How many of you have been reading the HateMALE page and ended up yelling at the idiot guy through your computer? Well, here's your chance to be heard. If you have anything to say to one of those guys (or all of them in general), send me your response and I'll post it. If you disagree with our resident man's advice (Slammy), write in and let him know! (We know that we can't always trust a man's advice.) Or if there's anyone else you want to answer on the site, now's your opportunity.

**Special thanks to Jen who volunteered her time and effort to help get this page updated!**

From Roo:
Female Replying to HateMALE: I am a swf, and this is to all the low-life men out there… No wonder why us women are outraged by men..And why we have little trust and faith in you.. All you men care about is getting your dick wet.. Did your father treat your mother with disrespect?? And you can't seem to learn to charm a woman they way they deserve so you have to dump something in their drink and take what you can get, because someone is not willing to give it to you.. If you need sex that bad, go pick someone up on a street corner and pay for it. And for all you disrespectful bastards, no wonder why I can't trust anyone. You are all bad apples that are spoiled with a worm hanging out. One of these days, someone is gonna cut the core out of you.. You will get what is coming to you. So all you piece of shit men out there can bite my *(_!_)*!!!!!! You make me sick. By the way, I am independent and never have and never will need a man to pay my way for a piece of azz.

From Spat, NJ:
OK....I would like to submit this to ALL the men sending in the HateMALE and being so wicked and evil about it. First of all, RELAX! Take a chill pill and if you think you're so hot and so special, this site obviously wouldn't bother you too much! (Think about it!) Second, I'm pleading with all you angry (or even calm) men out there reading through this site and shaking your heads to shed some light! Angry about the way we're mocking you? Reading through the Rants and Raves shaking your head? Think we must be all evil, fat, ugly bitches who have nothing better to do? Then I ask this - why do SO many men seem to be SO evil? Why are there so many men out there that have done many of the things I read through on the Rants and Raves page? It's all too common and all I ask is that instead of mocking and slinging more mud at us...shed some light...the fact is, it's happening...and it's happening all too often - getting stood up, cheating, lying, not communicating, blaming us, along with a whole host of other "men" related behaviors. Fact is, it happens alot and as far as I'm concerned, us women don't do a damn thing to provoke it. So I challenge you men to prove us wrong and that all your moronic behaviors can be justified! I wish you luck - you'll need it!

From Nik:
Ok I totally agree, well said Roo! I'm 15 and know that's true, I've been through all that. Never again, women you don't need men to make you happy!

From Katie:
GRRRRRRRR what is a girl to do when your website is not responding??? I have a few funny stories, plus I desperately need the voodoo doll......guess where the first pin is going????????!!!!!!!!!
Listen to this one.......nothing better than pulling up to a stop light to see a guy doing what (only God knows) he does best: cleaning out a porta potty! Imagine his surprise when I screamed,"Hey baby!"and cheered him on, praising the wonderful task at hand. I continued on with my words of encouragement, guiding his every muscular movement........the wiping, scrubbing, and emptying of the homosapial wasteland material.

From Julesgirl, AZ:
Wow, you get a lot of good hate mail Kim! Boys act so funny when you push their buttons. ;)

To the wonderful, charming, literate and considerate men who write to this website with criticisms: If you don't like having your shortcomings and bad behavior pointed out and discussed, then KNOCK IT OFF. STOP DOING THAT SHIT. You guys are so logical and rational that you should be able to handle that, no problem. Just STOP IT.

That is all.

From Ashley, OH:
Okay, I read the hatemale on this website and I wasn't very happy. You men, or should I say boys, really have problems. Maybe you should look at this website as an advantage. Hello!!?? We're talking about all the wrong things you do. Maybe this would help you out a little. Get a clue, guys. You are the reason this website exists. You keep fucking up. Do something about it!! We, us women, are sick of the lying and cheating perverts. I can't stand talking to a guy who talks perverted. It is a total turn-off. I do have a boyfriend, I admit he's not the best and he'll probably be out the door. We aren't gonna take much more of this. It's pathetic. And understand, the reason we have lesbians is because of you idiots. If you enjoy the fact that woman like woman knowing that you'd never have a chance than that's your problem. Quit acting like jerks and do a little something for us, then you might get some.

By the way, love the website it's great. I'm glad I ran across it.

From Athena, TX:
Have you noticed the difference in the ways that men and women express their frustration with the members of the opposite sex? Compare ihatemen.com to ihatewomen.com and try to mask your distaste at the way that ihatewomen.com is run. It's horrific!

The language on ihatewomen.com is beyond vulgar, and quite a few of the <men> who write in sound like they need psychological help. Ihatemen.com relies on humor and wit to make its point (i.e. it's not SERIOUS) while ihatewomen.com uses strictly four-letter words to attack and degrade women. I'm appalled at the majority of things that most <men> on ihatewomen.com say, especially in regard to serious subjects like rape and abuse. How dare ANYONE make light of them?

Like Kim, I know that there are good men in the world (although there are FEW good men on ihatewomen.com). We choose to ridicule only those men who deserve it, such as the arrogant jerks who think that they're God's gift to women.

I'm embarrassed for the people who run ihatewomen.com. If your site weren't so chock-full of bitterness and anger, it might not be such a waste of space. Here's a hint: instead of allowing yourselves to choke on your own bitterness, why not learn to laugh it off instead? It would save you a trip to the shrink's.

From Ragdoll, Canada:
Hey Kim, about your rant regarding Dawson's Creek. I was equally pissed. I also spent four hours of my day watching that show too, and I've been a fan since the beginning! How could the creator have done that?! I was so mad, what the hell? Plus, what was with all that crap about Dawson saying "It doesn't matter who ends up with who, we go beyond friendship, blah blah". So why did they not just get together? Doesn't it make more sense for that to happen? I'm so mad! Plus, I liked Jenn, why the hell did they have to kill her off? Stupid people! UGH!

From JooLee, New Zealand:
I haven't read through the whole site because it's quite large. But today I was reading some of the hate mail in "your point?" section and noticed a pattern:

1. Men are illiterate and uneducated.
2. Men have no sense of humour - or is it that a "me thinketh thou doth protest too much" syndrome? (forgive me Mr. Shakespeare).
3. They are focused primarily on the webmaster's (and the subscribers to the site) sexual preferences.
4. All rape victims are somehow less of a person because of their experience (and it's probably all their fault too).

These guys just don't realize how much they prove our point! Like the saying goes: Women don't make fools of men - most of them are the do-it-yourself types!

From Kiki:
I am a single mother of 5 children, full time student and a full time waitress. All 5 children with one man. I know what it is like to live in a relationship that is abusive and not healthy. It was cowardly of me to stay but brave of me to leave. After reading most of your site. I found it quite amusing. I think that women should take responsibility for the relationships they have been in or are currently in. To be a superior gender is to say we are stronger, braver, and more courageous. Yet as women we don't show these types of behaviors. We stay when we are hit. We stay when we are cheated on. We stay because we "love" them. How can strong, courageous, brave people stay in a unhealthy situation? To stay is to show weakness and dependence. To leave and not take it is to be brave and independent. The only way men will change is if we no longer tolerate the abuse and neglect. If we believe that we are superior than we must show our superiorness in our actions and not in words alone. Just remember you are in control of who you are, what you say, and how you hold yourself at all times. The only chains that bind us are the chains which we have made. The time I began to heal is when I took on responsibility for that relationship,when I realized that I allowed the abuse, and that I allowed the mistreatment. Then and only then did I have the courage to stand up for myself and leave. Its time women start acting the part they proclaim to have and actually be strong and brave not just in words but in actions.

I was not at all offended at the sight. It is true that men can be asses....just remember, sisters, that we are in control. Don't allow it and it will stop! It may not stop with that particular man but the next it won't even get that far because you won't accept any less than the best....he cheats, you leave....he calls you a name, you run like hell.... he shows violence in any way shape or form, say "bye-bye" It is that simple ladies. At the first glimpse that a man is not of high character stop dating him. Be the brave, courageous, and strong ladies that you claim to be.

From Kathi:
Men suck because women allow them to. Come on gals. We have the ultimate power over men. Use it and make the man in your life behave! Don't they use all their tricks? Stop being stupid doormats and have a little self respect. At the first sign of pig behavior - move on and don't allow it to continue!!!!!!!

From Ms. D, AP:
Hi to ALL OF YOU PIGS that think you're smart for sending crazy emails. Just get over yourself. Women are catching on to all of the BULL SHIT, and we are doing something about it. And this web-site is just a start. I can understand why you would get pissed off at this web-site. BECAUSE YOU ARE SIMPLE MINDED. And because this web-page isn't telling us to fall at your feet, but instead..it's saying, OPEN YOUR DAMN EYES. So yes, be afraid. SHOW US EXACTLY HOW LOW YOU CAN GO..AND EXACTLY HOW SIMPLE MINDED YOU REALLY ARE. KEEP'EM COMING. KEEP US LAUGHING. That's all we do, with every email you send, we realize, exactly how stupid you guys really are! And exactly how much it bothers you that we are REALIZING THIS! So, once again to all of you disrespectful BASTARDS...KEEP 'EM COMING. WE(WOMEN)love to laugh. Absolutely love it. And to Kim, Emily, and even Slammy, thanks for all the quick responses and the good attitudes on life!