And Your Point Is?

Here are some of the lovely e-mails Ihave received from "fans" of IHateMen.com. Since I am merely one person, and some of them refer to more than one person, I figured you all should know what the insecure guys on the web are saying about "us". If you want to read mail from men who actually have a sense of humor and are confident enough in themselves to appreciate the site, go to Our Men Friends. And if you want to read the nice things people have said about the site, check out What I'm Saying. Stay here to see our HateMALE! Or go to page 2, page 3, or Page 4 for even more HateMALE.

NOTE: For those of you who keep up with the HateMALE...the new stuff added on September 13, 2003 begins at the bottom of page 2, right after the e-mail from my husband and continues through page 4. :-)

Warning: Many of these contain strong language and explicit insults. Please see our disclaimer if you are under 18 or are offended by explicit language, rudeness, adult themes, or stupidity. (ESPECIALLY stupidity! Read on to see why....)

From Billy:

"all you depressed women need to go find a man that will treat you right and quit bitching."

A man treat you right? No way! Do those REALLY exist?

From Jesus Christ:

you are a stupid fat cunt who probably cant get any. try pullin the tampon out of your twat and stick up your nose. try getting a man, cause people like you, really need a swift kick in the head. turn on your damn vibrator - maybe that will help. go to hell. i hope you die. f&%k off cause men hate you. nice site.

Gee, don't you have quite the grasp of the English language? And "Jesus," just for the record, I weigh 100 lbs. and I have a man, my husband. But thank you for your suggestions anyway.

From KentLord:

You smelly, horse-faced stinkhole....STOP BLAMING MEN FOR THE WOUND IN YOUR CROTCH! Oh yeah, you owe us a rib. F&%k off!

Aren't you a charming fellow? What woman wouldn't be lucky to have you?

From Someone Not Brave Enough to Sign His Name:

I hate you dumb bitches for being dykes. You need f@&%ed one good time and then you will shut the f@%! up. I hate you all. I am going to have sex now.

You mean there is actually someone who is willing to have sex with you?

From Rob:

Your website is funny. You didn't seem to point out any real problems with men. Here is some food for thought. We are the ones that have to work our asses off and use our intelligence to make it in the world. You girls just have to spread your legs. Anyways I'm not complaining. That's what your good for. And the funny thing about your type is that I'd bet you a million to one that you would go for a cocky asshole like me. Then you'd wonder why you always go for the asshole. Cuz you don't really want the wimpy nice guy. That doesn't turn you on. Silly girl.

If this is an example of "using your intelligence to make it in the world," I'm guessing you haven't gotten very far in life. And Rob, you couldn't get a woman like me, even if you tried your very best. Silly boy.

From Howard:

U Must be a dike...

I'm a "low embankment that prevents floods"? Really? Um...Howard, before you try to insult me, learn to spell.

From The Man:

I Hate you fucking woman ==all you know is how to fuck a man and not give him or let him have a life = all of you will use your pusse to get us and then what all the fucking money we have or get ==SO FUCK YOU ==

Hear is a big PPS for you

FROM NOW ON THE ONLY WAY I'M GOING TO FUCK A WOMAN IS IN HER ASS ==LIKEING IT OR WILLING OR NOT ITS IN AND UP THE ASS HOLE =If you donn't like this fuck you too==

Not only can you not spell, you have some serious problems, dude. Just so you know, being "The Man" does not mean forcing yourself on people who aren't interested. Do that and you'll become "The Prisoner."

From Vincent:

KIM, YOUR AN EVIL SLAVE! WOMEN ARE SLAVES, MEN ARE GODS THAT RULE OVER SLAVES , THATS A FACT! WHEN YOU GET 2 HELL TELL THEM A GOD SENT YOU! FUCKING SLAVE!

FUCK YOU! SLAVE! WHHEN DID I SAY YOU COULD HAVE AN OPINION! I DONT THINK ITS VERY INTELLIGENT 2 START AN I HATE MEN SITE, IT WILL BE DELETED BY HACKERS PROBABLY 1 DAY, AND YOU'LL PROBABLY GET BEAT UP 1 DAY, SO SHUT IT! SLAVE!

BY THE WAY, WERE YOU MOLESTED AS A CHILD BY YOUR FATHER?

No, as a matter of fact, I wasn't. Were you dropped on your head as a child by your father? It would explain a lot.

The next couple are from Fred. He seems to enjoy e-mailing me.

yup you really are silly les, husband, you mean the guy who is a lady boy, the man with no intellect who takes ur lieing lessy ways as facts, even though they are total factoids... Myths most of them, and even the studies that show that men get whoooped the same, on some of those 'studies' you disregard...

It's hard to respond to this since it's a little to incoherent for me to understand. Fred, are you on medication?

I just thought on, Dakota, that's you boys name, huummmmm sounds like the deal the Indians had with the white man, yup you feed him cloth him (maybe in dresses) then your gonna change his very essence and tell him he should be more like a girl or pee sitting down, due to the fact that women know best, due to the superiority over everything men do. All I'm saying is that you're going to sell him down the river just like the white men did to the ordains, so don't blame me, leslady, when he either commits suede or murder, maybe yours, or ends up in jail, due to his very being was ignored ....

Yes, that's EXACTLY my parenting strategy. Put my son in a dress and sell him down the river. How did you know? <eyes rolled>

P.S. Kate my enemy, do you know were materialism comes from, and do you think that men pollute the world more than women?

Who's Kate?

From Vector242:

you probably hate men cause your an ugly skank that got used to many times. men dont respect sluts or whores.

I'm beginning to feel like an English teacher here. Have any of you men heard of things like spelling, grammar, capitalization, or punctuation? Well Vector, in addition to your poor grasp of the English language, your reading skills seem to be lacking as well. Check my profile. I'm just a sweet little ol' Suburban housewife. And for the record, someone as "intelligent" as you are would be lucky to find someone as "ugly" as me.

From Dave135796:

Its a real shame that there are people like you around, you are pre-judgmental (in the unluckily case you don't already know) and frankly I can't see how this site is supposed to be entertaining, it not funny or clever your just making a tit out of yourself.

Well if it isn't the pot calling the kettle black. In case the irony is lost on you, Dave, calling "people like me" things like "pre-judgmental" IS prejudicial towards ME. Did you bother to read my bio before you decided what kind of "people" I am? And if you don't find the site entertaining, don't read it. It's that simple.

From SDeswords:

Oh, sorry. I hate to have to send this but @ 100 lb.(? U) I think you'd better stay with your husband because you could not handle me. Hell my girl just barely can. Damn! Did I say that? Oh, well.

Ummm...why would I want to "handle you"? I do have standards, you know.

From Matt O:

When did you discover that you hate men? and are you a Lesbo ?

Once again, no, I'm not a "Lesbo" but the more mail I read from men like you, the more attractive that seems.

From Mark:

Yeah my name is Mark. You seem to be a stupid witch. I mean what kind of moron blames all their problems on the the opposite sex. You seem to be so stubern that you won't listen to any other person's view. I hope people like you burn and wiether away in hell

And you seem to be an idiot. Just when I tell myself that pointing out how the educational system has failed most of the men who e-mail me is getting old, I get things like "stubern" and "wiether." <sigh>

From Alireza Jazayen:

hi iam iranian the photo sexy for you love fuck bye

Well, you've done it. You've left me speechless. Of course, it's only because I have no idea what in the hell you are trying to say. <For those of you reading this, there wasn't a photo attached like the e-mail seems to imply.>

From Janos Deak:

<He submitted these for the "Pros" page but they're more appropriate for the "Jokes" page if you ask me.>

SMARTER THAN WOMEN!!!!
CAN DRIVE!!!
CAN DESIGN, CREATE, BUILD, FIX STUFF (INCLUDING DILDOS FOR YOUR KIND)!!!
CAN TEACH YOU HOW TO GIVE A GOOD HEAD

Thank you for your submissions, Janos, but unfortunately, we don't accept science fiction. I will give you a piece of advice though: Spend less time practicing your "skills" by fixing dildos and giving head and get out in the real world. You'll find out which is REALLY the smarter sex.

From Deadly Angel1003:

fuck u

That's the best you can do?!?!?! Why don't you expand your vocabulary a little and try again?

From R:

Hey all you women that are sorry, sad, lonely and repulsive! I have to tell you that men are the best. In fact, I found the man of my dreams and I resent the fact that you think what I found isn't worth it. That's just your stupid female mind talking without thinking....as usual! But there is a man out there to fulfill your every fantasy and instead you're going to take the time to B**&E about them! Well, get real! You just are afraid of ending up lonely, ugly, and helpless. Well good for you because I'm not going to! hahahahahahahaha! Women suck! Sincerely, *R*

Women suck, huh? Aren't YOU a woman? Are you saying that you suck and have a "stupid female mind"? Because if so, you really should work on your self-esteem. It saddens me to see a woman with this attitude toward her own sex. Poor girl.

From Dave:

We (men) are not all like this... Some are stupid, some are 'ok' some are very nice, just like you girls, some are stupids, other 'ok' and some very nice! Anyway, continu your webpage! And good luck in finding a nice and good men for u.

Oh dear, the educational system again. <sigh> Anyway, never fear, Dave, I will "continu" my webpage as long as there are men in this world like the ones represented on this page. Also, I appreciate your wish of good luck in finding a "nice and good man" but I have a feeling that my husband wouldn't appreciate it nearly as much. Why oh why don't you people ever bother to read my bio before sending me these inane e-mails?

From Spazzbury:

clever!!! but we are not all bad!

Oh yeah, says who? And thank you. I think the site is pretty clever myself. :-)

From Raven:

My roommate wrapped me up like a mummy in all of her pantyhose, stockings and tights after she caught me in her panty drawer, sniffing and playing with them... *whimpers*

Perhaps you should get a hobby. Or some imagination. Surely you could have come up with something more clever than this.

From MySSMonte84:

Kim, why do you hate men so much?

Although I do agree with you men are dawgs, one should realize not ALL men are. I figure you must have a pretty good reason, maybe if you share it with me, I can understand better?

Read my bio, Monte. It's pretty enlightening.

From Ken:

mabye your anti-abuse movement would be more effective if it didn't use prases such as, "no WOMAN deserves to be abused" it's just as wrong for a woman to hit a man as it is for a man to hit a woman. if you use phrases like the previous then it makes you sound like it's ok for a woman to hit a man. pc little girl, pc.
love,
ken

And maybe your e-mail would be more effective if you could spell. But that aside, let me clue you in on something: This site is primarily for WOMEN so we concern ourselves with abuse against women. Women are the victims of domestic violence 95% of the time but if you are truly concerned about the 5% of men who are also victims, please visit www.ihatewomen.com. THAT site is primarily for men and has information on abuse of men. See how it works?

From bcmiller:

Over the years, women have demanded over and over that they receive little breaks and shortcuts here and there to aquire equal rights. I say give them all the breaks they need. If they want to be equal with men, their going to need them. Don't you agree?

No, idiot, I don't agree. I believe that women are inherently superior to men. Why would they need "breaks" to be equal? And who would WANT to be equal with men? It would be a step down.

From Allen K:

You should see a therapist!

Actually, I AM a therapist but I appreciate your concern.

From Aaron Joy:

im glad ur so pissed off

And what, may I ask, am I pissed off about? I didn't realize I was. Thanks for letting me know.

From Danny:

I'd just like to say your sites ok and all, but why don't you put up the males point of view, or anything to show that were not all bastards, granted most are, but i for one arn't, i've been screwed around by too many women lateley which sucks, so on your site your making it out like men don't get screwed around by women, which probably happens more than men screw women around, you probably won't do anything about this but it was worth a try, o and does your husband not have anything to say about your site?

Did you happen to notice the name of the site? In case you didn't, it's called I HATE MEN. Now why in the world would we want to put up the man's point of view? We DON'T CARE about the man's point of view. As for my husband, he has a sense of humor and an amazingly high IQ. He actually enjoys conversations which begin with, "Guess what this idiot guy said to me TODAY...."

From Rabea Ali:

From a human
Even if you hate men there will still be women who like men, And men who like women. Life goes on..and soon you'll see one day that you are alone it, So i advice all women to like men..Why? very simple look at the facts men are born to love women and vice versa, Neither men nor women could be stable in their emotions without each other.. We need each other its a genetic thing thats why some of you are marred :)...., I guess maybe that some of you have had a bad experience with the wrong man, Or your married to one. Its a strange thing i always see girls go for the bad guys .. bad guys are wanted the most...... it's a problem for men too, it's not easy to find the women he wants.. you know, we are all humans and the good man or women do exists...........(I LOVE THE WOMEN CUZ SHE IS A WOMEN)

OK, judging by your name, I'll assume English is not your primary language and skip the usual critique. As to the substance, what there is of it, just let me say that there are many men and women who can be "stable in their emotions" without someone of the opposite sex. It's the people whose happiness depends on another person that have problems. It's not healthy.

From Joshua Heaton:

Look not all men suck i was looking at you're pros and cons and most of the cons do not apply to me. I do not burp or fart and then laugh about it i am not insensitive you say we forget anniveseries to so what we are forgetfull sometimes and not me i do not think i am better looking then i really am i also do not sit around watching sports all day as a matter a fact i hate sports i do not tell a women i love her just for sex i would never toy with someones emotions like that i am also not late for everything i also do not act macho i try to build muscle yes but just as a hobby not as a way of life i will admit i have looked at porn but have only done it back when i was 13 and i was wrong to do it and when i am sick i do not act like a baby i take care of myself you also say we pee all over the batroom yes i have done that but if you had a dick you would relize it is not as simple as it looks it slants different directions and all sorts of shit i do lie sometimes when it is to protect someone like im not gonna tell a little kd that there is no santa claus everyone lies i do not cheat at all you see men arnt all bad most of them yes but some are all right im sorry if you have had all bad experinces with men but look you cant base all of you're fellings for you're father as the way every man in the world will act if you still want to hate men fine but try and relize we dont all suck

Wow, that was one long sentence! I'm so glad to know that you are the perfect man, Joshua. Your mother must be so proud. So now that you've got the man thing figured out, perhaps you should work on punctuation next. A period here and there wouldn't hurt.

From F**kerofwomen:

Hey ladies im here to fuck all i think about is sex i wanna fuck now lets go ill slip my cock inta ur tight little ass and clit you know you wanna fuck now you're getting hotter by the second c'mon take off you're pants and finger you're self

Oh dear God. You, sir, are the poster child for why this site exists.

From Blackbear969:

U SUCK U FOOL

Very eloquent. Another fine example of a man.

From Cassidy Crissman:

the hell wit u!

Are you and Blackbear969 related? You both have a stellar vocabulary.

From Josh:

Hey i know you hate men but mabe you havent found the right one

Or "mabe" I have, my husband. You know, the one I mention on my bio AND the FAQ? Once again I have to ask, why oh why can't you people read?

From James E. Bacon, Esquire:

Dear Mrs. Kay
Well having visited your site ( having been directed there by a radical
feminist friend of mine) i find myself compelled to write to you. I'm torn between calling you an outrageous bitch and apologising for the behaviour of men at large. I can't pick one so i'll do both. On your list of "cons" about men i picked a grand total of TWO that i am guilty of. Yes i get sleepyafter sex but that is because my body has just been flooded with endorphines and I am actually riding a natural drugs high. That's not a legitimate reason to hate men. that's just part of the design. If you want meaningful discussion do it before sex. Second, on occasion I do look at pornography. Well I'm single, it's playboy so they are well paid and no one gets hurt. I'm not sure why I do it. So if youre gonna hate me because I find naked wone sexy then get on with it, Ive had my fill of you.
Next up Anne Oakley quoted on this website asserts that without men the world would be a better place. Well I assert that if men weren't around to compete for resources then women would do it themselves. We're just better at it( having had more practice) I could bitch and moan all day but i dont want to annoy you too much. actually i don't want to annoy you at all. I will finally say this I am male and I therefore value my masculinity. I don't however need to subjugate women in order to validate that masculinity. i am truy appalled by the content of messages you have been sent. and deeply shamed for my gender but just try to remember these things 1) men will stop being assholes when women stop marrying asswipes 2) there are still some men out there that are worth knowing. God knows in my arrogance i consider myself to be one of them

Wow, another perfect male. Forgive my cynicism, Mr. Bacon, Esquire, but women, back me up here. Have you ever met a guy who DIDN'T think he was perfect? I've never met a guy who considered himself anything like the men described on this site. Yet there seem to be a lot of them. Hmmm...something just doesn't add up.

From Don Brewer:

Joke: Women Pro: Realize exactly what women are about and treat them accordingly!

And exactly what planet do you live on?

From A.P. Carr:

Why, may I ask, are you being so damn silly?"A woman is battered every 15 seconds somewhere in America. And every day in
this country, 4 women are murdered by a spouse or intimate partner. Both victims and abusers come from all racial, religious, socioeconomic, and ethnic groups. NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ABUSED"Mmmm.You ARE aware that the exact same survey that came up with the "one women every 15 seconds" also threw up the interesting fact that the figure for MEN being abused by WOMEN would make it "one man every 14 seconds".No, apparently you're not: In all cultures, the perpetrators are most commonly the men of the family. Women are most commonly the victims of violence."Now that really is silly.Don't you people ever feel embarrassed at the drivel you people put out? Do you sleep at night or just lay there thinking of silly things to say?I guess he really hurt ya?Get over it, take it like a man, dammit!

Check your stats, AP. 95% of victims of domestic violence are WOMEN. Your claims are unsubstantiated and yes, I did check. So, no, I don't feel silly or embarrassed about anything on this site. Do YOU feel embarrassed about unfounded claims about DV or unfounded assumptions about my personal life?

From Jeff (With the subject line: MAN HATER!!!):

Just kidding, I know you really don't hate men. But I came across your website out of boredom here at work.I saw your pictures and I think your hot.Thought I'd let you know.

Gee, thanks Jeff. That really made my day. <eyes rolled>

From Jonas:

This truly is a pathetic site, I can understand the grief caused by men all around the world but women hurt men as much or even more. I was suprised by this childish website were bittered women come to out their frustrations because they got hurt, to all these women: try finding a male friend and try to understand him(get some ice-cream together or something), and never come back to this horrible site again.

(sorry for my spelling mistakes, english is not my native language)

Ohhhh...the solution is ice cream?!?! Well, girls, now we know. But, Jonas, if you don't enjoy this "horrible site", you don't have to come here. No one has a gun to your head. Maybe you'd be happier going out for ice cream instead.

From Edward Hogan:

I'm sure that more people email you than what you show on your website. Why is it that you only post the emails from men who are making an ass of themselves? Could it be that you don't like the fact that most of us acually have a point? I also notice that most of the quotes you have are from talkshows and sitcoms. www.ihatewomen.com has most of their quotes from famous leaders and psychologists. It seems that you don't have very much of a point against men, if any at all. Oh well, no biggy.

Why do I only post the e-mails from men who are making an ass of themselves? Because THOSE ARE THE ONLY E-MAILS I GET. I post every e-mail unless it is from someone seeking private advice or someone who requests that their e-mail not be posted. And check the quote section again, it seems you missed about 90% of the them. You know, the ones not from talkshows and sitcoms.

<NOTE: In response to my standard "You are an idiot who has no sense of humor and didn't bother to read the disclaimer..." e-mail response to all e-mail like this, Edward did apologize.>

From Ashley Tice:

I'm sorry to hear that men have done these things to you but let me inform you, not ALL men are like that. My husband loves me for me, not for sex! There are plenty of men out there that respect and care about their women and I thought it was awful that you put all men are stupid. There's no such thing as a weaker sex, remember?

Oh dear, it saddens me to see a woman who didn't bother to read the disclaimer or my bio before getting her panties in a wad. That's usually something reserved for men. What is this world coming to?

<NOTE: Got an apology on this one too. Whew! Restored my faith in women.>

From Alex Martin:

Wow, I just don't know what to say. It's sad that you feel that way about men. You've successfully stereotyped men everywhere and I can't help but feel that what you've created is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Personally, I like to think that I don't fit those stereotypes. I play classical clarinet, haven't worn blue jeans in years, read, write, and take a moment to enjoy the finer points in life, like Mozart K. 581 or Al Purdy. I don't even stand when I use the washroom anymore. I find that it lacks finess to occasionally miss. And yet I find myself lonely because I don't fit in with the stereotypical troglodyte who watches football, drinks beer and cannot go for a second without thinking about sex nor with the typical woman who's so caught up in that image that I don't register. Why is it that the men you describe always get the girl? I find myself increasingly stirred by the contradictions that sometimes I find myself hating women. But I stop to think about the ones that weren't all bad. There have been women in my life who meant everything, even if only for a moment. Are you too busy hating all men to see that not all of us are worth hating?
Sadly, nice guys finish last and chivalry is out of fashion these days.

Sincerely,
A Young Man in a woman's world

Gee, let me get out my violin. Poor Alex, the ultimate sensitive male who has been unfairly stereotyped.

<NOTE: Alex e-mailed me twice more to despair over his inability to find a woman as "we all like assholes and he is nice and sensitive." I'm not bothering to post them because frankly, they are a bit boring and redundant. My response to all three would be pretty much the same.>

From Jeff Ducas:

Just would likr to say number one your web page is cool...I like it because it is like 3D if you look at it right...And all men are not assholes and like getting a bad hair cut...I would understand that most men are assholes and people that ou would only like to see once...But there are the 1 to 2 % of us males that are what a woman wants and knows there needs...You see i lived with 4 les's and they told me what was needed of the women...Well I am not gay eather...Well enjoy this e-mail and I know you will send a nasty one back but just food for thought...YOUR BEAUTIFUL thats all. This is me just to let you know..LOL have fun with this e-mail.....

Well, let's all thank the "4 les's" for letting you know what we need. Do I have some sort of magnetic field around me that attracts people like this? And does anyone know how to get rid of it?

From a guy calling himself Sally Ann:

quess what jack, bill ate a banana the other day and it gave him the shits. It was real funny because it was dripping out of his school shorts in science. His girlfriend dumped him and now I go out with him, i so glad my dream has come true after all these years and all it took was for hm to shit his pants, he did stink when i asked him out, but his cute freckled face was so irresistable.

"Quess" what, jack.... I've seen better trolls from elementary school children. And your subject matter is oh so classy. I bet your mama's proud of you, huh?

From Bob T:

um.....yeah......im currently starting a website against this website thats called www.ihatemenisallgeneralizations.com. this is the most retarded site i have seen in awhile. i could make the same list of generalizations on your pros/cons section for women. gg lesbo

I would say that you're the pot calling the kettle black but that would be an insult to "retarded" people, especially since you seem to be lower on the food chain than a large majority of the people on this planet. You apparently cannot even read or you would know my sexual orientation. Good luck with your site, dude.

From Will A:

wanna fuk

Oh SURE. I really want to engage in that activity with someone who can't even spell it correctly. (I mean, really, who can't spell fuck?) If the imagination and intelligence reflected in this e-mail is any indication, I wouldn't expect great things from your performance in that area either.

From Al Wi:

Your web page makes me sad, I can tell you that because I am in touch with my emotions. The reasons u say u hate men are the same reasons you like 'em. I am a "sensitive" "nice-guy" but until I learned to pretend to be an un-caring asshole, I never got any attention from the oppisite sex. Now I
act like a major-league asshole and pretend not to care when I really do. I "forget" to call when i say I will(and really just want to spend time with my girl) and they can't get enough of my wonderful stuff. It sucks that I have to be someone I'm not. But everytime I let a woman know how much she means to me, she loses respect for me and thinks im a puss.

You've got some problems that go beyond these women. Maybe instead of blaming us for what we "like in a man," you should take a look at yourself and see what's keeping you from having a productive relationship. It might help your prospects.

If this was a real letter I'd include some "C" batterys for your toy, cuz you obviously need to aleviate some tension. WAHAHAHAHAHA. U want me now, don't you?

Oh yes, I have a fondness for crude, obnoxious, semi-literate jackasses. <eyes rolled> I can't imagine that the women are lining up at your door.

I know. Thanks for the ideas, u made me think.

Don't strain yourself.

From Ben B:

Ok some guys are in fact assholes, however there are more than what I can count women who will thoughtlessly pair themselves up with these guys only to create some kind of superficial drama in their lives, so that someone can feel sorry for them. A lot of guys are nice and some girls are too ignorant to realize it. There are no stupid men, just lots and lots of stupid women.

Have you actually seen the site? Or do you just not recognize stupidity when it is staring you in the face? (Or the mirror, for that matter.) Pick any letter on this page or any Instant Message or Profile in the Guys Online section and see how your theory holds up. No, stupid men....hahahaha. This site is overrun with them.

From Daniel R:

Email 1: Here's something for your hate MAIL page... I don['t hate you. I do, however, pity you. Your site, and the misandristic attitude that spawned it, is no different from the kind of shitty treatment you must've suffered by whatever dipshit inspired you to start the site. Put more simply, you're no better than the men you bitch and moan about.

Oh, for God's sake, will you people PLEASE read my GD bio before e-mailing me? For the 1000th time, there was no "dipshit." Well, there are about 500 on this site but not an ex-boyfriend one that plunged me into bitterness and despair, forcing me to create this site.

And besides, what the fuck did you expect? Of COURSE Chivalry is dead -- feminism killed it! You want men to treat you like a goddess when you treat them like shit? See, not all of us guys are these prancing, foppish, effeminate little pussies who will give you all the benefits and expect you to live up to no responsibilities.

Aren't we a little extreme? I wasn't aware that the only two options for men were jackass and p***y. Surely there is some middle ground. You may not have learned how to treat women but there are some guys who don't fall into either category. You should consider working on your relationship skills instead of sending me pointless e-mails.

Email 2: Actually, I have read your bio, disclaimer and FAQ. But guess what, Kim? You can't get away with propagating gender-based hate just by prefacing it with niceties like that. Yes, you're married -- to a man (Gasp!) -- but your web site's main focus is still male-bashing... the sugar coating doesn't change that basic fact. Your response so far has been to throw out red herrings. Naughty, naughty. :)

Ya know what? Your opinion on my website is really not that interesting to me. The fact is, I CAN get away with "propagating" anything I wish. One of those nifty little rights protected by the constitution. One of the plusses of being an American. If you don't like it, feel free to find a website you DO like. That's YOUR right. See how it works?

But I am glad you finally responded; I was afraid you were having trouble coming up with a response at all. Too bad the response itself was a disappointing logical fallacy... Regards

LOL. I love you people who think your arguments are so convincing and original that coming up with a response is difficult. You haven't said anything that I haven't heard or answered before so don't pat yourself on the back just yet. To your credit, you at least spelled your unoriginal comments correctly. That's something.

From DW:

listen to this u bitch, I looked at your cons list, and i do just the opposite on all of them! If i only care about my looks, why do you spend 3hours infront of the bathroom mirror! Ive met girls that never say sorry, too vain, always up themselves, assholes round there mates. SO SUCK IT U BITCH

Jeez...another fine example of the educational system at work. And, DW, I have never spent 3 hours in front of the bathroom mirror in my entire life. I can get showered, dressed, and ready in about 30 minutes. And half that time is spent detangling my hair, not "prettying myself up." So suck it yourself. It's probably the best you'll ever do anyway.

From Fordo:

You would like me.. I’m not like all the other guys…

I bet.

From Sebastian G:

It seems to me that you have done a good job of selecting the minortiy of women that have made the life choice to eat carpet. What did you do, send emails out to the global rape victims website asking for input? Because it seems to me that you have a very shelted and biased view of life, which is just really really sad.

Here's what's actually really, really sad. The fact that so many men in this world cannot read, have no sense of humor, and are pretty much assholes which causes me to have to waste my time on this sort of drivel.

Do you want me to start on the flaws about women? Because you know I can, you might be short on testosterone, but you sure do make up for it in all other respects of life. If you want to start with the males inability to control their own testosterone, well how about the fact that ever month (yes here it comes) women just can't seem to maintain a constant personality or set attitude, how is this any different to the male struggle? And you know I just can't seem to get over the fact that without men, how would the majority of women fund all their little shopping sprees??

Gee, another guy blaming the fact that a woman is angry with him on her "time of the month." Guys, accept some responsibility. Just because we yell at you, it doesn't mean we have PMS. It really means that we think you are an idiot and/or a jackass.

And if you think women need men to "fund all their little shopping sprees," you are even more out of touch with reality than I can imagine. THIS is something you "can't seem to get over?" You really need to get a life and go out into the real world where you might learn a few things. Until then, I'm pretty sure any relationship you may be lucky enough to have, will be doomed before it even begins.

When presenting a view on a story you should really take accounts from the larger demographic, because I can assure you that I have met quite a few women who could sympathise with you sorry cause, but ultimately would think you are just a pathetic bitch..

Hmmm...the demographic. Well, we have women from nearly every state in the US as well as dozens of countries around the world. And according to the counter, over 330,000 of them. Not bad if I do say so myself. Where exactly do YOU find these women you claim to know? In your imagination maybe?

Ahh woe is you.

For real. Dealing with morons is exhausting.

From EHSOF98:

hello the only reaion you hate men is no guy wants to date you

Oh, is that it? I guess my husband, all my ex-boyfriends, the people who IM me, and the people who try to pick me up when I'm out aren't guys. Nice to know. And since you gave me such a helpful piece of information, I'm going to give you one...or six: Learn to spell. Learn to punctuate. Learn to capitalize. Learn to read. Develop a sense of humor. And don't express your unfounded assumptions to people who can prove you wrong. With these few "simple" adjustments, you may actually appear a little more intelligent when interacting with others.

From jables:

get over it...you make me sick

Get over what?

From Joe:

Wow. Yours is the most incredibly biased and assinine webpage i have ever seen. Your main point against all of the hate"male" is that they have typos. So what? everybody makes mistakes.

<sigh> In addition to your poor spelling, which you call "typos," you don't seem to be able to read. Although I do lament the fact that there are so many illiterate men who e-mail me, I also make fun of the content as well. And for the record, I am just fine with actual typos, I even make them myself from time to time. My "main point" is that if you are going to call me a name, spell it correctly. Otherwise, you just look like an idiot.

Did it ever occur to you that maybe your problems are your own fault? Oh wait, no, that can't be since women are perfect.

While I agree that women are perfect, the rest of this section is "assinine." (Yes, I do know how to spell it. I'm making a point.) Your selective reading skills strike again. You've read enough of this page to see my spelling obsession, but not enough to see where I've told dozens of guys the same thing I'm about to say to you. Read my damn bio before you assume what problems I do or don't have.

You, and all the women who frequent your site, obviously have inferiority complexes or other serious mental problems.

That is only "obvious" to people who don't have the intelligence to understand the site.

if i were your husband, i would shoot myself.

Don't worry, that would never happen. I'm too smart for you.

100lbs? Bullshit. That's an impossible weight to achieve. unless you are malnourished, the lowest you could be is in the 110-120 range.

And where did you get your medical degree? I'd sue for my money back if I were you because you didn't learn much. There are plenty of people with my height and size frame that weigh what I do. And I'm damn healthy.

Please, do become a lesbian, and save us men your incessent and inane babbling and whining.
I dare you to put this on the site and come up with a valid response for it.

LOL. The dare is unnecessary. I put up all idiotic e-mail.

ps- Women like you should be shot into space in a rocket headed towards the sun. and for the stupid, inane=silly and pointless

Clever.

NOTE: I e-mailed this guy back long ago when I received the e-mail and surprise, surprise, he didn't respond. Guess he figured he was out of his league. :-)

From John G:

Why dont they just change this to the lesbian site

Well John, "they" (I guess I'm they?) don't change this to a lesbian site because it would leave out a large majority of people who hate men. We (again, me) welcome men and women, gay or straight. The only criteria are a sense of humor and a grudge against men. We don't discriminate.

From John & Jane Doe: (who are apparently too chicken to use their real names)

Just logged on to your website and it sucks. I'm sitting here with the woman I love and she agrees. Two options
1. Change the stupid jokes.
2. Get a life besides having your own website and find a woman who shares your interests in hating men and make hateful babies through artificial insemination.

How about we make it three options? #3: I leave the jokes where they are, I stick with my current life, stay with my husband, continue having delightful babies the "natural" way, and you can go away if you don't like the site. Because, really, I can do whatever the hell I want, without your permission or "options."

From Segakid:

I am a man, do you seriously hate me? I've never treated women bad, but its nice to know women group us all together like that. I dont know if you truely hate all men or not, even if Its true and you seriously do hate me I just want you to know that I dont hate you and never will. If you decide to reply I'd also like to know what inspired you to make a site such as this and what your intentions are with this hate site.

If you had read more than the main page before e-mailing me, you would know the answers to all your questions. I don't have the time or patience to explain something to you which you could easily find out for yourself.

From Arlon V:

I watched you on Rikki Lake(1-27-03)and i got the impression you are well educated and not too bad in the looks dept. I can understand your hate for men to a some degree,but if some guy jerked you around,why bash all of us. HOW ABOUT A WEBSITE(I HATE WOMEN.COM)? Would it bother you ? knowing your a good person and you did not bash the opposite sex. I would really like to hear from you

Would a website called ihatewomen.com bother me? Hmmmm.... Well, considering there IS a site called ihatewomen.com which was originally created about ME specifically by my then ex-boyfriend and now partner in these little sites, I'd have to say no. I mean, I write advice for the site and help out with proofreading the content occasionally. Now if I were bothered, would I do all that? I think not. See, I have a sense of humor. I also have the intelligence to read more than the main page of a site before asking questions. A little effort goes a long way in the knowledge department.

From Tarek:

your website is pathetic. The way you act makes all men out to be bad ones. I am currently in medical school, my third year. Of course I do not have a job as I work 90 hour weeks in the hospital while I am still paying for school. This is called rotations and you still pay about 30 grand a year for it. Because I don't have a job and my current girlfriend pays most of our outside expenses this makes me a bad man. You need to realize that not all men are wimps as you called them on the ricky lake show.

You gotta wonder how someone who works 90 hours a week has time to watch talk shows, surf the net, and write uninformed, ignorant e-mail. But that aside, if you had watched carefully, you would know that on Ricki, I was talking directly to the men on the panel. Were you there? If not, I don't believe I was talking to you. And if you read more carefully, this e-mail would have been unnecessary.

It is the same stereotyping as me calling you and all of your members dykes

You are a typical woman that just complains and whines and has now taken a womans number one quality and turned it into a job. You need to get on with a normal life and let the previous bad experiences you've had with men go cause you seem to be a mentally disturbed, infatuated, unforgiving, spiteful woman

LOL. And you seem to be an idiot.

Thank you

For what?

From Sebastian K:

i hate u hahahaha

Yeah, you're funny. And clever. And witty. <eyes rolled>

From Myrlandi S:

The person who made this website is a ugly hor

And the person who wrote this is an illiterate jackass. I'd pick ugly over stupid any day.

From Neptune:

Your the asshole generalizing all men into one little ridiculous category.Your most likely some lonely unattractive Douche Bag who has no self esteem. If you go through your little cons list you'd notice that women are the same way,There snotty ones,sluts,bitches,and annoying ones. Its called variety, Men aren't produced out of a factory with the same mind. Your an idiot and you wasted your time with this stupid website,and i wasted my time reading some of it.

Did you not know that the little box in the upper righthand corner of your web browser with a little "x" in it, closes pages you don't like? If it was such a waste of time, why did you waste EVEN MORE time just to write in and show off your inability to understand the site or me?

From JT:

look bitch,i saw you on ricky lake,i jus wanted to say if youre really as offensive as you sound,then fuck you,but if this site is not directed towards all men,then right on,more power to you,thats about all i have to say,have a nice bitch :)

Way to cover all the bases, JT.

From Russ K:

Im not sure if you know this or not, but the Bon Jovi song and the Linkin Park song are both about women. By the way I am a man, and I am looking at your site because I was interested in it after hearing about it on Ricki Lake. Just for fair play, I hope you realize that there are probably as many, if not more women out there that treat men badly. I am not the most attractive guy in the world, and before I met my wonderful wife of almost 8 years, I had a very hard time with women, due to the fact that most of them were looking for money, or some "Joe Studley" looking guy, both of which I was not. I understand that a lot of men are jerks, but a lot of us are not. And just so you know, I had to do a lot of growing up to make my marriage work the way it works now. How about a section devoted to the guys like myself who truely love their wives and willingly admit that they would be lost without them, instead of just bashing us as a whole.

While you were checking out the site, did you happen to notice the NAME? Because it would seem to imply that the good qualities of men are of no interest to us. As I told a guy earlier, go search for ilovemen.com or some other ego-gratifying site if you want to read the nicey-nice stuff. It's not really our thing.

There are a lot of trashy, sleazy women out there and I know you wouldn,t want to be grouped with them as a whole. I know I do not appreciate being grouped with men as a whole as being bad. Thanks for your time.

I have been grouped with these women (see ihatewomen.com) and I've managed to live through it. Why? A sense of humor. You might want to look into getting one of those.

From Nubian900:

fuck bitch im a man

And what a credit to your gender you are. Is it that hard to form just one complete sentence? I mean, it's not like you had the "difficult" task of getting paragraphs of text to actually make sense. You used only five words and STILL didn't get it quite right. That's a bit sad, don't you think?

From shreckdesign:

hi I am a boy and I think you shouldn't have this site I was just watching you on TV but I can see you probably make a lot of money off it any ways and I think the voodoo software is a great ideal.

Hi. I am a girl and I think I should have this site. And guess what? I win.

From Jim:

Why do you hate men? All men ain't bad. I always get dumped by the ladies without any explantion. I'm not a jerk. In fact I am old fashioned guy who opens doors and brings flowers. But yet they leave me for the jerk.

How unfortunate. It sucks to be you, huh?

From Davan S. Mani (E-mail #1):

Do you hate men within your race or all men from 7 continents? I don't think you could have experienced that. So, please be detailed of what type of men you hate. Most likely white males and maybe a few African-Americans or Hispanics. However, I'm Asian-Indian and if you have come across people like then I'm delighted because I'm included but if you haven't "screw off" you scared closeted race-phobic.

Jeez, dude. Lighten up. You might be taking the site a bit too literally if you really need a "detailed list of what type of men I hate." And I'm a bit unclear how not having the pleasure to meet an Asian-Indian makes me a closeted race-phobic. Should I have taken off a year of my life to travel the globe, seeking out every race and mix thereof? That seems a little crazy to me.

God has given you men and women. So, will you please choose.

Choose what? I'm pretty sure it isn't up to me to decide which gender stays on the planet. But if it were....hmmmm.....

You don't have to be with just men. If you women would stick together globally, we wouldn't have this mess that we men love to create. We can get away with it because you women, globally, don't stick together all too well. You women like to be around people of your own race that we men have invented (Race is something that men invented to keep women under control. Countries are invented on the bodies of women. The big designed fear is that women will go to the other side. So, laws are designed to keep you under man's hand). Feminism is okay as long as it used a humiliation tactic over another country. Example: USA and Afghanastan. USA saying how sexist Afghanastan is instead of discussing the Taliban's role their. Well, women ran that country until the Taliban came. This country has Jerry Falwell, 1950's, and Tammy Wynette. So, you see, men stick together, women don't. Another words, you are bleeped or we're all bleeped.

I can't really answer this because frankly, I can't make any sense of it. This is possibly the most idiotic explanation of men & women that I have ever heard. Not only are you race-phobic, you are women-phobic is well. I think you should get some help.

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From Davan S. Mani (E-mail #2):

[Kim Note: This is an example of why you should think before you speak to lunatics. I told this moron that he should probably read my bio and all the other useful site information before asking me any more questions. I made the mistake of inviting him to ask me anything he couldn't find on the site. Here is what he came up with.]

In looking at your picture, my impression is that your are bi-sexual and multi-ethinic looking. Which I can't find in your bio?

How in the WORLD do you determine bi-sexuality from looking at pictures of me with my dog and with my children? Interesting insight. Too bad it's incorrect. But I am technically multi-ethnic. My mom is Greek and my dad is German and Irish. Of course, I'm about as "truly ethnic" as the majority of Americans. I was born in this country, as were my parents, grandparents, and great grandparents. So basically, I'm your run of the mill American girl whose way back ancestors immigrated to this country (as did EVERYONE's except the Native Americans).

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From Davan S. Mani (E-mail #3):

The bi-sexual part was a joke. I guess I was supposed to pick that up in your readings. Plenty of bi-sexuals were and are married and have children like Margaret Mead, Sophie B. Hawkins, Alice Walker, and Madonna. Since you have multi-ethnicity, I let you go because I do respect that. Actually, I should take your parents for that. The world is coming closer together in a small way. Inbreeding makes idiots of all but it is a tool to maintain a particular race and identity invented by man as well.

LOL, glad I could gain approval in your eyes just by being born. If any of you other guys want to leave me alone simply because I "have multi-ethnicity," I'll thank my parents again and again.

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