Countless guys I've never even heard of: Bad. I think that's enough for me to go on.

From Howard:

E-mail #1: let me just say.........that men may lie and steal and do all the bad things that makes you want to puke.... but it was eve that FUCKED US ALL.........and she was a ............well...........u get the point ....so FUCK YOU BITCH

Let me just say...that you are an idiot.

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E-mail #2 (before I even had time to respond to the first one): like i said....FUCK YOU BITCH

And like I said...you are an idiot.

From Marco:

We love to eat your sweet p***ies (yea I know it's more sex, but it gives us pleasure to give it to you!). We put up with your shit (yes you put up with our shit too).

Are these supposed to be pros? Because any guy that would provide this information to a stranger probably has way more cons than pros. Not to mention more "shit" than most people would be willing to "put up with."

From Brandon Ray Winokur:

To whom it may concern, I came across your site by chance, and I just wanted to give you my feelings; I am a man, and some of the things you and your visitors have written are pretty serious, yes some guys can be, for lack of a better word, retarded. However they are not all like that. Most of my friends are women, I don't subscribe to the "All Macho Image" like a lot of guys do. I was in the Military too, Marine Corps. To be exact, yet all of my friends tell me that I am so caring and sweet!

Congratulations.

Now I am not telling you that you shouldn't be angry at men who do things that hurt you, My dad walked out on me twice, the only reason my mom accepted him back, is because she wanted me to have a father figure. A great deal of boys think: "My dad walked out on me, so I'll do the same to my family". But that is not how they all feel; when my dad walked out on me, I told myself that he was an example of who I would NOT become.

Again, congratulations.

All I am saying is don't hate men, because there are those of us who are not going to hurt you, but would love and cherish you for all the time we have on earth.

Thanks for your concern. How about read the site first though? You might learn a thing or two.

[Kim Note: In response to my standard "form letter" that I send out to all hateMALErs, this guy did apologize for not knowing what he was talking about before he e-mailed me.]

From Benjamin C:

In light of some of the comments made on youre web sight, I thought that I would break my anonymity in order to give a counter proposal to those mentioned in your web site. Of course, the wording mentioned below are presented in the same light as your disclaimer...

The views, opinions, statements, and beliefs represented in this e-mail message are not necessarily the views, opinions, statements, and beliefs of the author. But they could be...

Okey-dokey. I can't wait to hear the inspiring and intelligent theory you've developed.

If it was up to me, there would be no women at all. If you are religious, following one of the major religions of the earth (ie Judaism, Christanity, Islam, Hindu), then you will agree that women are worthless. Sorry, but you women really are the worst. You suck and you know it. Ha ha! I'm a christian, though not a good one.

You're also a moron, though not a good one. You are one of the worst morons that I've encountered so far.

All Christians know that Adam the man was deceived from the actions of Eve the (gulible) woman. I can say that if it wasn't for women, man and only man would still be happily serving God in the Garden as God has chosen.

You mean "man and only ONE man." How do you think all these men would get born without women? And for the record, this "brilliant" man, Adam, of whom you speak so highly, ate the apple too. At least Eve was deceived by a pretty strong opponent: Satan. Adam was just fooled by some girl he barely knew. Seems to me like Adam isn't the sharpest crayon in the box.

Now bend over or else you won't get anything to eat and you will all starve or become "sexual slaves" like in the muslim countries. Thanks for ruining our entire existence. If you don't bear a male child then we will have to abort the female child that grows within you -- and we all know that females are worthless.

And who appointed you the "abortionist"? You're a nutjob, dude. It amazes me that this makes sense even to you. How ignorant do you have to be to come up with this drivel?

Ask the Chinese. Those in third world countires (and ancient times) are correct -- women are incapable for the most part of creating anything; of moving society "forward". Therefore, they will be the first to die during starvation or times of difficulty. They cannot move society forward.

Is that so? I could list thousands and thousands of women in every area of life that have created amazing things and moved society forward. Maybe you should read the "Woman Power" section when it is added to the site. You could use some education.

Therefore, they will die and those women that do remain will bear ten or more children as her man has chosen of her (or else she too dies). And those men that she does bear will move society forward. But remember! The society that she enters upon is a society created by men. She has nothing to do (but get my food bitch!). There is really but one hope for women -- suicide. Only through suicide can women ultimately break themsleves from the dominant (and rightly so!) man. So all females should kill themsleves. This would ultimately make it easier for us all. Man would no longer have to deal with the deceite of females. And females would no longer have to deal (and rightly so!) with man. So kill yourself in the name of mankind. Please!!! Do it for us all.

You really are the most pathetic person I've ever had the misfortune to communicate with. It's hard to believe that someone this stupid has lived long enough to learn how to write (albeit poorly). Once again, bozo, if all the women were dead, there would be NO MORE MEN. Somehow you keep forgetting that men cannot reproduce on their own. Sure, the men wouldn't have to deal with the females. Wouldn't have to deal with them at all, right until the moment their idiotic race died out because they weren't smart enough to know that they needed the women until it was too late. Brilliant plan, dude.

P.S. I hate my mother, I hate relationships with women, and I hate having sex with women.

That's too bad. You should probably seek help. I'm sure you aren't bright enough to realize it but your views are not normal. You have some serious problems.

Now here is an idea that you will probably find more appealing than suicide. Instead of creating havoc for both male and female we can be constructive. Male and female segragation throughtout life is the only way to go.Just as blacks were segragated in America (unrightly so), men and women can be segragated throughout their entire lives.You should encourage your female viewers to segragate themsleves from men, and I should tell men to segragate themsleves from women. It's a great idea.

You have the human race dying out again. They gonna reproduce via e-mail while they are segregated their whole lives? God, you're a loser.

Sincerely,
Mankind

Just so you know, you do not represent mankind. You represent the inhabitants of insane asylums around the world. Good luck with your "brilliant" world plan. I'm sure it'll work perfectly. <eyes rolled>

From SpinBoyBrian:

Hey i happen to run into some boys that think there GOD. but you know i have found out theres ALOT more boys out there that actually blows my mind away with the kindness,love and not to mention support. i love it!

Well, Brian, I'm glad you've found all these wonderful men. I hope you'll be very happy with them. In the meantime, study your grammar rules. Particularly the "tricky" differences between there, they're, and their.

From Bill:

Wouldn't dislike be more appropriate...yes every one has dislikes, and hate is such a negative word. I also think that women hate other women more than they hate men, anyway that's the impression I get. Can't we just all get along.

No, Bill, "dislike" would NOT be more appropriate. Www.idislikemen.com? How stupid is that? And for the record, the Rodney King quote has been played out. Can't we all just...stop running it into the ground?

byamugisha ateenyi (kampala uganda):

my case kim is a bit different , i sweat profusely these days and when iam sleeping i feel some thing blocking my heart and then i wake up and this majorly when iam getting towards deep sleep.

What exactly does this have to do with me or with this site? We're here to discuss men and the ways they make us crazy. Not your health problems. Try WebMD.

i also do admit i have a very heavy factory schedule as a marketer, consciously or unconsciously my average sales are about 50,000-70,000 us dollars per month in a country like uganda .kindly advise and recommend me what to do. regards

Kindly go see a doctor instead of requesting advice from random Internet sites.

From Alexander R:

Do you know what the problem is ? I think you're to ugly to meet a good man. That's what I think, and why is it always men that's always the "Bad" ones ? Plz stop being a stupid self centered bitch.

I'll do that if you promise to stop being ignorant. But wait, you can't do that can you? Oh well, I guess I'll have to stay self-centered. And, ugly or not, I certainly hope I don't "meet a good man." I don't think my husband would like that too much.

From Ray:

I would like to say on behalf of the 10 out of 200 million men. That we are all not bad. I'm one of the good mens.

If you are one of the "good mens," we are in SERIOUS trouble.

From Kyle H:

E-mail #1: I think your father didn't spend enough time with you and why would he want to. Maybe you didn't like the way he touched you and he didn't want you to tell mommy because it was your special secret. You didn't like it when he would leave you after your special moments together did
you.

What kind of guy makes fun of child abuse? I think you are disgusting and on behalf of this loser, I apologize to anyone visiting the site who may have experienced abuse.

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E-mail #2: : Followup: Get some help seriously, you are the one with issues. See if you can go on
Dr. Phil or Oprah, they can probably recommend some kind of medication or treatment. Oh yeah maybe you'll have issues with Dr. Phil? Pull your head out of your ass and deal with life, let it go and move on.

Apparently you didn't take my suggestion to learn what the site was about before making an ass out of yourself as here you are once again, not making any sense and looking like an idiot.

From Joe:

So.......other than the five thousand reasons on the webpage..why do you hate men? Not all of us are jerks,least try not to be.Please e mail me a response.

If 5000 reasons aren't enough for you, I doubt that 5001 will do the trick either. Why don't you just read the site again and spare me the effort of dealing with you?

From Duff Dog

I love the pickup lines. I can't wait to try them out on some of the ladies at the bar tonight. By the way I just saw you on Rikki Lake- your really hot!!! Love that long brown hair and those dark, penetrating eyes of yours. Do you want to get together sometime? Hope to talk to you soon,

Don't hold your breath, Duff. And good luck with those pick-up lines. Keep us posted on how they work out for you.

From TrojanMan:

I came accross Ur sight well looking 4 a woman hating site for men. i have to say bravo to the ladies and there fan mail. It was so funny...cause its true . i give this site a 10 .....but not all guyz are bad.

no...im not different i got a dick and yes im a slave to my dick and its pleasures. yes i tell all women im a jerk and a asshole....why ? because when i fuck up and screw around.....they got no one but themselves to blame. i jus tell em...." i told u i was a jerk and a asshole.....no You Missed Understood You thought i was something i wasnt.

Gee, aren't you a charming fellow.

you know what ??? they agree....they dont like it...but they realize i didnt lie to them..they lied to themselves . i told them i was a jerk and asshole from the get go. they didnt listen and chose to believe i was better then i was.

Well, fear not. We have no illusions here. Trust me, no one reading this thinks you are better than you are.

why? Cause women dont listen.....men are dogs/pigs and im one of the biggest pigs. lates

How proud you must be. I imagine your mother is as well. If my boys grew up with this sort of attitude, I would know that I had failed as a parent.

From RyLouArtig:

First off I'm not sure if you know me. But from the sound of this Web site you must hate my guts for no fucking good reason. Anyway I don't care for your feelings about my sex, I have more important things to care about. I just happened to stumble on to this weird website of yours. Anyway just to let you know that women are much worse than men. I know this have my heart crushed many times (Believe me I a heart ). I would like too know how you make it stop?

If you "don't care" what I think and have all these "more important things to care about," how come you not only read the site, but took the time to e-mail me about it? Seems like a whole lot of effort for something you don't care anything about.

From David:

I hope your are a lesbian, because last time I checked, most women want to be with a man. There are a few good men out here, and they are not in the marines. Hate is a strong word if you are really just looking for a good guy.

Sorry to dash your hope but unfortunately, I'm not a lesbian. And I'm not looking for a good guy either. I have one. You know, my husband?

From DebRay:

But you prefer woman?

For what?

From Rune:

I watched U at the stupidest of all shows, the *all american* Ricky fucking Lake Show. And you know what? You fitted RIGHT IN !

So...you not only sat around watching a talk show during work/school hours that you think is stupid but you then looked up my site and went to the trouble of e-mailing me? You don't have a very full life, do you?

Continue with your rubbish crusade. There are a lot of idiot cunts out there who probably needs this shit to get a better self image.

Ironically, it's most likely you that needs a better self image. If you were secure in yourself, this site wouldn't threaten you so much. The secure men find it amusing. Personally, I have a self image bordering on arrogance. :-)

So sad. So incredibly sad. For everyone with an IQ level of above, say - thirty, it's obvious that this page stupidifies women rather than men ...

Actually, your e-mail "stupidifies" you. If you had at least an average IQ, you would "get" the site. Try reading the FAQ and disclaimer. They are very enlightening.

From Russ:

Hi Kim, I saw you on the Ricki Lake Show today, and I must say... YOU ARE GORGEOUS!!! I cannot believe you had two (beautiful) children. Are you married/dating?

As I mention in my bio, I am married and and I point out to the guys who IM me, I only "date" my husband.

I am hoping you really do LIKE men. I think I have a lot to offer any woman who has had a BAD experience with a ma, I MEAN... a BOY in the past.

I'm sure you have tons to offer but you'll have to offer it to someone else. Thanks, though.

Unfortunately, I lost my beautiful wife to a car accident in January of 2002 and I have not dated anyone since her death. On the other hand, I feel I am ready to get back into the dating arena and possibly show someone like yourself that I am a GREAT catch!

You know, at first, I was sad about your wife but then I saw your picture and figured out that it's really just a pickup line. See if this makes sense to you: A man loses his wife in a tragic accident and doesn't date for over a year. Then, one day, out of the blue, he decides it's time to date again and re-enters the dating pool by sending a half naked glamour shot type picture of himself to a stranger, claiming she's who can get him back into the dating arena. Somehow, the two pieces just don't fit for me.

From Dan N:

Whats up with this site, Not all men are bad you know I am a good guy just ask my girlfriend.

LOL. What else should I ask her? And while I'm at it, should I check with your Mommy too?

From IdeasOfaPoet:

OK I see you on Ricky lake...that was cool, I just wanted to say I happen to be a nice guy. I always meet the women after they ghave been used and abused....But I'm a nice guy

I just wanted to say that

Thanks for sharing. But what I got out of this e-mail is that you prey on the hurt and vulnerable. I don't think I'd brag about that if I were you.

From Dark4ever:

i don't send hate mail i am sending you luv.yeah i know a lot of men can be jerks.but so can woman as well.i want to be man enough to tell you sorry for every bit of pain you might have got from a man that played games with your feeling.xoxoxoxo.i watched the show you was good just went off so just stay who you are an the right man will come for you just be ready to receive what he have to offer.

Your concern and throughfulness are touching. But LOL, I can't exactly be ready to receive what the "right man" has "to offer." I'm pretty sure it would piss my husband off. A little research goes a long way....

From AktjMiller:

I feel sorry for you! With your attitude about hating men..... You're going to be real lonely!!!!!

Somehow I doubt that, what with having a husband, children, family, friends, and lots of fellow man-haters in my life.

B.O.B is not going to listen to your problems, share your hopes, dreams, love, desires.

Who's B.O.B. and why in the world would I tell him all that stuff?

[Kim Note: Seriously though, does anyone know what that stands for? I have absolutely no idea.]

Heck, with all the cheating women out there, there should be a web-site similar to yours; "Ihatewomen.com,"

Would it have killed you to spend 15 seconds typing that into a web browser to see if there IS such a site? I mean, I'm not asking that you follow the links to it from ihatemen.com or anything since that would be WAY too much effort for someone like you but for God's sake, check your facts.

But unlike you I have hope that there is A good woman somewhere.

On that we agree. I have plenty of hope that there are good women out there. In fact, I know it. I'm one of them as are the majority of women who will read this e-mail and laugh at you. It's the MEN we have an issue with. See how that works with the name of the site and all?

From AnthonyT:

Do you F**k.

None of your business but I'd bet money on the fact that if you engage in that activity, it's by yourself. And for the record, questions end with a question mark. Did you not attend school past the first grade?

From Joshua F:

Kim, I hate to say it but you are ugly. You look like a pair of chopsticks. I like your website though. The fellas and I had a huge laugh.

Glad you enjoyed it. And my heart is breaking that you don't find me attractive. Whatever will I do? <eyes rolled>

From Perry:

E-mail #1: thats really one sided thinking type of email

What e-mail exactly. You are aware that I have never e-mailed you before in my life, right? Or did you mean website. I know how simple words can confuse a guy.

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E-mail #2: I know i'm sorry about that i just was a kinda spare of the momentthing i saw your web address and heard how how you categorized all man when all man arent the way you categorize them

I think I'm going to begin a new policy of not even bothering to answer e-mail with no punctuation. I really don't have the kind of patience required to translate it into something that is actually readable.

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E-mail #3: Ok I understand so your married huh? Thats cool I apologize for inconenience I really do. You have a really adorable son and you are very cute I hope all is going well. Thanks for you time.

Thanks for the turnaround and the attempt at punctuation, anyway.

From Ytowncash:

If I hate your son can I join?

What is it you would like to join? The only thing that statement qualifies you for is the Idiots of the World club. Obviously you've never met my son because he is the most delightful, beautiful, brilliant, intelligent, sweet, loving, and fun child that ever lived. It's impossible not to fall in love with him at first sight. Maybe you should find another club.

From Masterframer06:

All of you have serious issues that you really need to work out. I hope that you people are about .01% of the female population. Get a life.

I think your percentage is pretty far off. And if having a life means visiting a site that I'm too stupid to understand and sending e-mail that reveals my ignorance to everyone, I don't want one.

From Mike E:

Well that site is just rude and it was very appauling and I hope that you have a good man already because a Man with any sense would not even go towards the negativity that your producing. Let me say this a 85k salary keeps this man doing all he wants and hey its reasonable you've found nothing but assholes but hey men with minds wont even make a step towards you with an attitude of that nature. Maybe you should make a change of choice of who your dating instead of portraying all men as dogs and utter mess ups because not all men are like that and maybe if you would understand that you might have a good look out on life because on ricky you just seemed bitter and yea we will die out but hey so will you so whats the point. P.S. umm can we say PhD. <~~ Took this dumb ignorant male a long time to acheive maybe you could discuss you adventures in getting yours.

I just have to ask, why does a guy who CLAIMS to have a PhD and a $85k per year job, have enough free time to watch talk shows during working hours, surf the net, and make a jackass out of himself with his lack of security, intelligence, and sense of humor?

[Kim Note: Notice how he tried to sound all superior with his job and degree in this e-mail but when I wrote him back to point out his ignorance, he had nothing to say in response. Seems the majority of guys who write into the site think they are big stuff when they start out and then find out they aren't as smart as they thought so they shut up. Which is what they should do.]

From Jah797:

that,s not right im a good men. bitch

And the poster child for the Fight Illiteracy Campaign.

From William W:

I had to write this, I am a man who happened to come across your website. You sound like a scorned woman who might have been jilted a few times.

And you sound like a guy who doesn't have the slightest idea of what he's talking about and didn't bother to find out before dashing off this super-brilliant e-mail.

Get over it. I know that if I named a website Ihatewomen.com I would be crucified. I guess it is a double standard for angry women.

LOL. You "know" you would be crucified for this, huh? Well, let me clue you in on a little something. My partner owns and runs ihatewomen.com with my occasional assistance and to this day, neither of us have been even close to crucified. Shows what you "know."

Hope things turn out better for you.

Ditto. Especially in the getting things correct department. Did you notice that you were wrong about every last thing you said here? What are the odds of that? (Well, on this page, pretty damn high, actually....)

From Emag:

Feminism sucks ass

Your vocabulary, insight, and knowledge are spectacular. Spectacularly bad, that is.

From Gerald:

Hello there! I just decided to write you guys maybe to prove a point...maybe to provide some hope for those of you that feel that there aren't any good guys left in the world. I went through your web page, looked at everything; the quotes, the stories, the hate mail. Some guys have replied to you in really vulgar and offensive ways. I feel that was wrong of them but I do hope that you have not all been lead to believe that all men are like that, that all of us are the same. I'm only 15 years old and I agree with women when they say that men are pigs but only to an extent. The MAJORITY are pigs. I don't consider myself one, though. I respect women, hate the words "bitch" and "ho" especially when used to talk about women, but I expect that respect to be returned. My girlfriend, who I have been with for 7 and a half months that I also wish to marry one day, has female friends who feel the need to call me names, like a "pussy" and also her "bitch", just because i treat her right and am open with my feelings with her. I tell her that I care about her, how much I love her, and I show her as well. She didn't return any of these statements to me for the first coupla' months and told me she would eventually dump me...etc. etc. due to experiencing a few bad relationships in the past. I cared enough to disregard these comments and continue on loving her until she broke this barrier down and allowed herself to love me as well, which she has done. I do not care about these shows boasting Battles of the Sexes...I could give a rat's ass who's better at these things. I don't judge by sex, race, religion, or sexual preference and I DO have a penis (not a small one either, 7 in., you decide if that's good or not).

Damn dude, just when I had decided you weren't as annoying as most of the guys who e-mail me, you had to throw that in. <sigh>

There is a website called Ihatewomen.com, as well, and I feel the people who created that are ignorant, perverted, and likely hillbillies.

I'll pass that along to Slammy. He's perverted, but he's fairly bright and he's definitely not a hillbilly. But, to your credit, at least you bothered to see if it was a site before using it as an example.

I do not support the idea that women were made to clean, cook, and be ordered without the opportunity to provide their own opinions and ideas. But males, such as myself, should not be categorized or prejudged. And I agree with one letter that said something about men being nice/good/understanding or something and not being liked by women for one reason or another. I have had that happen many a times and had a girl tell me, "You're nice guy but I just want to be friends." I'm not ugly, I'm not stupid, and I could see that these women, for some reason, preferred the jerks over good guys like myself. It's not rare, either. From where I've lived, from small towns to big cities, this is what happens. Most girls prefer the assholes. Thankfully, I am no longer searching and have found the one I want to be with. Most women confuse me, seeing how I have a very nice friend as well and have tried to get him good women as well only to find that they'd rather go out with someone who would disrespect them, cheat on them, and give fake apologies. Also, guys tend to be better friends to women. Tell me, how many times have you been backstabbed by a girlfriend? This shit-talking behind each other's backs, spreading of rumors, etc. does not exist in circles of male friends. Many of my friends who are female prefer to be friends with me rather than other girls due to these reasons. Guys deserve some respect, a little bit of consideration, and a hell of a lot more credit--Not all of us are assholes. Anyhow...that's all for my letter. I think if I go on anymore, I'll ramble a bit too much. Thanks for listening!

You already rambled a bit too much but I thank you for your thoughts.

From Neptune:

Read this ,it will help www.ihatewomen.com

Help what? Show your ignorance. I've read it, dude. I'm INVOLVED with it as I've stated numerous times. Pay attention.

From John H:

I agree that guys do suck, but I think that's what women want sometimes. No woman wants a nice guy!

No woman wants a jackass either. Too bad there are only few guys who qualify as happy mediums. How come the majority of guys fall into one of three categories: doormats, jackasses, or homosexuals? Makes it difficult for us women to find that small majority of eligible guys.

From John:

Hi Kim, Thank you for the lovely web site. Perhaps you would like to check mine out. It'swww.womenaretheoffspringofsatan.com or www.slap_a_bitch.com. I think you'll find them as amusing a I found yours.

I might, if they actually existed. Thanks for playing though.

[Kim Note: In response to my return e-mail, John did apologize for not knowing anything about the site before spouting off.]

From Matt B:

E-mail 1: Curious - Just one thing,maybe this will make you happy. What if all of a sudden every man got a sex change and then became women? (I heard over in Europe they have a thing like that.) --subject

Well, if every man became a woman, the human race would die out so no, I'm pretty sure that's not so great of an idea. As for Europe, do you mean that they do sex change operations or they are systematically changing all men into women? Because they also do sex change operations in the US but I'm fairly positive that the entire continent of Europe isn't working to eradicate men from the face of the Earth.

E-mail #2: You remind me of those '70's feminists.(no wonder we have a revival!) Did you ever burn a bra? I feel like burning boxers myself.

I didn't wear a bra in the 70s. There wasn't much need since by the time the 70s ended, I was only 8.

E-mail #3: Just to let you know,my sex life is already over... Matt

Ummmm....thanks for sharing....

From my husband (LOL). Well, it isn't exactly hatemail but it did fit the page so I decided to add it:

Honeybee,
Well, I read your tips for men. Very enlightening. But, I have a question... since I do dishes about every other day and feed the kids at least every day, why don't I get more sex? Huh? Huh?? That's what I thought!

<Sigh> As usual, my love, you are being a bit too literal. There really isn't room to include what each individual man on the planet should do to get more sex from his wife so I had to give the general idea. What you were supposed to get out of it is that you should do something ABOVE AND BEYOND your usual "household chores." If you are always the one to wash the dishes, it isn't taking anything extra from your wife's tasks. You have to do something special. For instance, YOU might want to try saying this one morning: "You go on and sleep an extra hour today. I'll get the kids changed and fed before I go to work so you can have a little break." Or on a Saturday, "I'm going to take the kids to the park so you can have a couple of hours to do whatever you want to do for you." See how it works? Men! <shaking head>

Also, you misspelled something..."If you are going to buy a womn flowers, do not simply order a dozen red roses." In case you weren't aware, woman contains an "a". Women! Love you

It's actually a typo as opposed to a misspelling but I do appreciate your looking out for me and the site. I know it is very rare but occasionally, I do make a little mistake here and there. It is now fixed. Feel free to proofread the rest of the site. It would be helpful, actually. And hey, maybe you can add that to your bid for more sex. :-) Love you too.

From "Prince Zordar":

YOU FUCKING WOMEN ALL SUCK. YOUR ALL WORTHLESS PIECES OF HUMAN SHIT WHO ONLY USE US MEN. THE NERVE OF YOU TO COMPLAIN ABOUT US WHEN U BITCHES CHEAT MORE ON US THEN U. GO FUCK YOURSELVES AND SEE IF MEN REALLY DO CARE ABOUT YOU PIECES OF CAMEL SHIT

Easy on the "caps lock," dude. It hurts my eyes. And maybe you need to look in the mirror to see why you are treated so badly by women. Did it ever occur to you that your attitude might need an adjustment. You have to GIVE respect to get it.

From Random Guy:

WHA WHA WHA Women are just as dumb if not dumber than men and this website is just about the most ignorant thing i've seen.and just so you all(women) know Feminism is stupid and there is no reason for it.you are not the minority anymore you have so many more opportunities than men nowadays. so please stop the whining.

The "ignorant" part of this site is the content of the e-mail on this page, yours included.

From SNYSTATE:

Amazing to see your site. I could do a IHATEWOMEN site with similar results.

I'm pretty sure Slammy would have something to say about that. Check it out. It's there. Really.

I have found that, if you meet a gal online at noon and then meet her in person two hours later, she still has time to age 15 years, gain 25 lbs. and pick up a husband. I marvel at their time management skills.

I have found that the kind of guys who look for a girl online to meet within a couple of hours are sleazy and looking simply for sex. They are also usually married and unattractive.

Incidentally, I'm relatively well-educated, with two doctorate degrees (one in psychology) and find all too many ladies out their to be rather selfish and guarded.

Ooooohhh...educated hate mail. That doesn't happen much.

From Richard W:

Stop it you dumb asses

Oh, of course. You said stop so we'll do it. <eyes rolled>

From NoFx:

hey, you know whut? your a fucking whore, you "bitchs" put that shit up and its not even true for all guys, "ihatemen.com" whut you a lesbian? oh and about your little gay contest? if you hate men you arent gonna get a kick ass layout by a girl, no offence to girls but there are more talented guys for that shit then girls so good luck with your little contest.

You know "whut"? You're an idiot and an illiterate one at that. In addition to the lame insults, the idea that women are inferior to men at web design is ridiculous.

you gurls are being little stuck-up whores that can only think about fucking money and how "hot" a gurl looks!

Is "gurl" halfway between a guy and a girl? Could you not make up your mind.

fuck you bitch

You wish.

From Sam:

People like you need to be shot. I sincerely hope you die.

What a charming fellow you are. I sincerely hope you get help.

From Mr. Blair:

look shut up people that hate women or men are no better than the kkk maybey women want to wear there sheets and kill men for no reason but that there stupied or maybey men want to wear the sheets but that they are stupied look this is one country ok live with it deal with it or shut the fuck up

I like these either/or things some of you people come up with. Sorry to disappoint you but I don't have to deal with anything OR shut up. Here's a thought, "maybey" you are the one who is "stupied."

From Kemos:

To Kim
I just saw you on the Ricki Lake show about Wimpi men. I never really watched the show before as I can't be bothered with talk shows and moaning people (in my opinion) but I did hear you mention your website.

LOL. What a coincidence. The very first time you watched a talk show, you watched it so carefully that you heard the two seconds it took to say the name of the website AND went to the trouble of going there and then e-mailing me. Right. I believe it. I'm sure you never sit around and watch talk shows.

I was really saddened that someone could produce such a demeaning and downgrading website about people who bring so much to this world. Of course, there are the men who do not always treat people nicely, but if we had a world full of people like you Kim, who sought the bad in people all the time, where would the world be. I think men bring so much good to this world. I am married to the perfect man who treats me so well, and who has given me a beautiful baby boy. When I hear of you speak ill of men on your site it really saddens me. I'm not usually drawn to respond to things such as this, but you really got to me, especially the name of your website. I hope that, one day, you can find it in your heart to see the good in the men of this world.

The coincidence continues...you don't usually respond to the websites that you hear about on the talk shows that you don't watch. Funny. That aside, it saddens me that some people only read the main page of the website and/or aren't bright enough to understand it before making assumptions and sending me e-mail that they never send based on talk shows they never watch.

From Happydude:

When are you going to realize that all you women are is a life support system for a pussy, men are better at everything in life and all this site represents is your jealousy of that fact. Get over yourself, maybe you should realize that if you didn't have a pussy you would probably be hunted for sport. I'm amazed that men tolerate women like you. Your only role in life is procreation, so lay down and do your job. Hell your probably pretty tight so I'll give you a go myself.

I'm out of your league. Sorry, dude. Oops, I mean HAPPY dude. That's a perfect name for you because as the saying goes, ignorance is bliss.

From R Shake:

Dear Ms. Kay,

How formal.

I found your website by accident from a link on Mensactivism.org. I am 46 years old and in my second marriage. My first marriage ended after 17 years and five children. On reflection I find that my ex had nothing going for her that I find desirable. She was very limited in her interests, a control freak, had a severe weight problem, was sexually inhibited and didn't much care about her appearance. We married very young and were involved in the same religion.

Interesting strategy for choosing a mate. You like nothing about her but you are the same religion. Good plan. I'm SHOCKED that it didn't work out. <eyes rolled>

I have since left that religion and have no desire to return to it. What alarms me is the 35 years of my life that I have been subject to continuing put downs because of my gender. Men are pigs, Men are messy, Men are emotionally closed off etc. etc. Fact is that science is showing that evolution and biology is as responsible for much of the traits of masculine men as is our culture. Women and especially Feminists have been waging a war against Men, then complain when the "Hated Patriarchal Oppressor" fails to want them anymore or marry or commit to them.

Blah, blah, blah....

Census figures show that Men are opting out of relationships. Since our sexual desires for women have been criminalized, and we risk loss of job, career, income and incarceration why would we want to have a relationship. Men my age who have been through a divorce and the trauma of losing one's dreams for raising their children, contact with their children, are unwilling to risk a second family and loss of children a second time at the whim of their spouse. Suicide figures of divorced Fathers are twelve (12) times that of Divorced Mothers. At the rate of decline of our current birth rates, our civilization is in danger of being replaced by those with a more prolific birth rate. Say for example Islam how would you like living in Afghanistan under the Taliban? Got a Burkha handy?
This is where Women have allowed themselves to be hijacked by misandrists and particularly Lesbians who hate men. Let me ask you is it humorous to publicly advocate the sterilization of all Men? Ms. Burk is advocating such to do away with unwanted pregnancies. It is not bad enough that Men no longer have reproductive rights towards their children. We now have Nazis pretending to be Feminists who want to sterilize us. Or feminists advocating the extermination of most males leaving only 10% for breeding stock. Mary Daly was a tenured Professor of Women's Studies at Boston College. She routinely broke the law and forbade Males from physically attending her class. A court challenge to her policies forced her ouster for breaking the law.

Blah, blah blah, blah blah, blah....

Our genders need each other. Men who divorce tend to remarry and have second families. The current draconian abuse of Males must end. It is damaging our children and Women as well. The latest census figures reveal that there has never been so many single people. Men are opting out of this culture and women complain about being lonely. Why? The social policies women have fought for are being enacted. You are complaining after getting what your gender has been demanding.

Blah continued....

Are you happier now? Will abusing Men, make you happy or lonely? Regards

I'll have to go with happy. It's hard to be lonely with a husband, a toddler, and an infant. There is someone around me every minute of the day. And lo and behold, the website hasn't caused me any unhappiness whatsoever. E-mail such is this is a bit tedious but otherwise, it's all sunshine and light. Thanks for your concern though.

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