Defective Men Stories

* Women of Ontario, Canada, beware! Currently on the prowl is one unsavoury creature – "Dare–n E–m". He just recently split with his wife, has no friends and is looking to take advantage of kind, unsuspecting women. Sadly, I fell into his trap (but not for long!) It started when he told me on the phone how he had to get out of his house, because his "ex" was being so horrible to him. He said he was planning to sleep in his car. Stupid me says, "no, don‘t be rediculous, you can sleep on my couch". Bad move! Well, this guy arrives with all his shit and promptly starts to take over my life. I talk to him for a while, and while he is charming, he is also pushy. He is insistant that I should sleep with him. He insults my decor. He hates my cat (I should have had enough then!) Sadly, because I have been so utterly lacking in affection, I eventually do give into him and sleep with him. After all, how bad could it be? Well, the lousy (and painful) sex was the least of my problems. The next day we go out for breakfast and to look for a new place for him. He starts talking about how we should move in together, to save money (wtf???I sleep with you once and you want to move in???? To save money???I‘m sorry, but that‘s just creepy). However, I convince myself I‘m making too much of it and ignore my inner alarm bells (dumb!). It wasn‘t until he‘d firmly planted himself in my apartment like a tumour that he finally told me why he was having so much trouble re–locating for work. He was under disciplinary action for "misbehaving" (read:groping) a female client. He made it sound like it was consentual and just a minor "slip", but I‘m thinking, are you fucking retarded? Anyhow, by this point I‘ve told this jerk I would help him move and relocate his pathetic life, so I feel I can‘t run away – yet. By this time, he‘s made a regular habit of expecting me to feed him, entertain him, fuck him (he accused me of withholding sex because we went a whole 12 hours without fucking) and clean up after his slobby ass. I asked him to make the bed and he refused, claiming that was "women‘s work". (Colour me furious!!!) He‘s also made a nasty habit of "forgetting" his wallet when we‘re out, so I have to pay for everything. Can you say "freeloader"? Anyway, we drove to a city about 2 hours away for the weekend so he could find a new place to live and work. He keeps bugging me about moving my life to be with him, that by refusing I‘m not "committed" and not making "compromises". He continues on with his freeloading ways, expecting me to pay for him (or at least for myself) all the time. When he actually pays for the hotel room he acts like I should get down there and then and suck his tiny cock in gratitude. He is agitated and angry the whole time, and every time I disagree with him on the slightest thing, he says I don‘t "compromise" and am not good relationship material. I didn‘t know that having your own opinion (or a brain) meant that I was ineligible for marriage! So after we find this loser a place to live, we drive to another nearby city to ostensibly "enjoy" the rest of the weekend hanging out with some of my best friends, who are very cool people. I swear, I have never been so embarrassed! He acted like a total cretin: I had to pay for all the food and wine we brought (apparently he‘s never heard of a hostess gift) and had to sit through all the horrible stories he had about how great his car is, how big his T.V. is etc. (my friends have multiple degrees and massive I.Q.s, not exactly materialistc dumbasses). At the dinner party he insults the cooking, the wine, the multiple feminists, humanists and environmentalists and generally intelligent people in attendance, then gets too drunk and has to pass out early. In short, a total boor (however, the rest of the evening was great without him!) The next day when we go out for brunch spends the whole time talking on his cell phone, and then conveniently disappears when the bill arrives. By this time I‘ve had it. Then, in the car, he says to everyone that he‘d like to visit his grandmother while he‘s in town, but he has no idea how he would explain me to her! As if I was a two cent hooker! (My friend later admitted she almost slugged him at this point). Later, we go to take him shopping for a new TV (god forbid he doesn‘t have the biggest and best!) and get into an argument. I tell him I just can‘t do this anymore, I‘m tired of him sucking me dry and I feel like he‘s using me. Of course I‘m upset, but then he starts screaming at me and telling me how unstable I am, how I have like five different personalities etc. I of course retort with a forceful "fuck you" (as any self–respecting woman would) and he goes off the handle. He pulls in the store parking lot and tells me to get out of his car, or he‘s going to call the cops. I‘m half crying, half laughing, wondering what the fuck he‘s going to tell them. "Hello, officer? My date just got a spine, and she‘s become really hard to control! Help!" Of course, to his credit, I would call the cops if I were only 5‘4" too (I tower over him). He keeps screaming at me to get out of his car, but I just sit calmly and tell him he can remove me if he likes (he knows at this point if he touches me in anger his career is probably over for good). He finally leaves, goes in the store and does his thing. Needless to say, I did not go home with him, and my friends were only to happy to watch as I kicked his ass to the curb. However, to end my story I will say this. If you know this man, stay away! He‘s not only fucking over his dates – he‘s hiding money from his ex (and his young child). He is a total user and a coward. Days later when he came to get his crap from my place, he had another woman in tow, presumably to protect him in case I decided to kick his ass there and then! Too funny. Ladies, you‘ve been warned!     Sad Sadie , Canada 05/22/08

* OK, here it goes. Picture it ATL, GA Saturday night. I work as a cocktail server downtown and I am invited to a going away party for a former co–worker who is relocating for a better job opportunity. Well I must say after working a shift on my feet, plus I didn‘t get much sleep the night before, I don‘t much feel like partying. I decide to BLOW off the party and head home. As soon as I hit my front door my cell phone rings, it is one of my co–workers telling me I‘d better get to the party Quick Fast and in a hurry. Someone is there who is dying to see you! That person is a former "affair" of mine who left the company a little over two years ago and I had never heard a word from since they left. Well I decide I do need some closure with this guy so I throw some tight jeans on low heeled boots and a cleavage revealing top and head over to the party. Upon my arrival it is like the party people part like the red sea and who approaches me with a big hug and a passionate kiss (like it was yesterday the last time he had seen me)?? Smoov! I will not put him on blast on this site but he knows who he is. We spend the remainder of the evening all hugged up and kissing each other down like there is no tomorrow. I really want to take him home but he has a wife to get home to. (Yea, I know I am just as guilty and full of sin as he is, but it is HIS job to be concerned about wifey not me) The sun is coming up and we part ways he begs me to clear my calendar for Tuesday so we can get together and hang out. He says he has missed me terribly and he wants to rekindle what we had. I am in agreement because he was the most passionate man I had ever met. I clear all appointments for Tuesday and sit home awaiting my phone call from him (he doesn‘t have a SAFE number I can call him on, hmm) I cleared my appointments for nothing because I never heard a word from him again. I guess I will have to wait until the next co–worker party and hope he shows up. This is a sick game of hearts this guy is playing with both myself and his poor innocent wife of 22 years. I am at a loss for words about this "gentleman" (used loosely)I want him but not the BS that goes along with loving him...I‘m out, comment back if you like!     CocoaDiva , GA 04/23/08

* There is something WRONG with this GUY!!! Peter G, of Danbury, CT. He will use you for everything you have, he will play you for all you got, he is a LIAR and is the CHEAPEST person I have ever met!! What gives with this person? I can‘t even call him a man. He is a little man, in more ways one. He does not know how to treat a woman – he doesn‘t know the first thing a woman wants, because it‘s always about him!     whatwasithinking2008 , CT Originaly by: anonymous 03/01/08

* Hi Angela, reading your message and thought i would touch base with you and tell you that i have come across Simon... the male $lut. you described him to a tee and the tiny penis i agree with you 100%. at the time i meet him at cargo he was all nice and sweet, he was totally into me and then not. exactly how you said. i think he had a girlfriend which i found out from a mate of his. When did you meet Simon the love me do?     Jess , Originaly by: Angela O Sydney Australia 02/24/08

* William Fischetti is a total dud. Do not be fooled by his fast talk. He is a total flake. He is a complete liar and will say anything to lead you on for his own ego gratification. The worst part is, he can‘t get it up and his other sexual skills are so lacking as to be a joke. Ladies, spread the word, this guy is defective.     Sandy , CA 02/24/08

* Angela O... This Simon sounds very familar. i meet a guy at Cargo about year & half ago, your description fits to a tee. Suit jacket and Jeans. Tiny penis, i think so!. im sure he had a girlfriend at the time from what he mates told me. but i was out to have fun and came across this flirty/selfish pig. When did you meet him? Chat soon Jess xx     Jessica , 02/19/08

* 36 yr old man going on 37 march 16th Michael"mike" robert Howe is one you def 1 u want to avoid Well for starters he has a baby on the way that I‘m carrying!thats due in april this yr.He has 2 other kids but usually just wants a babysitter when he does get them and always bitches that he has to pay support and says he refuses to pay support for this one ...that would actually b better if he actually had a job. Thinks unemployment is a way of life I‘m a single mother who like a idiot paid his bills for the last yr while he job hopped and wrote tons of bad checks but not on his account and used my front door like a revolving door always packing his bags when times got tough.He‘s so in debt and is lookn for someone to help him pay for his bankruptcy so he can get on his feet and take care of you "welder by trade" and for you to help him with his paperwork cause he plays dumb and says he doesnt know what he‘s doing next thing you know your doing it all by yourself while he sits on his ass and smokes cigs all day.Not to metion the countless times I found out he got online and joined dating & sex sites his personal fav plenty of fish he‘s there now so feel free to go on and lead him on then tell him what a piece of shit he is currently living in edwardsville.Il. quicken123456 oh ya my personal fav if he stays the nite he will ask u if ur going to get up n make him breakfast! if u do date him and he gets pissed he will threaten to leave and move to kuwait with his brother and if theres a fight dont expect him to take any of the blame its all ur fault. I‘l use this site in the future to check a guy out b4 i even say ok to a date. one more thing u have to b like a mom to him n make him look 4 work     pepe_71 , IL 02/16/08

* I met David "Buck" Owens on a website. I should have known that he was a user from the beginning. He showed up all dressed up like a charming cowboy, putting on the charm like some sick syrup, and I just lapped it all up like a fool. By the end of the first week, he starts talking about how he has had bad luck in his business and that he is behind in his car payments, and that he might lose it. Like a fool I wrote a check for 600.00. The following week it was his cell phone was going to be turned off. So stupid stupid me writes another check for 250.00. Now this whole time I am working in Texas but live in Florida. David tells me he loves me, and he wants me and my daughter to come and live with him. Well I had to go home for a week, and when I am at home, I start to realize that I have payed for every date with this man. I know this has to end. I dont mind helping people, but I didnt know this man and already he felt comfortable complaining about his financial problems and taking money from me, a single mom. When I get back to Texas, all I hear from him is about his financial problems. The night before I am due to leave again for Florida after being intimate, and it being the only time the man ever pleasured me, he hits me up for more money. It was so nice to snuggle with him, and him ask me for money, it was like he was a fricken hooker. I told him no, and he left, saying he felt so bad, and that he normally wouldnt ask for money, and that he is a proud man. blah blah blah. That last night before he came over he didnt have any pride what so ever calling me at walmarts and asking me to buy him some underwear. Anyway I got home, and he started with the I love you, not your money crap. He came to visit his aunt in Mobile, and I drove over with my daughter, once again paying for everything. I felt so sorry for this loser that I went out and bought him, his 23 year old son, his 21 year old daughter, and his 18 year old daughter christmas presents. I dont mean just a few, I mean new digital cameras, a gaming system, clothes, you name it, if they had an interest in it, or asked for it, I bought it for them. It was a quick 1200.00. I was such a sucker, but he acted so pitiful saying he wouldnt be able to give his family a christmas again, and when he got back home, he all of a sudden turned into the biggest jerk on the phone with me. Always grumpy, never asking about me. We had a fight on the phone one day and I hung up on him. One week later on his my space I see that he already is out preying on another single mom. When I call him on it, he says that he has moved on, that he has feelings for this other women, funny how he was in love with me just weeks before, but then again that was before the money stopped. Now he loves someone else, and I am sure he will use her up as well. He is a worthless piece of shit of a man, so lady‘s beware. He is a first class jerk. Charming and polite in the beginning and when he doesnt get the sympathy or money out of you, then he becomes a terrible jerk to you, and you become yesterday‘s garbage, kicked to the curb. This man is a first class asshole, and I truly hope this new woman gets wise really quick before she is in a money crunch due to him.     Donna , FL 02/01/08

* Ronald Houltram,41, of the south side of Chicago, has 8 children ranging from ages 23 to 3, by 8 different women, lives with one R. Avery and meets, and sleeps with women from his job (Auto Zone)on 87th and the Dan Ryan as well as women he meets on the internet. He has 3 different email accounts, that i know of. Ms. Avery owns the building they live in and he not only allowed me to call their place or residence when she works for the phone company, he invited me to spend the night there (they have 2 bedrooms). He told me she was an ex, that he slept in the 2nd bedroom (which is where we spent the evening together) and he was trying to get back on his feet financially.... Turns out the 2nd bedroom belonged to her late mother of less than a year! According to Ms. Avery all the lies he told me when I met him are the same lies he told her when she met him (He was living with the mother of the 3 year old when she met him). This is not just a pattern with him, it is a life style. Both Ms. Avery and myself are educated women with big hearts and I‘m assuming this would be true for the other women he has done this to. He tried to move in with me but I noticed the signs before it got to that point. He is a very charming man, says all the right things, and is awsome lover, but bottom line is he brings nothing to the table but a bunch of bullshit. There is always an excuse when it comes down to taking care of bussiness. Ladies beware!!!     A. M. , IL 01/25/08

* Do not even bother dating someone by the name of Shawn Stallworth, he‘s far too busy for you and he will string you out until you are at your breaking point. He is a master of excuses. He has his charms, but beware...he can‘t even keep those up. Word to the wise, just forget about it. I know I will.     Tasha , WA Originaly by: Woman Scorned 12/31/07

* When you see a many has noting to do all day but go to the gym and drive around eating, beware. When he is unable to tell you where he is employed and you are not able t o look up the company, beware. My cousin has been dating a big red guy name Dre and she just found out that after knowing him for 4 years, he never had a job. He had credit cards to take her out, but he never had a job. She found out that he was living off his mother, grandmother, and other women. As direct questions and be sure your boyfriend has a job. Dre, is nice looking but an air headed guy who does not believe in working.     Nyisha , DC 12/29/07

* Okay I have come to the conclusion that I absolutely suck ass. So I went out with a friend on Friday night, got wasted, met a guy, really funny, not terribly good looking but just my type. So like a moron I went "home" with him if you will. Well of course I am the type to continuously remind then that they will never call me again, I have really only done this once before when I was 18. I just got out of a shitty marriage and want to have fun while I can. So now the guy has completely blown me off, what an idiot I am and I am letting it consume me forever!!!!!!! what is wrong with me..... I am not ugly, I am not stupid, besides the fact that I went home with the guy, I am not needy, I just want to have fun. Is he defective, please put my mind at ease, oh and if you dont want anything to do with me then stop texting me back when I ask you damn questions then I will get the hint. I hate my life.     KRK , MN 12/04/07

* bullied,screamed @, pused aruond,lied to, by Adam the coward!!!!!!!!!!Give me get me fetch me.He had nothing before me no car, no job and a bad drug habit. Now he still has a drug habit which he has been lieing to me about. He trying to take me for half of everything that I own. House, furniture, everything!!!!!!!!! Watch out woman he is a parasite who sucks everyone dry until there is nothing left. His mother helps him too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sickos     broken Originaly by: bek 12/02/07

* In the state of Massachusetts gay marriage is legal. Thought it was the best thing that could have ever happened to myself and my boyfriend Jon. So on July 21, 2004 we got married, had a ceremony and reception, the whole bit. Fairy tale sounding, not! This Past June I found the the pervert in the shower with a mutual friend of ours, while I was asleep in the apartment. I had suspected something was going in for awhile, but it wasn‘t until that unfaithful night when I went in to the bathroom and took a wiz that I would never forget. Now seven months later I found out that they are engaged. I just can‘t seem to release the hurt that he caused me. I‘m so pissed off that I‘m the one that is alone, hurt, and has trust issues, when I was the one that tried everything to make the marriage work. I‘m now unhappy and miserable because I just want to move on and I can‘t find anyone who can understand the reason why I feel the way that I do. Will it ever end? Will I ever feel whole again? Will find someone who I can trust and share my life with? P.S. The bastard invited me to his wedding. You have got to be kidding me.     Dana , MA 12/02/07

* I have been seeing this fucked up guy for around 3 years give or take and I always knew he was lazy, and selfish also cheap but he is funny most of the time anway I keep seeing this one video tape( keep in mind this guy loves porn) names perversions so one day I decide this mother fucker just finished watching this tape and I‘m gonna see what it is all about. It was chicks with dicks so then I snoop more and I find on his computer a video clip of him jerking off can‘t see his face but I know its him and I go ape shit This fucking perv is a sorry piece of ass in the first place and he has the nerve to tape himself jerking off I think but I can‘t be sure that he is sending this shit online to someone. Yuck fuck him.     R.Garcia , TX 10/27/07

* To Yoko––Craig Monteilh is married, a convicted felon, a con artist, a thief. Run a background check, or Google him, or check with the police. You will find out he has stolen hundreds of thousands of dollars over his lifetime––get away fast. By the way, his wife (and exs) are white. Thanks for letting me know he is still around...the cops are looking for him for multiple charges.     Victim of Craig Monteilh , CA 10/25/07

* This is a reply to Holly Donavan of CA. If you would google Craig Monteilh‘s name, you would understand why his family has turned on him and why that person has said negatives things about him. Craig Monteilh is a sociopath and a con artist. Before saying bad things about the family who‘s had enough of Craig‘s bulls**t, you should do your research. If you were a relative you would cut him out as well. Go check him out. You‘ll see. His family wrote it to comfort the original person who wrote about him. She was only warning other woman about what Craig Monteilh is truly about and hopefully prevent it from happening to other woman. So, please google his name: Craig Monteilh. You will see that he has many other names and the results are frightening.     Another Victim, CA , CA Originaly by: Holly Donavan 10/14/07

* Hey, can the person who wrote about Hendrik Britz on matchmaker.com please contact me. I‘ve been contacted and would like to know what he is all about!!! Us girls must stick together :–) Ta!     Koekie , Southafrica 09/14/07

* well i liked this guy right. well he wanted to have sex right. well at first i was like no we can‘t i need a relasonship frist well he was like i don‘t do relasonships right well i fially gave in and fucked this guy right. And 1 mouth later he was with this other gril. i told him i thought you don‘t do relasonships and he said he was only with her because she gave him money and drugs what a dick right. And he is not even surcumsized and that is grosse the lose skin yuk.     katie , CA 09/05/07

* Don‘t date Kenzie and if you have you know the last name. To his current "wife" girlfriend that baby is probly Never gonna visit.You my dear girl should run fast and far cause Ken is the king of defective men. He is a freaking retard and showed be sterilized he is a sociopath and if there is any website to get the word out there about him this is it. Oh to all the "ex wives" who like me were dumb enough to consider marrying him its ok we all make mistakes those that talk to him still though have no connection quit subjecting yourself to that stupidity its lowering your iq And remember like Ron white says there is no fixing stupid and Kenzie is synonymous with stupid.     pisceanprincess , WA 08/18/07

* Ladies if you are ever contacted by LW Maffit from Albany/Pelham, GA, DO NOT go out with him. He is a complete loser.     Carolyn Jackson , GA 08/14/07

* Here‘s a good one. My stupid, and I think, soon–to–be ex–boyfriend is a typical stupid, damaged, divorced dad. I should‘ve known better as a single, childless woman not to date men with kids. You always get fucked in the end. So, this idiot, insensitive, self–centered douchebag decides to give his kids a "fake, family vacation" and goes with his horseface, snaggletooth, pruneface hag of an ex–wife to Virginia Beach and Washington, D.C. Naturally when I heard this, I went ape–shit on his ass. And, this asshole retard couldn‘t or more likely was too selfish to realize that this made me feel like shit, especially considering we were supposed to go to Europe and because of his piss–poor planning skills got ceremoniously canceled. In fact, this scumbag was actually miffed and surprised that I was upset and wasn‘t happy to hear about the trip. Can you believe it! For the love of all that is holy, I pray that this moron never darkens the door of a single, childless woman again. Please stick to your own counterparts, single/divorced moms.     Divorceehater , LA 08/08/07

* This is an apology to the lady who was deceived by a family member named Craig Monteilh. I‘m very sorry that you were used and hurt by such a bad person. But, I will tell you this FACT, the Bible says in the book of Romans 12:19 "Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, "Vengence is mine, I will repay, says the Lord." What this means is, that God will deal with him. You can be assured of that. Again, I‘m sorry he did this. Here is my council to you. You must forgive him and move on with your life. In doing so, it allows God to do what‘s written and avenge you. Unless you do so, YOU‘RE the one who will continue to suffer more than he. He‘s family only biologically, no one deals with him. He‘s history!     A Relative , CA 07/20/07

* I grew up on a street with a group of about 5 kids. One of those kids hung around my brother because he had a crush on me. We went to high school together, but were never involved. He was a bit of a spaz – immature. But good looking. I was just not interested back then. I was never mean to him, we were just friends. It had been 10 years since I had seen him after I graduated high school, so this year I stopped by his parents‘ house when I saw his car in the drive. I gave my number to his mom and asked her to give it to him when he woke up. When we talked on the phone, I told him our hometown newspaper had printed that he was engaged a few years back, and I wanted to know how he liked married life. He swore that he wasn‘t married, that the newspaper was mistaken. I thought it was odd, but reporters do make mistakes. So we started seeing each other. I got a call about a month later from his wife. I called his mother and asked her if he was actually married. His mom said, "not as far as I know". I didn‘t know who to believe. She called me a few days later and told me that she had talked to him and he finally admitted to her that he had been married for 3 years. It seemed really out of character. He had been seeing myself and one other girl while still married. He‘s a sergeant in the Marine Corps too. Leadership at its finest. 6/07     Lisa , MD 06/19/07

* Will the person who wrote about Craig Monteilh on Feb. 16, 2007 and signed "Stupid Fool Orange County California" please email me at the above address or call me a 714–966–7409? I‘m reporting a story about Monteilh and would like to talk to you. Thanks.     H.G. Reza , CA 06/06/07

* I had been in a terrible 2 yr relationship with this one man that I thought I wanted to marry. He cheated on me for the whole 2 yrs on and off with the same woman. He said he loved me and wanted to only be with me, but he still had some kind of contact with her. So I finally broke it off with him b/c I had had the last straw. I started dating this really great guy right after. He is so much different than any man I have ever met. He never lied to me. He never led me on. I fell in love with him. He had been married for 11 yrs and it had ended 2 yrs before he and I had met. She is seeing someone and is in the process of buying a new house with the new guy. Then out of the blue my new guy calls me and tells me that he got a call from his ex that she wants to talk about them and their relationship. He tells me that he really loves me and that he wants to be with me, but then she is the mother of his children and that he wants to make it work with her. He still loves her in some kind of way and wants to try it again. The thing is, I done that before with my ex husband 4 yrs ago and it didn‘t work. Part of me wants him to be happy no matter what, but most of me is screaming "what the fu**!" I told him that he needs to follow his heart. Then he says that his heart is telling him to be with me. But a part of him wants to get back what he had with her (11 yrs.) The worst part is I fell in love with him. I hope it doesn‘t work out with her and I hope he calls me back, b/c I could tell in his voice that he really doesn‘t want to be with her. But I told him that if he wanted to try to work things out with her that he needn‘t call me to talk or try to communicate with me at all for her sake. I don‘t want her to think that I want her man and I don‘t want to be the "other woman" now that I know about her. I want him and I told him that I did, but what kind of person would I be if I told him that he shouldn‘t do what he thinks he should. We stayed on the phone for 2 hours talking about it and I kept Dr. Phil–ing him and talking him into trying to find out what she wants. I hope it is not that she wants him back. I hope it is something completely different and I hope he calls me and tells me that. But I have a bad feeling that she wants him back b/c he is happy and as soon as she makes him miserable I will have moved on and found someone else. Why has this got to be so hard and hurtful? I think I just open myself up to get played like a fool all the time.     Amber , GA 06/05/07

* I‘d been dating a guy for over 2 months. He told me that he had been divorced for a year, as I was concerned about being the dreaded rebound girl. He pursued me and pushed to get to know me and my children (I am a single mom). I told him that I wanted to take time with him before my children were involved. He continued to do all the right things. He also had testicular cancer and had trouble in the bedroom, but I overlooked that problem because I thought we had an amazing connection. Anyway, we had plans to spend the weekend at my home and include the children, he suddenly had other things to do. He continued to send me mixed signals for 2 weeks (I miss you phone calls, to very businesslike inflection phone calls). We had plans to go to dinner, he did not call and disapeared. Then I found out he had just signed the final divorce papers, and he was only separted from his xwife 3 months before we met. I am pissed. He is dishonest and how could he push me to get involved with my children. I am glad that never happened. He had no regard for me at all. What a Eunuch!!!     Sunny , FL 05/28/07

* I used to like this boy for 2 years but i never had the guts to ask him out. finally when i was going to ask him out some girl did first and they went out for 2 years. then finnaly they broke up and i asked him out. then he said that he wasnt ready for another realationship yet. 3 days later he went out with my best friend.     Megan 12 , NH 05/27/07

* Ok, this shit has gone on for way too long. Ill give you a tip Angela Origaen If you want people to like you. and not " FUCK YOU OVER" dont be such a slut. You only make up bullshit and spin lies to cover your own insecurities love. Dont make out like i ever wanted you.. Dont flatter yourself love. You were never worth my time. You cant honestly think someone will like you or even have a remote bit of respect for you after you tell them your a slut who gets fucked by multiple guys at the same time.. there is a word for whores like you. GANGER! So slut, learn when to take a hint. FUCK OFF, i can see you have posted up things about Guliano too. Well lets just say im not suprised as you simply cant handle rejection. Grow up and learn a better way of releasing your frustrations. CAN THE ADMINISTRATOR OF THIS SITE PLEASE CAN THESE THREADS. THEY ARE IN DRIECT BREACH OF YOUR POSTING DISCLAIMER AND LIABLE FOR PROSECUTION. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!     Simon , Australia 04/29/07

* loser in quebec, in fact all the men here don‘t want to get married, just want to fuck eveything including sandra, master fu*?king twitcher, some man stealing b*$tch. she goes after taken men, asking them if they want to go to a hotel. what a skank. and men just fall for it, because of course they follow their penises instead of their heads.i am sick of loser men, that is why i am part of the f and c club. F*?k and chuck. thats right ladies, its payback time. do what they do to us. haha. they deserve it.     heddy26 , Canada 04/25/07

* So I am a college student with big plans. Life goals include lawschool, traveling, and personal success, without a man! I like to consider myself a classy woman with morals and self respect. My last boyfriend and I broke up about 5 months ago and needless to say it has been awhile since i have gotten any. So my mom actually introduced me to this guy she thought fit my "guy profile"; meaning, he is tall, blonde, with a sense of humor. THis guy, joel, turned out to be pretty ok, a little on the imature side, but arent they all? After a typical college date of bowling and pool, I figured that I had Joel pretty figured out! We exited the bowling alley and he walked me to my car. After about an hour of talking he asked if I would drive him to his motorcycle, parked on the other side of the alley. Joel didn‘t seem like a psycho rapist, so I figured what the hell. I pulled in to the right of his, very hot black sports bike, and than he started massaging me! "Whoa, now Joel, back off," I warned. He looked at me and smiled hansomely. "You know you like it", he teased. Instead of feeling totally creeped out by this all–too–friendly guy, I actually did like it. He is hot, nice, and geez the massage was feeling pretty good. His hand went around me again, and I let him do it. Rationalizing that he wasn‘t pressuring me, and I am now old enough to decide who can and can‘t touch me. He than asked "Will you give me a hug." Again, rationalizing that I did not feel threatened or confined in anyway, I did. As i leaned over he beagn kissing my neck, and than I was really hooked. From massaging to neck kissing this guys was finding all of my "weaknesses" in a matter or minutes. I mean geez the guy was like a frickin NYMPH. My mind was telling me that this was wrong, it was only our first date, but my body was definitely responding to the cute blonde guy right next to me. I managed to break the hold he had over my body, only to be dissapointed when he left. The following day was filled with text messages from Joel, from 8:30 a.m to 12:00 p.m, he was just O so interestead in little–old–me. We had date number two only two days after the first, and although I had rationed that I wasn‘t going to give into NYMPH boy, I still managed to shave everywhere and put on an adorable thong. The date was great, an art museum and improv comedy show, but the whole time my mind and body were battling over the question, "To have sex with him, or not to have sex with him?!?" Guess what ladies, my body won last night and it‘s now 9:15 p.m, needless to say I have not heard from NYMPH boy all day. The sad part is, the sex was remedial at best and now my mind is scolding my body and shouting, "I told you so, whore", every five seconds. If anyone is fighting the good fight between body and mind, I sugges you listen to your brain! Trust me, even though you have the right to have "sex like a man" (devoid of attachment/ just for pleasure) the odds are that you won‘t get anything out of your night of throwing caution to the wind!     Too smart to be domesticated for a man , FL 04/21/07

* Ok I feel like such an idiot. I was recently dating this boy (he doesn‘t deserve the title of man) and lastnight he called me at almost 2 am to tell me abouth this new girl he met!! He wnet on and on about how happy she made him and then compared us. To top it off he admitted to likeing her better!!! WHO DOES THAT! you don‘t call someone up like that and tell them that. I don‘t care how casual or honest the relationship is! Especially at 2 in the morning! Just another note the other girl has my same name and alot of the same characteristisc. DAVID YOU ARE A FREAK!!!     Amanda , ID 04/12/07

* This is an email Simon sent to me after the incident. Note how he is full of shit but i‘ll let you make up your own mind bout him. Simon J To: Angela (@hotmail.com) Subject: RE: last saturday nite Well Im sorry ok, there was definitely a communication break down.... I was actually looking for a girlfriend.... ok... I guess I was a bit put off when you told me just how soon you were going away, and I guess I was trying to distance myself... I did like you no like any other just friend... I don‘t sleep with everyone you know.. nor take them to meet my family and have dinner with them... Well I guess there were mistakes made by both parties on this one... I wish that we could have stayed friends though.. please don‘t think that just because my phone rings there is someone else... I have always had a busy phone and social life.... I was a bit confused about what you said about my ex‘s stuff being at my place... as far as I know there is not a thing left there...anyway... its not a big thing... I was just curious... Well.. I guess that pretty much sums it up... Simon     Angela , Australia 03/10/07

* A man called Hendrik Britz, living in Blouberg Strand, South Africa,using the nick Lycoming on a website called Matchmaker.co.za... and probably many more that we are not aware of. He‘s a player with no regard for the the feelings of the women he ensnares. Run!!     WOSANET Group , Southafrica 03/09/07

* Simon...U dumbass I forgive you for ur stupidity. I walked away from YOU coz u weren‘t over ur ex and I wasn‘t gonna waste MY TIME WITH YOU. Um u showed up at my work 3 times in a week just to get my number how is that not an indication of liking someone??? or maybe it was desperation? Grow a dick SIMON P.S the whole story‘s there and hun I‘M over it clearly UR NOT SNAP ANGELA     Angela , Australia 03/09/07

* I went on a fabulous date, the guy seemed to be very into me and called me a day and a half after. Then all of the sudden he dropped off the face of the earth. I hate that he got my hopes up... why even bother to call me if you are going to screw me over?!?!? I hate myself for falling for him and checking my email a million times a day and hoping the phone will ring. I hate men so much because they cannot just do what they are supposed to do. All they want to do is get laid and not do any work.     Donna , FL 02/25/07

* BEWARE: SCAM ARTIST WILL STEAL YOUR $$$ Craig Monteilh says he‘s a businessman, but he is nothing more than a slick con artist. He calls himself a "fitness consultant" and says he works with professional athletes. He dropped names, which did not impress me. He approached me at the gym, 24 Hour Fitness. He offered to help me work out for free, and said he had "supplements" that could help me lose weight and get tone. Specifically, he mentioned Ephedra and human growth hormone (HGH). I was not interested, and was able to keep him at arms length for a few weeks. One day he called and said he had a business proposition. I met with him just to get him to leave me alone, and had no intention of "investing." Needless to say, it ended up that I was stupid enough to "help him." He said he buys the product up front, in cash, then delivers it to the client for cash payment,with substantial profit. He would get my money back to me in a very quick turnaround with profit. When asked, he said this was very unusual that he would bring someone in, but all of his cash was tied up at the moment with other deals. He said that there is nothing illegal about the process, and I could not get in any trouble. His business requires discretion only because the sports associations have banned the use of HGH. Of course, I never received any money. I have called the police. He said that the police cannot touch him. I have found that he has a felony conviction for fraud and grand theft. He has been evicted more than once. He is living with someone named Sonya Ericastilla, who, I believe, knows what he does. It has been recommended that I try to find other victims. I doubt that I will get my money back through any means. Stupid Fool Orange County, California     Stupid Fool , CA 02/16/07

* This has got to be the most rediculous man I have ever dated, and I have dated A LOT of losers, believe me. I met him at work, I know big mistake right off the bat. We ended up sort of liking each other, and eventually sleeping together. Turns out he was a virgin. And now it‘s like he never wants to talk to me...EVER! He‘s freaking out saying that the things he‘s doing are out of character for him. I have never known a man to turn down sex. But this one does. Maybe he‘s gay. I‘m sick of trying. I‘m sick of throwing myself at him and getting nowhere. I‘m done, I need to find a real man, not a little boy.     Ally , Canada 02/15/07

* Hi Ladies from California, Thanks so much for your post....guess who just contacted me on the Matchmaker site...One Mr. Anthony Carnucci from Dana Point, complete with email address and phone number. Of course, I was a little leary of any one who claims they are an ex–Pro ballplayer. Plus he states that he doesn‘t want to be contacted by NATIVE SOUTHERN California girls, as he has had issues with them. Well, I clearly state that on my profile and he contacted me anyway. He is quite the charmer up front, I must say, which for me is also another "red flag". So I searched his name on the Internet and came across your blogs. I cannot thank you ENOUGH for taking the time to post these, as I know to stay away from this guy!     SkiAngel , CA 01/17/07

* I was dating a waste of space for 3 years. What‘s the saying whose the idoit, the idoit or the idoit who dates him. What a joke and I disgraced myself on numerous occasions to make him happy. Why does that fantasy of marriage turn you into a spineless person. I will in time forgive myself for being a doormat. Here‘s my tip to you ladies if it dosen‘t feel right if you have to talk yourself into it don‘t do it he is not worth it you are!!!!!     tired , MA 01/15/07

Next Page